Topic: Ok this is
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Wed 09/24/08 06:34 AM

Your chance: You can use this thread to ask the guys anything you want to know...Good bad or indifferent. Ask them anything that bugs you or that you want to know...


Guys: Please answer the questions honestly and no it's a secret answers allowed.

And guys please feel free to ask the gals questions also.

I will start this is a question that I got from one of the chicas....


why if a guy seems interested does he do the famous Houdidni act and disappear for days at a time. Is it that hard to text or say thinking of you...blah blah blah.?



I have two sons. I have ALLLL the answers I need :laughing:

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Wed 09/24/08 06:37 AM
except you don't date your sons...There has to be something in your dating experience that makes you go hmmmmmm why did he do that? Or what the heck was that all about?

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Wed 09/24/08 06:37 AM
your declaration is a cry for help disguised with humor....

laugh just kidding..

.kids know everything...i ,sometimes, wonder how i made it to this point without their knowledge to influence me....



Your chance: You can use this thread to ask the guys anything you want to know...Good bad or indifferent. Ask them anything that bugs you or that you want to know...


Guys: Please answer the questions honestly and no it's a secret answers allowed.

And guys please feel free to ask the gals questions also.

I will start this is a question that I got from one of the chicas....


why if a guy seems interested does he do the famous Houdidni act and disappear for days at a time. Is it that hard to text or say thinking of you...blah blah blah.?



I have two sons. I have ALLLL the answers I need :laughing:

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Wed 09/24/08 06:43 AM

why do some view separated as the same as divorced???


....most states have a short waiting period from the filing date 30 60 days..... do it already.. i was divorced in 31 days


I was divorced in about 4 months, short by most standards. I'm with ya.......I didn't even want the divorce, but when I saw there was no changing things.....I'm the one that got it done. No use messing around with the past, was time to get on with life and heal.

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Wed 09/24/08 06:46 AM
Edited by heathersaysgobucks on Wed 09/24/08 06:49 AM

Another ? to ask is how long and why are they just separated? Me I couldn't afford a lawyer and legal aide wouldn't help cause I made to much

I couldn't afford a lawyer either. I "swapped" services with her and worked on her computer in order to pay off some of the divorce. The rest I worked my *ss off to pay for. I'm not saying that was possible in your case, but it worked for me.

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Wed 09/24/08 06:47 AM
theres a kitty running loose on these here threads

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Wed 09/24/08 06:49 AM
Edited by Fade2Black on Wed 09/24/08 06:49 AM

except you don't date your sons...There has to be something in your dating experience that makes you go hmmmmmm why did he do that? Or what the heck was that all about?




they give me all the info I need .. especially Mistah Wisdom himself.

And yes ladies ... Men WILL tell you whatever you want to hear to get you in bed (or whatever else they want from you LMAO).. Andrew vows it's true. :wink:

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Wed 09/24/08 06:54 AM
Read all 5+pages of this & to me, most of these comments revolve around control & lack of manners.
I learned I was a controling person & needed to accept what I was given, decide how it made me feel, let the other person know my feelings & accept their reply. I CANNOt control anything but me.

Manners seem to be a lost virtue. Very few seem to use them & rudeness irritates EVERYONE. Gender has nothing to do with it.

Just my thoughts.

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Wed 09/24/08 07:05 AM


Another ? to ask is how long and why are they just separated? Me I couldn't afford a lawyer and legal aide wouldn't help cause I made to much

I couldn't afford a lawyer either. I "swapped" services with her and worked on her computer in order to pay off some of the divorce. The rest I worked my *ss off to pay for. I'm not saying that was possible in your case, but it worked for me.
oh I got the divorce It was called Office Max and the judge to say its legal

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Wed 09/24/08 07:10 AM
Edited by buttons on Wed 09/24/08 07:13 AM
"He's either exceptionally absent minded, or he thinks that the whole " If I act like I don't give a sh*t she'll chase after me " thing is a good idea."



