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definition of redneck foreplay:
shut up and git in the truck |
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Edited by
franshade
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Fri 09/26/08 11:51 AM
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it doesn't really matter what the woman thinks as long as she doesn't come out of the kitchen and bother the men (lowers head and heads back into kitchen)  
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He's entitled to his opinion, and good luck to him and his Latin girlfriend.  Big mistake to think Latinas are docile and subservient  Wondering a man who takes time and thinks so negatively against American woman and pities them - what does he offer? Is he merely trying to self inflate his self esteem, his ego? Morning Shadow  This sounds more like Korean women than Latin. And if they want to 'serve' a man .. more power to them. While they are at it .. maybe they could do my laundry and cook for me too 
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He's entitled to his opinion, and good luck to him and his Latin girlfriend. Big mistake to think Latinas are docile and subservient Wondering a man who takes time and thinks so negatively against American woman and pities them - what does he offer? Is he merely trying to self inflate his self esteem, his ego? Morning Shadow This sounds more like Korean women than Latin. And if they want to 'serve' a man .. more power to them. While they are at it .. maybe they could do my laundry and cook for me too Oh helll noooooooo I only mentioned Latin girlfriend because it was mentioned on the orig posting but you and I know betta!!!!  |
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Edited by
Plainome
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Fri 09/26/08 12:57 PM
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What is so funny is that a big percent of the American Men that think this way are controlling. They tend to want a woman to wait on them hand and foot it ends up all about them. Not only that there are many of these relationships that turn abusive. You see American Women has learned that they deserve the same respect as the American Men do. That a relationship is not all about the Men but the Women as well. We give in life what we receive. Once the Foreign Women learn that they have rights as well and can be whome ever they want to they will become American Women as well. Then what do those men do but leave them for another one they can control. Alot what you said Kristi was going through my mind and is true, i was just looking at it as alot of the younger generation has lost what was passed down like what your mother may of taught you  I have more to say about this thread.....but let us start here. What my mother taught me.......... My mother taught me that when your husband calls you lazy and a *****, to suck it up and give him a silent treatment. My mother taught me that when your husband slaps your teenage daughter across the face and bloodies her lips because she asked why you couldn't do the dishes (since she went to church that night) that you sit there and do/say nothing. My mother taught me that when life gets hard, go sleep it off. Ok, enough of the negatives.... My PARENTS taught me how to keep a house. How to be abusive towards children when they don't behave as you want them to, meanwhile presenting any old example you want.......... I'm of the "younger" generation...........and I'd have to say that a lot of younger women are they way they are, because we don't have a lot of true men around, either. I'm not lumping all men my age, but I was married for seven years to someone who was not a "man" in a true sense of the word. The longest he held a job while we were together was nine months. He played video games more than he played games with the kids. Whenever something was bothering him he did a "vanishing" trick into his computer. There is a difference between being an INDEPENDANT woman and a selfish egotistical one. I want a man I can love/respect/honor and cherish..........but this doesn't happen just because he is of the male gender. He needs to be able to prove to me that he can take care of himself and what is his. He needs to be able to show compassion and concern for those around him. He needs to be able to let me in as much as I let him in. He needs to have control of his own emotions, but yet be able to show that he has them................. See my point. It isn't about being an "American" woman, anyway. How many of us can afford to hire a maid and nanny?? Other women in other countries who have the funds, do the same.... I prefer to clean my own house, because I know how I want it done. I can cook anything that has a recipe, and can make something yummy out of whatever is left in the fridge (within reason). I have yet (even the relationship that I am in, though I'm trying to work on it and help) to find a man who is stronger than I, who can stand up to me when I need it, but not be mean or cruel about it.........who can be an example to me and my children............who has his life in order..........and is under the age of my father.......................... So, some women are taught that a man is a man.........because he is born one and has a schlong...............the rest of us realize that just as being a woman doesn't make you a "lady" being born male doesn't make you a "MAN" and it takes a REAL man to make a lady want to dedicate her life/heart/soul to him.......in more than just words. |
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If I may add.........if a man is having a hard time finding a woman who is a "lady" then it is his choices, because we are around.
