Topic: Ok this is
buttons's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:49 AM

which one?


the current is me...ready to go to the pool.....got my goggles on....i like to swim for exercise.....

the other is my version of "downward dog"....i practice yoga....but not bikram .it is too darn hot....

i like a good zinfindel , champagne, and have been accused of being a "great" kisser...not really certain about that...but i'll take it....spanking is not really my thing but i will oblige if someone is into it...have too be near the water ....think i will move when my kids get older....what else.....ummm.....i love women ..and and raising 2 girls...my focus is to show them(by example) what a "man" is...so they will know when a guy is full of "....it"

my question is how did "you"(the ladies in general) get so jaded, and why do i have to pay for it???.....trust is vacant memory for many......for this i am truly saddened..
laugh laugh the yoga one and i was teasing yalaugh :wink:

i think many women that have been hurt put up a wall and dont want to trust anyone... myself i dont beleive in that if i did id never have anyone.. due to what ive been through...i believe trust is a earned thing yes.. the more time you are with someone the more you trust them... but dont start out with distrust.. cause that isnt fair...<men do it too> probabaly more women do though:wink: also i notice that more women ponder on the past than men do... i think cause they in the most part are more emotional...flowerforyou

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Wed 09/24/08 07:50 AM

no se', bonita....

I'm a white girl what's the difference. 1 was born here in America the other in Ole Mexico

buttons's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:51 AM

Ok this question is more for the women. Is it me or are spanish men better in bed than white guys? I have NOTHING against white men but I've been with 2 white men and 2 spanish men and the spanish men were a whole lot better
no clue i could not answer honestly since that has never happened for me.. werent many spanish or hispanics here till my later yrs so never dated one< not that i wouldnt of>flowerforyou

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Wed 09/24/08 07:52 AM


Ok this question is more for the women. Is it me or are spanish men better in bed than white guys? I have NOTHING against white men but I've been with 2 white men and 2 spanish men and the spanish men were a whole lot better
no clue i could not answer honestly since that has never happened for me.. werent many spanish or hispanics here till my later yrs so never dated one< not that i wouldnt of>flowerforyou

Later years? you're still young looking

buttons's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:59 AM



Ok this question is more for the women. Is it me or are spanish men better in bed than white guys? I have NOTHING against white men but I've been with 2 white men and 2 spanish men and the spanish men were a whole lot better
no clue i could not answer honestly since that has never happened for me.. werent many spanish or hispanics here till my later yrs so never dated one< not that i wouldnt of>flowerforyou

Later years? you're still young looking
laugh laugh wish i felt young .. i was married pretty much from 21- 38. didnt date much... never been asked out by a spanish guy..didnt date much till then lol....and thanks im a grammas age but not a gramma yetlaugh laugh my oldest is 24

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Wed 09/24/08 08:08 AM




Ok this question is more for the women. Is it me or are spanish men better in bed than white guys? I have NOTHING against white men but I've been with 2 white men and 2 spanish men and the spanish men were a whole lot better
no clue i could not answer honestly since that has never happened for me.. werent many spanish or hispanics here till my later yrs so never dated one< not that i wouldnt of>flowerforyou

Later years? you're still young looking
laugh laugh wish i felt young .. i was married pretty much from 21- 38. didnt date much... never been asked out by a spanish guy..didnt date much till then lol....and thanks im a grammas age but not a gramma yetlaugh laugh my oldest is 24
Define gramma age. My older sister was a gramma at 21. Granted it was because she married a man who already had kids but still.

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Wed 09/24/08 08:12 AM


Because there is work do to



like? and if that is the case does it not in your opinion take work to have a woman.....work men this is a great thing....but if I hear I can't find anyone blah blah...I will blast your as*



You go girl!!!bigsmile drinks drinks

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Wed 09/24/08 08:16 AM
one for the women.....

what's with cards?

birthday, thinking of you, happy happy, thank you, ad infinitum ...........

are they really for me...or do they make you feel good that you are expressing these thoughts to me...on paper....

