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I can relate to this....(believe it or not)....
Oh no, that isn't what I mean. What I mean is this. I'm pretty good at observing and figuring things out. It's my job. Sometimes I point those things out, things others don't know I can figure out. Things men might rather tell me on their own rather than have me point out. Well, this sounds pretty high and mighty of me when I type it out like this, but it is true. It's just how it is. So I need to shut the fvck up. |
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The guy who wants to take you to dinner, then to bed. A therapist friend of mine says statistics show if you sleep with him within te first three dates, odds are it won't last. Haven't made my mind up if it's true or not yet. I'd love to find out where your therapist friend got those stats. You mind asking? |
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Do people realize they are so transparent? I know I am only transparent when I choose to be... and then I should go with opaque, anyhow!
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Will ask her this weekend she is flying in for he dad's birthday. Will let you know. Excellent... |
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Fri 10/24/08 10:48 AM
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The guy who wants to take you to dinner, then to bed. A therapist friend of mine says statistics show if you sleep with him within te first three dates, odds are it won't last. Haven't made my mind up if it's true or not yet. i think your therapist is wise...   if men can't wait to be with a woman  then phoooey on them...  Good things are well worth waiting for, aren't they ?  i have spoken to a few classless piggy men who wanted to take me out to dinner, but <<< only >>> if they thought there was going to be something <<< good >>> in it for them...   and anyway...seriously... the easier we make it for men,  the less they have to give to get what they want... so, we need to make it tougher for them so they have to work harder to be what they should be.... in Nature, the Females of the species look for the male who is going to take the best care of them... not some classless womanizing scammer  or a sluggish slouch or lowlife lazy bum... and don't you think that if you meet a man who wants to take you to bed so quickly & so easily that it makes you wonder how many other women he has bedded so quickly & easily it's really elementary,  Watson....  |
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i often wait 5 or more dates.....
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men and women can wait and most do wait
those that do wait - great those that dont wait - great, get your groove on (so long as mutual) live and let live - TGIF 
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of course live & let live....
and in regards to whether a relationship will last or not, i have found in my priceless wealth of experience that it is much better for me and for my Man to put sex on the back burner for a while & let it simmer nicely until it is just perfect |
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I think every situation is different, but for me first date sex never leads to anything worthwhile...
My ex husband and I didn't have sex for 3 months...that lasted 10 years. I had a BF for about 6 months and we never had sex.... that failed. I had a BF that I had sex with on the second date, and that was one of the best relationships I've ever had.... I think it just depends on the people involved. You can weed out the "dinner and sex" dates pretty easy if you just obstain they bore easily, because they themselves are boring usually and they move on.... |
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AT THIS POINT ID TAKE A WHO NOT TO.....LOL
LONGEST DRY SPELL IN HISTORY  
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Edited by
lilith401
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Fri 10/24/08 11:32 AM
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Oh gosh yes, good point. I'd rather have a bad date than bad sex.
Ohhhh my. That read bad sex and bad sex.... I think, well. You all got it.
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Relationships work when both parties work hard at it and want it to work, and yes that includes sex (in my eyes
) Have had relationships before which lasted regardless of whether I had sex on first or thirtieth date. Just follow your instincts, as what works for one may not work for all. |
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Relationships work when both parties work hard at it and want it to work, and yes that includes sex (in my eyes ) Have had relationships before which lasted regardless of whether I had sex on first or thirtieth date. Just follow your instincts, as what works for one may not work for all. And that's the short of it. You can't quit working at it. People get married, spend a few years together, then wonder why the 'magic' is gone. Well gee... maybe get off your butt and maintain your gd relationship. It isn't rocket science. Some people put more effort in to their hobbies than they do in to their relationships. |
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Yes, but sex is the best hobby ever.
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Relationships work when both parties work hard at it and want it to work, and yes that includes sex (in my eyes ) Have had relationships before which lasted regardless of whether I had sex on first or thirtieth date. Just follow your instincts, as what works for one may not work for all. And that's the short of it. You can't quit working at it. People get married, spend a few years together, then wonder why the 'magic' is gone. Well gee... maybe get off your butt and maintain your gd relationship. It isn't rocket science. Some people put more effort in to their hobbies than they do in to their relationships. what's your hobby???  |
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Yes, but sex is the best hobby ever. I hear practice makes perfect. |
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Yes, but sex is the best hobby ever. 
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Yes, but sex is the best hobby ever. I hear practice makes perfect. I like to practice.
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Yes, but sex is the best hobby ever. I hear practice makes perfect. I like to practice. I'm done practicing. I'm ready for the regular season. |
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Relationships work when both parties work hard at it and want it to work, and yes that includes sex (in my eyes ) Have had relationships before which lasted regardless of whether I had sex on first or thirtieth date. Just follow your instincts, as what works for one may not work for all. And that's the short of it. You can't quit working at it. People get married, spend a few years together, then wonder why the 'magic' is gone. Well gee... maybe get off your butt and maintain your gd relationship. It isn't rocket science. Some people put more effort in to their hobbies than they do in to their relationships. what's your hobby??? I can't really say. But it requires me to have latex gloves and a supply of rohypnol 
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