The problem lies in the fact that a lot of young men want barbie dolls........but they want those barbie dolls to not be egotistical......... Why do you think they spend hours at the gym, money on tanning, money on manicures, pedicures, etc. It is because they are egotistical. You want a model, but you don't want the "diva" attitude............lol. Find a real woman then, but buddy, u have to be a real man to be able to handle her. |
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I believe in equality. I believe that a woman should take care of a man as much as a man should take care of a woman. On that note, I am also a firm believer that men's jobs in the home should be the same as a woman's. There shouldn't be that classification of what is a person's role. The problem is that there are quite a few women who believe that " equality " is defined as " I don't have to do sh*t as far as keeping the relationship going ". They seem to ignore the fact that, contained in the word equality, is the word EQUAL. They have been ingrained with the ideas that they are more intelligent than men, that we ( men ) are nothing but a bunch of beer swilling, fat, lazy jerks who care about nothing more than when we will be getting laid next. These are the same women who p*ss and moan when a guy cheats on them. Well...if a guy is not getting what he needs ( mentally AND physically ) from the one he is with, chances are that he is going to start trying to find someone who DOES give him what he needs. Getting what you need/want is YOUR responsiblity.........and if you are in a relationship and are unhappy.......... breaking up and moving on is not the same as cheating........ What you described is not a man not getting his needs met at home so goes somewhere else to get them, but is a selfish egotistical person..........who wants the comfort of home, but isn't willing to give up the excitement of travel. It is not someone elses responsibility to make you happy. And here is a very important note.........are you listening............THEY CAN'T. No one else can make you happy anyway, so why should they try?? A partner adds to your happiness, not gives it to you..... The problem with relationships is that people think others are supposed to make them happy. People don't take responsibility for themselves. If I'm upset, it must be because you are/n't doing this or that........which means I have to go find someone else. They do, only to find that their problem is STILL there............. That is when they start to generalize and make it the "man" "woman's" fault. It isn't them is it all those around them. If you are having problems in your life and relationships..........instead of blaming the other person/people take a good hard look at yourself.........as that is the only thing you can change anyway. |
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I had a bizness that made hundreds a day.The money goes.I much rather have a decent person than someone that just bought me things.I don't care about being taken out to dinner it's just food.I don't believe in assuming everyone is alike if I did I'd believe that all men are cheating,lying,skum of the earth.
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definition of redneck foreplay: shut up and git in the truck Yeah Baby!! |
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I got this from another site. A collegue emailed me this writing: When an American man pitches woo to a foreign woman, it is a direct and bold statement that the man is not going to play the game that the American feminists so desperately want. A foreign woman is not (yet) burdened by the clash of expectations that American woman cannot cope with. A foreign woman typically has no problem with making a man happy because her culture tells her that a man’s happiness reflects well on her own success as a woman. Foreign women know that if they give love, they will receive love. They know that the unintended consequence of independence is loneliness. The sad stereotype of the shrill, unfriendly, independent American career woman is becoming stronger and stronger. The equally repellent stereotype of the overwrought and unfriendly soccer mom shuttling her kids around while trying to keep her independence is also becoming part of our cultural landscape. The scowling American woman is all too common. It’s not men making her scowl. It’s her inability to see reality and choose appropriately that is making her scowl. I am not angry with American women. I merely pity them. I pity them for embracing feminism without any critical thought. I pity them for making men the enemy and not loving partners. I pity them for their unsuccessful struggle with their own rules. I pity them for not understanding that life is about compromise and that compromise is not weakness. When an American woman asks about my job, my car, my home I can only sigh in dismay. Men are not simply wallets to be looted. Nor are we all rapists and gorillas. We are complex and interesting humans who need respect and love, as do women. Pathetically, American women have been brainwashed into thinking that giving love and respecting men is somehow evil and wrong. No matter, American women can wallow in misery as much as they want. I will happily and respectfully court my Latin girlfriend and let independent and unfriendly American women enjoy their cats. This is what i posted on that thread and wanted everyone to know i don't believe all this letter and what your about to read what i sais on that thread wasn't ment as to all of the younger generation. Did any of you notice that almost all the women that made there comment were 40 and above? I asked this because the world is run by the younger generation as far as this letter goes. The younger generation when it comes to women do not know how to cook a home cook meal or even appreciate doing that for a man. the simple thing that can actually make a man feel good among other thing that men do for women theses days. Now mind you. I know alot of men have problems so in one sence i blame them as well. The women in todays world as far as the younger generation goes. they expect to be taken out all the time, baught flowers, travel, etc etc. I bring this up because in the younger generation when it come to women. They expect the man to take care of her but do not really give anything back. This might seem rude and i do appologize for the women that don't understand this. But women that were brought up in the younger generation and from my experience think because they have something beteen there legs that that is all they need to give. I been with 30 women in my life time and not one of them has given as much as i have. And this is why i have never been in love with any women i been with and thats because i believe being in love is actually giving your intire being to the one your with. The women that are on this post may of been brought up in a time where they did take care of there men better then these days, but lack to pass it down... Heck my mother taught me that YEARS ago!!! 