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Wed 09/24/08 08:18 AM

one for the women.....

what's with cards?

birthday, thinking of you, happy happy, thank you, ad infinitum ...........

are they really for me...or do they make you feel good that you are expressing these thoughts to me...on paper....
Cards just let you know we remember you and things going on with you

feralcatlady's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:19 AM


which one?


the current is me...ready to go to the pool.....got my goggles on....i like to swim for exercise.....

the other is my version of "downward dog"....i practice yoga....but not bikram .it is too darn hot....

i like a good zinfindel , champagne, and have been accused of being a "great" kisser...not really certain about that...but i'll take it....spanking is not really my thing but i will oblige if someone is into it...have too be near the water ....think i will move when my kids get older....what else.....ummm.....i love women ..and and raising 2 girls...my focus is to show them(by example) what a "man" is...so they will know when a guy is full of "....it"

my question is how did "you"(the ladies in general) get so jaded, and why do i have to pay for it???.....trust is vacant memory for many......for this i am truly saddened..
laugh laugh the yoga one and i was teasing yalaugh :wink:

i think many women that have been hurt put up a wall and dont want to trust anyone... myself i dont beleive in that if i did id never have anyone.. due to what ive been through...i believe trust is a earned thing yes.. the more time you are with someone the more you trust them... but dont start out with distrust.. cause that isnt fair...<men do it too> probabaly more women do though:wink: also i notice that more women ponder on the past than men do... i think cause they in the most part are more emotional...flowerforyou



TRUST IS NOT EARNED....it should be a given until the person gives you a reason not to trust. This is why so many people can't get past issues....HELLO It's called the past for a reason....learn from it and then it go. Trust should be there PERIOD....then if they give you reason not to trust then it is taken away and must be earned. But honestly why the hell would you not trust some from the get go...makes no sense to me...No wonder we have so many screwed up people.

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Wed 09/24/08 08:22 AM



which one?


the current is me...ready to go to the pool.....got my goggles on....i like to swim for exercise.....

the other is my version of "downward dog"....i practice yoga....but not bikram .it is too darn hot....

i like a good zinfindel , champagne, and have been accused of being a "great" kisser...not really certain about that...but i'll take it....spanking is not really my thing but i will oblige if someone is into it...have too be near the water ....think i will move when my kids get older....what else.....ummm.....i love women ..and and raising 2 girls...my focus is to show them(by example) what a "man" is...so they will know when a guy is full of "....it"

my question is how did "you"(the ladies in general) get so jaded, and why do i have to pay for it???.....trust is vacant memory for many......for this i am truly saddened..
laugh laugh the yoga one and i was teasing yalaugh :wink:

i think many women that have been hurt put up a wall and dont want to trust anyone... myself i dont beleive in that if i did id never have anyone.. due to what ive been through...i believe trust is a earned thing yes.. the more time you are with someone the more you trust them... but dont start out with distrust.. cause that isnt fair...<men do it too> probabaly more women do though:wink: also i notice that more women ponder on the past than men do... i think cause they in the most part are more emotional...flowerforyou



TRUST IS NOT EARNED....it should be a given until the person gives you a reason not to trust. This is why so many people can't get past issues....HELLO It's called the past for a reason....learn from it and then it go. Trust should be there PERIOD....then if they give you reason not to trust then it is taken away and must be earned. But honestly why the hell would you not trust some from the get go...makes no sense to me...No wonder we have so many screwed up people.



i agree....the only reason trust needs to be earned is if its been broken in the first place....

buttons's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:25 AM

one for the women.....

what's with cards?

birthday, thinking of you, happy happy, thank you, ad infinitum ...........

are they really for me...or do they make you feel good that you are expressing these thoughts to me...on paper....
for me they are nice... but being treated well means all the world to me...a valentine card is always nice...act your thoughts they dont need to be on paperflowerforyou

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Wed 09/24/08 08:25 AM



which one?


the current is me...ready to go to the pool.....got my goggles on....i like to swim for exercise.....

the other is my version of "downward dog"....i practice yoga....but not bikram .it is too darn hot....