at what age do guys like to quit playing chasing games? and just go with the flow if they really like someone ? and dont feel the need to be chased?laugh man i remember in kindergarden i chased boys lol in first grade i grew uplaugh

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Wed 09/24/08 07:16 AM
Edited by bzmom01 on Wed 09/24/08 07:17 AM

"He's either exceptionally absent minded, or he thinks that the whole " If I act like I don't give a sh*t she'll chase after me " thing is a good idea."



at what age do guys like to quit playing chasing games? and just go with the flow if they really like someone ? and dont feel the need to be chased?laugh man i remember in kindergarden i chased boys lol in first grade i grew uplaugh

They don't

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Wed 09/24/08 07:21 AM
Edited by heathersaysgobucks on Wed 09/24/08 07:23 AM

oh I got the divorce It was called Office Max and the judge to say its legal





OH? Sorry then. Thought I read in another thread that you were going through the divorce process.

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Wed 09/24/08 07:23 AM
Edited by buttons on Wed 09/24/08 07:26 AM


"He's either exceptionally absent minded, or he thinks that the whole " If I act like I don't give a sh*t she'll chase after me " thing is a good idea."



at what age do guys like to quit playing chasing games? and just go with the flow if they really like someone ? and dont feel the need to be chased?laugh man i remember in kindergarden i chased boys lol in first grade i grew uplaugh

They don't
amazing to me... i dont chase or want to be chased... yes show a little interest .. but why would one want to be begged for and want to be stalked? seems to be a self esteem issue to me..one could loose the opportunity of a lifetime doing this... if the other one isnt going to chase them.... but then again maybe not... since it seems to be a control issue as well if they like the other person but wants them to chase them

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Wed 09/24/08 07:26 AM
i am not smart enough to play games...if i am interested you know it.....if i only want to be friends...you know it....

i am a skinnerist !




"He's either exceptionally absent minded, or he thinks that the whole " If I act like I don't give a sh*t she'll chase after me " thing is a good idea."



at what age do guys like to quit playing chasing games? and just go with the flow if they really like someone ? and dont feel the need to be chased?laugh man i remember in kindergarden i chased boys lol in first grade i grew uplaugh

They don't
amazing to me... i dont chase or want to be chased... yes show a little interest .. but why would one want to be begged for and want to be stalked? seems to be a self esteem issue to me..

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Wed 09/24/08 07:27 AM


oh I got the divorce It was called Office Max and the judge to say its legal





OH? Sorry then. Thought I read in another thread that you were going through the divorce process.

That's ok I probably did post while we were still in the process. It's final now

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Wed 09/24/08 07:33 AM
next question............laugh laugh laugh laugh ddn what are u waiting for in that one picture?laugh laugh i hope its a spankingrofl rofl rofl rofl rofl not that im into spankings but sounded better:laughing: :wink: :wink: smooched

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Wed 09/24/08 07:43 AM
which one?


the current is me...ready to go to the pool.....got my goggles on....i like to swim for exercise.....

the other is my version of "downward dog"....i practice yoga....but not bikram .it is too darn hot....

i like a good zinfindel , champagne, and have been accused of being a "great" kisser...not really certain about that...but i'll take it....spanking is not really my thing but i will oblige if someone is into it...have too be near the water ....think i will move when my kids get older....what else.....ummm.....i love women ..and and raising 2 girls...my focus is to show them(by example) what a "man" is...so they will know when a guy is full of "....it"

my question is how did "you"(the ladies in general) get so jaded, and why do i have to pay for it???.....trust is vacant memory for many......for this i am truly saddened..

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Wed 09/24/08 07:44 AM
Ok this question is more for the women. Is it me or are spanish men better in bed than white guys? I have NOTHING against white men but I've been with 2 white men and 2 spanish men and the spanish men were a whole lot better

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Wed 09/24/08 07:46 AM
Spanish or hispanic?

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Wed 09/24/08 07:47 AM
no se', bonita....