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I got this from another site. A collegue emailed me this writing: When an American man pitches woo to a foreign woman, it is a direct and bold statement that the man is not going to play the game that the American feminists so desperately want. A foreign woman is not (yet) burdened by the clash of expectations that American woman cannot cope with. A foreign woman typically has no problem with making a man happy because her culture tells her that a man’s happiness reflects well on her own success as a woman. Foreign women know that if they give love, they will receive love. They know that the unintended consequence of independence is loneliness. The sad stereotype of the shrill, unfriendly, independent American career woman is becoming stronger and stronger. The equally repellent stereotype of the overwrought and unfriendly soccer mom shuttling her kids around while trying to keep her independence is also becoming part of our cultural landscape. The scowling American woman is all too common. It’s not men making her scowl. It’s her inability to see reality and choose appropriately that is making her scowl. I am not angry with American women. I merely pity them. I pity them for embracing feminism without any critical thought. I pity them for making men the enemy and not loving partners. I pity them for their unsuccessful struggle with their own rules. I pity them for not understanding that life is about compromise and that compromise is not weakness. When an American woman asks about my job, my car, my home I can only sigh in dismay. Men are not simply wallets to be looted. Nor are we all rapists and gorillas. We are complex and interesting humans who need respect and love, as do women. Pathetically, American women have been brainwashed into thinking that giving love and respecting men is somehow evil and wrong. No matter, American women can wallow in misery as much as they want. I will happily and respectfully court my Latin girlfriend and let independent and unfriendly American women enjoy their cats. This is what i posted on that thread and wanted everyone to know i don't believe all this letter and what your about to read what i sais on that thread wasn't ment as to all of the younger generation. Did any of you notice that almost all the women that made there comment were 40 and above? I asked this because the world is run by the younger generation as far as this letter goes. The younger generation when it comes to women do not know how to cook a home cook meal or even appreciate doing that for a man. the simple thing that can actually make a man feel good among other thing that men do for women theses days. Now mind you. I know alot of men have problems so in one sence i blame them as well. The women in todays world as far as the younger generation goes. they expect to be taken out all the time, baught flowers, travel, etc etc. I bring this up because in the younger generation when it come to women. They expect the man to take care of her but do not really give anything back. This might seem rude and i do appologize for the women that don't understand this. But women that were brought up in the younger generation and from my experience think because they have something beteen there legs that that is all they need to give. I been with 30 women in my life time and not one of them has given as much as i have. And this is why i have never been in love with any women i been with and thats because i believe being in love is actually giving your intire being to the one your with. The women that are on this post may of been brought up in a time where they did take care of there men better then these days, but lack to pass it down... Heck my mother taught me that YEARS ago!!! Nice and sweet. I like that 
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And probably too submissive for the 21st century but hey...it works...I had a sucessful marriage.
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I think there is also a big difference between American men and Non- American. I have been married to a European and an american man.
I found that my french husband always showed me respect as a woman and shared in the household without being asked. My American husband used to complain that I wasn't making as much money as his friends wives as he dropped his pants in the middle of the floor and walked away, expecting me to pick-up after him. |
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