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Topic: MEN..is this your view of the American feminine mentality at
TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Fri 09/26/08 10:28 AM
Depends if it can be fixed......if its violence then no but if its who keeps leaving the lid off the toothpaste etc.......then it can be fixable.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 09/26/08 10:30 AM
Depends if it can be fixed......if its violence then no but if its who keeps leaving the lid off the toothpaste etc.......then it can be fixable. Awwwwwwwwwww you left the toothpaste cap off again Shaddddddddddooooooooooow!!!

Amagurl Joined Tue 08/19/08 Posts: 752	Fri 09/26/08 10:30 AM
It's also so much easier for people to say f*ck it when a problem arrises...if it's such a disposable thing then why even venture into the relationship in the first place.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 09/26/08 10:34 AM
It's also so much easier for people to say f*ck it when a problem arrises...if it's such a disposable thing then why even venture into the relationship in the first place. This is true.......and in the past I have done this.......ran away. I think I have matured past the petty stuff though....

beautifulsoul08 Joined Thu 09/18/08 Posts: 3564	Fri 09/26/08 10:34 AM Edited by beautifulsoul08 on Fri 09/26/08 10:38 AM
I asked this because the world is run by the younger generation as far as this letter goes. The younger generation when it comes to women do not know how to cook a home cook meal or even appreciate doing that for a man. the simple thing that can actually make a man feel good among other thing that men do for women theses days. Now mind you. I know alot of men have problems so in one sence i blame them as well. The women in todays world as far as the younger generation goes. they expect to be taken out all the time, baught flowers, travel, etc etc. I bring this up because in the younger generation when it come to women. They expect the man to take care of her but do not really give anything back. This might seem rude and i do appologize for the women that don't understand this. But women that were brought up in the younger generation and from my experience think because they have something beteen there legs that that is all they need to give. I been with 30 women in my life time and not one of them has given as much as i have. And this is why i have never been in love with any women i been with and thats because i believe being in love is actually giving your intire being to the one your with. The women that are on this post may of been brought up in a time where they did take care of there men better then these days, but lack to pass it down... k as a YOUNGER woman im 20 i would like to sit here and bash the hell out of you but i wont. i cook. i cook homecooked meals daily. i work i dont expect anyone to take care of me/ im physically sick and i dont take help EVER i dont expect anything of a man except that he stays faithful and keeps his **** in his pants which i havnt found many that can do that i expect respect but then again grown women do too. but to say that the younger generation as a whole. you know nothing about younger people. i know so many people my age who have so much on them. my 17 year old cousin has been raising her brother and sister so her mom can work to support them because their dad was an ass and abandoned them. she does everything for them. younger people do know how to do work. ugh im so angry i cant even think straight. oh and as a side note. every man ive dated hasnt done a damn thing for me. my ex of 2 yrs never once ever gave even a christmas card or a phone call for christmas yet i gave him presents. i was sicker than a dog and i spent all day in the kitchen cooking him cookies and brownies because i knew it'd make him smile my other ex didnt have a good enough job and i payed for everything and cooked our meals. i never once asked for anything in return. but you know what that goes unnoticed because supposively women dont take care of a man.

Amagurl Joined Tue 08/19/08 Posts: 752	Fri 09/26/08 10:39 AM
It's also so much easier for people to say f*ck it when a problem arrises...if it's such a disposable thing then why even venture into the relationship in the first place. This is true.......and in the past I have done this.......ran away. I think I have matured past the petty stuff though.... I think that comes with achieving some level of maturity...or just leaving the selfish stage..whichever you want to put there..lol

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 09/26/08 10:40 AM
beautifulsoul - dont get mad, this was merely a generalization and not meant as an insult to today's youth. (I think)

Amagurl Joined Tue 08/19/08 Posts: 752	Fri 09/26/08 10:42 AM
beautifulsoul - dont get mad, this was merely a generalization and not meant as an insult to today's youth. (I think) Those darn kids...geesh grabs walker and shuttles out of the room heading for the MCL

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 09/26/08 10:43 AM
beautifulsoul - dont get mad, this was merely a generalization and not meant as an insult to today's youth. (I think) Those darn kids...geesh grabs walker and shuttles out of the room heading for the MCL