i like a good zinfindel , champagne, and have been accused of being a "great" kisser...not really certain about that...but i'll take it....spanking is not really my thing but i will oblige if someone is into it...have too be near the water ....think i will move when my kids get older....what else.....ummm.....i love women ..and and raising 2 girls...my focus is to show them(by example) what a "man" is...so they will know when a guy is full of "....it"

my question is how did "you"(the ladies in general) get so jaded, and why do i have to pay for it???.....trust is vacant memory for many......for this i am truly saddened..
laugh laugh the yoga one and i was teasing yalaugh :wink:

i think many women that have been hurt put up a wall and dont want to trust anyone... myself i dont beleive in that if i did id never have anyone.. due to what ive been through...i believe trust is a earned thing yes.. the more time you are with someone the more you trust them... but dont start out with distrust.. cause that isnt fair...<men do it too> probabaly more women do though:wink: also i notice that more women ponder on the past than men do... i think cause they in the most part are more emotional...flowerforyou



TRUST IS NOT EARNED....it should be a given until the person gives you a reason not to trust. This is why so many people can't get past issues....HELLO It's called the past for a reason....learn from it and then it go. Trust should be there PERIOD....then if they give you reason not to trust then it is taken away and must be earned. But honestly why the hell would you not trust some from the get go...makes no sense to me...No wonder we have so many screwed up people.
I know that's right trust until your done wrong

buttons's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:28 AM




which one?


the current is me...ready to go to the pool.....got my goggles on....i like to swim for exercise.....

the other is my version of "downward dog"....i practice yoga....but not bikram .it is too darn hot....

i like a good zinfindel , champagne, and have been accused of being a "great" kisser...not really certain about that...but i'll take it....spanking is not really my thing but i will oblige if someone is into it...have too be near the water ....think i will move when my kids get older....what else.....ummm.....i love women ..and and raising 2 girls...my focus is to show them(by example) what a "man" is...so they will know when a guy is full of "....it"

my question is how did "you"(the ladies in general) get so jaded, and why do i have to pay for it???.....trust is vacant memory for many......for this i am truly saddened..
laugh laugh the yoga one and i was teasing yalaugh :wink:

i think many women that have been hurt put up a wall and dont want to trust anyone... myself i dont beleive in that if i did id never have anyone.. due to what ive been through...i believe trust is a earned thing yes.. the more time you are with someone the more you trust them... but dont start out with distrust.. cause that isnt fair...<men do it too> probabaly more women do though:wink: also i notice that more women ponder on the past than men do... i think cause they in the most part are more emotional...flowerforyou



TRUST IS NOT EARNED....it should be a given until the person gives you a reason not to trust. This is why so many people can't get past issues....HELLO It's called the past for a reason....learn from it and then it go. Trust should be there PERIOD....then if they give you reason not to trust then it is taken away and must be earned. But honestly why the hell would you not trust some from the get go...makes no sense to me...No wonder we have so many screwed up people.



i agree....the only reason trust needs to be earned is if its been broken in the first place....
i was just saying that trust can be earned at higher levels in a relationship<lets face it... the more you are with someone the deeper the trust. rather it be a romantic relationship or just a friendship>... but that distrust should never be there unless there is a reason for it... then there isnt much of a relationship anymore anyway....

buttons's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:30 AM
distrust is earned but so is a deeper trust for one...flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:32 AM
your more and likely to let your friend of 7 yrs hold on to 1000 dollars for you than you would someone u trust but have only known for 2 months:smile: that is deeper trust due to time....and that is earned because they havent done anything in that 7 yrs to make u distrust them.....

buttons's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:34 AM
ps gramma age meaning natural gramma is oh about 40laugh but im past gramma age since my daughter has been with her bf for 10 yrslaugh laugh <the 24 yr old>:wink:

broncosrock's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:36 AM
Someone who is "separated" is still married, IMO.flowerforyou

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Wed 09/24/08 08:41 AM

ps gramma age meaning natural gramma is oh about 40laugh but im past gramma age since my daughter has been with her bf for 10 yrslaugh laugh <the 24 yr old>:wink:
oh ok I'm sure you're not pushing for the grandkids yet though right

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Wed 09/24/08 08:42 AM
Edited by buttons on Wed 09/24/08 08:42 AM


ps gramma age meaning natural gramma is oh about 40laugh but im past gramma age since my daughter has been with her bf for 10 yrslaugh laugh <the 24 yr old>:wink:
oh ok I'm sure you're not pushing for the grandkids yet though right
on their wedding day i will belaugh laugh