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If any ? is open for asking. What is it about the lil school girl thing that is such a turn on?
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Why is it when you go out on a date with a guy; he's made the invitation say to go sighteeing after lunch or to supper and a weekend movie and he has obviously made an effort, dropped what you expect is not small change to him especially a single parent or in my age bracket maybe a dependent mother and you buy yourself and him a soda walking around or bring back popcorn from a trip to the powder room and they act like you shot there dog? Guys are always complaining about gold diggers and playing fair and you try to reciprocate a little kindness and they take as you are "too independent" or whatever. Or if you send a thank you note for the outing you are blowing "them off", clingy, or bucking for another date. What happen to ladies acting like ladies?
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honestly.....guys think differently then women.... if you lined up 20 doors and behind each door was a goal. ladies would have every door op-en seeing what they wanted first, guys are still going one door at a time. so remember when you are yelling because we forgot your office luncheon......its prolly because we were still stuck on getting the oil changed in your car!!! jmho ~~~wolf~~~ 
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Why is it when you go out on a date with a guy; he's made the invitation say to go sighteeing after lunch or to supper and a weekend movie and he has obviously made an effort, dropped what you expect is not small change to him especially a single parent or in my age bracket maybe a dependent mother and you buy yourself and him a soda walking around or bring back popcorn from a trip to the powder room and they act like you shot there dog? Guys are always complaining about gold diggers and playing fair and you try to reciprocate a little kindness and they take as you are "too independent" or whatever. Or if you send a thank you note for the outing you are blowing "them off", clingy, or bucking for another date. What happen to ladies acting like ladies? 
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why dont you ask the guy who is doing it for an explanation,cause i dont really do that  Well I totally would do that except there are just to many that do it. Now I am not talking about a casual friend that you are talking to....I mean when you have established a connection and talk for a few days straight then disappear off the face of the earth...so wrong on so many levels. |
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I will start this is a question that I got from one of the chicas.... why if a guy seems interested does he do the famous Houdidni act and disappear for days at a time. Is it that hard to text or say thinking of you...blah blah blah.? Oh yeah...recently had this happen. Made what is now my final contact but I think at least an "I'm done" would be appropriate & courteous -just so I know nothing serious is WRONG with him - like sick or hurt or dead (which I know he is not.) |
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why if a guy seems interested does he do the famous Houdidni act and disappear for days at a time. Is it that hard to text or say thinking of you...blah blah blah.? Passive Aggressive |
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why if a guy seems interested does he do the famous Houdidni act and disappear for days at a time. Is it that hard to text or say thinking of you...blah blah blah.? ljcc1964 have talked EVERDAY since ealy June. We just met face to face at the end of August, and spent 4 beautiful days together. I think about her all the time when I'm awake, or asleep. I can't answer this question. and you don't need to love.....could you teach the twinkleheads that it is not that difficult to stay in touch and women dig it. So why am I on the waiting end from women I have established contact with, got a conversation going, then nothing?? The ladies pull the "Houdini" too. |
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it's not! for me
If any ? is open for asking. What is it about the lil school girl thing that is such a turn on? |
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why do some view separated as the same as divorced???
....most states have a short waiting period from the filing date 30 60 days..... do it already.. i was divorced in 31 days |
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I look at it this way: If a man is interested, he'll show it..and I'll know it. If I can't tell....what's the point? I just don't see the point in putting my time and effort....and heart...into a relationship with a man that I have to wonder if he's into me. If he disappears for days and days.....he might as well stay disappeared. Thats not the point.....most of the gals complain about this...they are interested things are going great...and then bam they disappear and when they come back and act like nothing....why is it so hard to text or leave an offline message anything except dissappear. |
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Conflict Avoidance
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If any ? is open for asking. What is it about the lil school girl thing that is such a turn on? Sweet and innocent-not bitter or jaded. Playful and fun-not worried about everything. |
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I look at it this way: If a man is interested, he'll show it..and I'll know it. If I can't tell....what's the point? I just don't see the point in putting my time and effort....and heart...into a relationship with a man that I have to wonder if he's into me. If he disappears for days and days.....he might as well stay disappeared. Thats not the point.....most of the gals complain about this...they are interested things are going great...and then bam they disappear and when they come back and act like nothing....why is it so hard to text or leave an offline message anything except dissappear. |
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Edited by
awolf1010
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Tue 09/23/08 07:52 PM
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The ladies pull the "Houdini" too. Shame on them too! |
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Ok I was taught to wait until after the one who's paying orders (if its dinner) to order. I.E. He's paying and orders the most expensive thing then it's ok to order the same, but don't order the most expensive thing if he insist I order first. Is that what you're talking about? Politeness goes along way and gets more than one bargains for. In other words you want another date show politeness
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Yea but he was always great and keeping in touch....that is the whole point......if you like someone and the attraction is there...then keep in touch......it's not that difficult.
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I look at it this way: If a man is interested, he'll show it..and I'll know it. If I can't tell....what's the point? I just don't see the point in putting my time and effort....and heart...into a relationship with a man that I have to wonder if he's into me. If he disappears for days and days.....he might as well stay disappeared. Boy I am going to sound like a dinosour on this one but if in business you have a new client you follow up isn't a gentleman usually follow up a date with a thank you to the lady for her time in a day or two? I sure am not clearing my calendar and committing my time and money to date a guy who has no more manners that that. What knocks me out is the divorced guys who know what the routine a woman goes for costs for and outing; not like they are dateing virgins anymore. Or the guys that squawk that a woman dates more than one guy. Why not if you don't know when you are going to see some guy again why stay on stand by. Your commodity just isn't that hard to replace. |
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Why is it so many men have a difficult being honest with the woman they are involved with, such as dating one and dating another at the same time...why not just tell the first one you have no interest any more...instead of dragging it on and on until you get caught and claim "But I didn't want to hurt you"...let me tell you from experience, damned recent experience..it hurts a hell of a lot more to catch you guys with another woman than it does if you are completely honest with us. Save a girl some pain and just be freaking honest.
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