beautifulsoul08 Joined Thu 09/18/08 Posts: 3564	Fri 09/26/08 10:44 AM
beautifulsoul - dont get mad, this was merely a generalization and not meant as an insult to today's youth. (I think) i dont care if its generalization or not. i work so damn hard but the older generation they dont see that they just see the few teenagers who dont do anything. i hold open a door for an elderly couple and they give me weird looks. its like we're all expected to have no respect and be lazy. and im sick of it. stop generalizing us. we are all different just like the older generation are all different.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Fri 09/26/08 10:47 AM Edited by TheShadow on Fri 09/26/08 10:50 AM
I asked this because the world is run by the younger generation as far as this letter goes. The younger generation when it comes to women do not know how to cook a home cook meal or even appreciate doing that for a man. the simple thing that can actually make a man feel good among other thing that men do for women theses days. Now mind you. I know alot of men have problems so in one sence i blame them as well. The women in todays world as far as the younger generation goes. they expect to be taken out all the time, baught flowers, travel, etc etc. I bring this up because in the younger generation when it come to women. They expect the man to take care of her but do not really give anything back. This might seem rude and i do appologize for the women that don't understand this. But women that were brought up in the younger generation and from my experience think because they have something beteen there legs that that is all they need to give. I been with 30 women in my life time and not one of them has given as much as i have. And this is why i have never been in love with any women i been with and thats because i believe being in love is actually giving your intire being to the one your with. The women that are on this post may of been brought up in a time where they did take care of there men better then these days, but lack to pass it down... k as a YOUNGER woman im 20 i would like to sit here and bash the hell out of you but i wont. i cook. i cook homecooked meals daily. i work i dont expect anyone to take care of me/ im physically sick and i dont take help EVER i dont expect anything of a man except that he stays faithful and keeps his **** in his pants which i havnt found many that can do that i expect respect but then again grown women do too. but to say that the younger generation as a whole. you know nothing about younger people. i know so many people my age who have so much on them. my 17 year old cousin has been raising her brother and sister so her mom can work to support them because their dad was an ass and abandoned them. she does everything for them. younger people do know how to do work. ugh im so angry i cant even think straight. oh and as a side note. every man ive dated hasnt done a damn thing for me. my ex of 2 yrs never once ever gave even a christmas card or a phone call for christmas yet i gave him presents. i was sicker than a dog and i spent all day in the kitchen cooking him cookies and brownies because i knew it'd make him smile my other ex didnt have a good enough job and i payed for everything and cooked our meals. i never once asked for anything in return. but you know what that goes unnoticed because supposively women dont take care of a man. I didn't mean as a whole, most know me on here. it was just an insite. yes there are women in the younger generation that do take care of what they feel they need. But over all, this goes both ways men to that don't have the respect and it's a on going thing that will keep going in a circle because the way society is today. My post was to look at the over all situation and your one of countless women out in this world. the fact is. parents today do not teach there kids. it was said already. there pushed off on comps, video games, here is some money, get lost! and it's a fact of the way socity lives othere then a few. yes you may be upset, but this was not ment as all women. You have to look at reality and facts of the way are schools are, how we work, and all the things that keep the parents away from they'er kids and things they learn on there own growing up from the parent not being around. I'm just sharing here of what is really going on in todays world.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 09/26/08 10:53 AM
beautifulsoul - dont get mad, this was merely a generalization and not meant as an insult to today's youth. (I think) i dont care if its generalization or not. i work so damn hard but the older generation they dont see that they just see the few teenagers who dont do anything. i hold open a door for an elderly couple and they give me weird looks. its like we're all expected to have no respect and be lazy. and im sick of it. stop generalizing us. we are all different just like the older generation are all different. I was trying to explain not to excuse the posters response. Try and not take things here so personally unless directed at you, here you will find a wide range of different personalities, views and opinions.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Fri 09/26/08 10:54 AM
it doesn't really matter what the woman thinks as long as she doesn't come out of the kitchen and bother the men

Amagurl Joined Tue 08/19/08 Posts: 752	Fri 09/26/08 10:56 AM
it doesn't really matter what the woman thinks as long as she doesn't come out of the kitchen and bother the men How dare you..you pig! I can't believe...oh wait..that's called sarchasm...sounds familiar..hehee

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Fri 09/26/08 11:01 AM
neener neener neener

JDR1976 Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 192	Fri 09/26/08 11:01 AM
I have read the post and try to understand what he was talkin bout and I see he just reposting something he read and try to show and tell to us but no matter how you read it over and over it is talkin bout american women the younger gen. But I am 32 years old and all the men that I know are jerks. Why cuz I am a plus size and they dont want to give me a chance. But yet men cry and say I cant find a good woman or when u do find her u cheat.

Amagurl Joined Tue 08/19/08 Posts: 752	Fri 09/26/08 11:02 AM
neener neener neener blows a rasberry at ya

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Fri 09/26/08 11:02 AM
but don't generalize and project your own experiences to apply to ALL the men/women in the world.

Amagurl Joined Tue 08/19/08 Posts: 752	Fri 09/26/08 11:06 AM
Generalization is a bad habit that all humans share

OneMoreTimeAround Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 3649	Fri 09/26/08 11:06 AM
it doesn't really matter what the woman thinks as long as she doesn't come out of the kitchen and bother the men A southern man's most romantic word...sensous. "Sensous up, get me a beer." (Jeff Foxworthy)