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I have a precursor to "Who not to date"
Who not to reply to? I've got someone emailing me(here)that asks me to IM on Yahoo, but won't here. Is that strange? A warning sign? Or am I just paranoid? |
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I have a precursor to "Who not to date" Who not to reply to? I've got someone emailing me(here)that asks me to IM on Yahoo, but won't here. Is that strange? A warning sign? Or am I just paranoid? ding ding ding ding 
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sat 10/18/08 09:56 AM
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This one hits a note with me. When I read a profile that says "my kids come first" it's a negative reaction for me. For some reason I see it as them taking a defensive posture even before we've met. This combined with "If you're looking for such and such, just keep walking.....", whether I am or am not looking for it, I get this negative vibe that moves me right along. I see a lot of those where they say something like, "I am a single mother of two, and my kids are my world." And then they say, "If you don't like that, then you can go **** yourself because that's the way it is." And, to me, it's like they've already decided that hostility is the answer....!! I mean, I don't want to date anyone with kids, but I'm not going to tell you to go **** yourself if you have them! that is so disgusting Lex....  you don't deserve that....  being that you don't have kids... I hope you can start out fresh with someone who hasn't had any children yet...  or with someone who has children but who truly has her priorites in order and with someone who is a Real Lady  not a foul, gutter- mouthed ~ poor excuse for a lady  and someone who'll appreciate you fully and not play games with your heart or mind |
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I have a precursor to "Who not to date" Who not to reply to? I've got someone emailing me(here)that asks me to IM on Yahoo, but won't here. Is that strange? A warning sign? Or am I just paranoid? major red flags, dear Avoid him like the plaque  |
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I have a precursor to "Who not to date" Who not to reply to? I've got someone emailing me(here)that asks me to IM on Yahoo, but won't here. Is that strange? A warning sign? Or am I just paranoid? major red flags, dear Avoid him like the plaque I was sure it was so. Glad to have backup though. I'm new to al this, but not totally stupid. Thanks ladies. |
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I have a precursor to "Who not to date" Who not to reply to? I've got someone emailing me(here)that asks me to IM on Yahoo, but won't here. Is that strange? A warning sign? Or am I just paranoid? Doesn't make sense does it???? Ask him "WHY?" |
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I have a precursor to "Who not to date" Who not to reply to? I've got someone emailing me(here)that asks me to IM on Yahoo, but won't here. Is that strange? A warning sign? Or am I just paranoid? Doesn't make sense does it???? Ask him "WHY?" He's "new to the site" and "doesn't know how to IM from here." However, he DID figure out how to turn off his IM. |
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sat 10/18/08 10:15 AM
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it is pretty obvious...
 people who are deceitful & dastardly  have many things to hide  they want to conduct their dirty deeds in the dark hidden from the light and they think that a private IM  will provide them with just that see... Here... the owners of the site can view what has been said in the Mingle 2 IM if need be  but it may be a little harder to track with Yahoo or MSN IM |
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This one hits a note with me. When I read a profile that says "my kids come first" it's a negative reaction for me. For some reason I see it as them taking a defensive posture even before we've met. This combined with "If you're looking for such and such, just keep walking.....", whether I am or am not looking for it, I get this negative vibe that moves me right along. I see a lot of those where they say something like, "I am a single mother of two, and my kids are my world." And then they say, "If you don't like that, then you can go **** yourself because that's the way it is." And, to me, it's like they've already decided that hostility is the answer....!! I mean, I don't want to date anyone with kids, but I'm not going to tell you to go **** yourself if you have them! choice, choice, choice, and preference.... |
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I have a precursor to "Who not to date" Who not to reply to? I've got someone emailing me(here)that asks me to IM on Yahoo, but won't here. Is that strange? A warning sign? Or am I just paranoid? Doesn't make sense does it???? Ask him "WHY?" They want money.....
