Worst case is sore heels.

There's a show "What not to wear" I think there should be a thread, who not to date.

Let's start with the "I'm not over my ex guy"

He can be spotted in many different ways.

He is still friends with the ex, and when she calls he abandons all other plans to cater to her every whim but they are "just friends"

The "the fact that my ex even exsists on this planet guy" is not over his ex. Not that your ex doesn't annoy you at times, but this guy will rant and rave about his ex when he hasn't talked to her in 4 months.

The "sad guy" who is sad when he hears "that" song come on the radio and says things like "That was our song"

The "gossip" guy. Wants to gossip about his ex "do you know who she is dating now? Oh, boy I hope she is happy, that is all I want for her, but that guy is gonna hurt her."

Please add your "who not to date list"

how bout the date that removes his wedding ring just for dating purposes and has to be home before the spouse finds out.

Like you can't see the tan line?

or the constant checking over his/her shoulder

Especially when the cell starts ringing.....constantly.

I got this in response to my profile on another site... but it is the same as written here on this one. Note, this is NOT a mail I received from a site member or in any way relaetd to this site.

" I have read your profile a second and a third time. I am afraid that I might not meet up to your standards as I am just a very unusual but common person. My house is not spotless but it is not filthy. You seem like a woman that is far more inclined toward the uppity New England gentleman. :(

I am just as likely to be under a car, on a roof or in a suit on any given day. Yet, I do find it romantic at times to kiss a woman and leave a grease mark on her cheek. It seems that you would prefer a man that never gets dirty.

See, I am the type that is just as likely to take you out walking my dog along a creek, scoop you up and carry you into and out of the water before lying you down on grass just to watch the clouds drift by. I might take you out to a nice dinner only to end up walking through high grass just to hold hands and experience the star-studded night sky in the private and silent but romantic wanderings of two people seemingly alone in the world.

It seems like you enjoy fine automobiles, and I am a down to earth guy who drives an older van that sways when you go around corners and can get me where I want and when I want. That includes a wild ride with a woman on the first date to break the ice and really get to know them like we had been friends forever.

I am also afraid that I might not be expensive enough for you as I am the type of guy who will bring you flowers, but they will either be freshly picked from somewhere or may come from WalMart, and I would not want you to throw them back at me. :(

I might buy a bottle of wine only to find out it is not expensive enough for you. I would hate to be hit with a full bottle of wine.

I am also the type of guy that just wants to see a woman smile and that usually means being an idiot sometimes. Like scooping you up and dancing you around walmart, the park or even in the middle of a road just to see the look on your face that tells the world that not only are you important but you know the world knows. I am likely to bend you backwards in a crowd and kiss you passionately enough to make the other women envy the ground you walk upon.

But I think you are the type of woman who expects a guy to be in a suit and act serious at all times. :(

So, that is me and I may be wrong--I wish I am--but I belief that if the encounter does not create a lasting and romantic memory every now and then it is not worth having and only becomes boring."

the amazing disapearing guy:

when you think that the relationship is going fine and dandy he magicly disapears... one day he calls and says "i love you baby, i gotta go for a bit but ill talk to you later ok?" then you never hear from him again..
never calls, never writes, never responds to you again...