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I avoid married with children
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oh, what about the "i know your type girl"....she doesn't read much because all she has to do is look at the cover LOL
then there is the "sun girl"....where the world always revolves around her...how was your day? it doesn't matter because it isn't about her haha last and certainly not least (and my personal favorite) the "phone queen"....good luck having a conversation to her face without having her text or call someone...also, get with this girl if you want your phone bill to be equivelent to the national debt LOL |
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I like misogyny guy. The man who has dated only psycho biotches and they all do him wrong. He can't figure it out, he is a nice guy. His heart just keeps getting broken over and over and over and over.... The profile is a litany of why he is single and the detailed story of his last partner....
It goes something like this: I was married for three years and I loved her with all my heart and soul, I treated her kids like they was mine own. She came home one day and just threw me out and I found out she was a liar and cheating on me and I did nothing to deserve that. I want to meet an honest good woman who want hurt me like she broke my heart. If you are her I'd like to hear from you. I like bowling, shooting pool, hunting and quiet nights on the couch with a good movie. I think, Ohhhh, oh no you have a gun? (hunting) |
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I like misogyny guy. The man who has dated only psycho biotches and they all do him wrong. He can't figure it out, he is a nice guy. His heart just keeps getting broken over and over and over and over.... The profile is a litany of why he is single and the detailed story of his last partner.... It goes something like this: I was married for three years and I loved her with all my heart and soul, I treated her kids like they was mine own. She came home one day and just threw me out and I found out she was a liar and cheating on me and I did nothing to deserve that. I want to meet an honest good woman who want hurt me like she broke my heart. If you are her I'd like to hear from you. I like bowling, shooting pool, hunting and quiet nights on the couch with a good movie. I think, Ohhhh, oh no you have a gun? (hunting)  that is a frightening thought  Lilith oh, and they wonder why good woman choose to be single The problem is obviously Not Always ours |
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I like misogyny guy. The man who has dated only psycho biotches and they all do him wrong. He can't figure it out, he is a nice guy. His heart just keeps getting broken over and over and over and over.... The profile is a litany of why he is single and the detailed story of his last partner.... It goes something like this: I was married for three years and I loved her with all my heart and soul, I treated her kids like they was mine own. She came home one day and just threw me out and I found out she was a liar and cheating on me and I did nothing to deserve that. I want to meet an honest good woman who want hurt me like she broke my heart. If you are her I'd like to hear from you. I like bowling, shooting pool, hunting and quiet nights on the couch with a good movie. I think, Ohhhh, oh no you have a gun? (hunting) That's the guy who was told repeatedly that she was not happy with his week long hunting expeditions his 2 night a week pool tourneys, and his one night a week bowling league.... "when all of a sudden she left me" really means.....She told him for a year if he didn't shape up she was shipping out, and she did....and he can't figure out why that happened.... |
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Oh surely you've seen this profile, haven't you? It is closely followed by this guy that e-mailed Lily and I this long mail stating he was not a wife beater and he only wants a woman who won't call the cops on him. She told me about it and then I got it the next day.... it was a RIOT. Of course, when i wasn't interested it was because I was a biotch.
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Oh surely you've seen this profile, haven't you? It is closely followed by this guy that e-mailed Lily and I this long mail stating he was not a wife beater and he only wants a woman who won't call the cops on him. She told me about it and then I got it the next day.... it was a RIOT. Of course, when i wasn't interested it was because I was a biotch. It's only because you replied to him, I read it and blocked him right away.... HELL NO. |
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Oh surely you've seen this profile, haven't you? It is closely followed by this guy that e-mailed Lily and I this long mail stating he was not a wife beater and he only wants a woman who won't call the cops on him. She told me about it and then I got it the next day.... it was a RIOT. Of course, when i wasn't interested it was because I was a biotch. It's only because you replied to him, I read it and blocked him right away.... HELL NO. But it was FUN.....
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I have a precursor to "Who not to date" Who not to reply to? I've got someone emailing me(here)that asks me to IM on Yahoo, but won't here. Is that strange? A warning sign? Or am I just paranoid? I got one like that..he doesn't like the rules on this site. He wants you on yahoo so he can be disgusting and send you naked pics. He wanted control right away..very pushy...:Red Flag: : Red Flag: |
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Why can't it be the ones who are talented in bed with mad skills that are pervy like that? Huh, huh?
'Cus these pervs must be virgins, who would go out with them.....
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