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Well, I guess I've just been lucky in the past. My ex is 41, and her kid's out of the house with a kid of her own! No kids living at home...that works too. Make up your mind, dude. First you say that you want them to neither have nor WANT children...then you turn around and say that you are ok with them having kids that don't live at home. You are going to have a whole lot more luck finding one of the latter than you are of the former. If they don't live at home, i.e. they're grown and out of the house, it's basically the same as NOT having kids. |
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Well, I guess I've just been lucky in the past. My ex is 41, and her kid's out of the house with a kid of her own! No kids living at home...that works too. Make up your mind, dude. First you say that you want them to neither have nor WANT children...then you turn around and say that you are ok with them having kids that don't live at home. You are going to have a whole lot more luck finding one of the latter than you are of the former. If they don't live at home, i.e. they're grown and out of the house, it's basically the same as NOT having kids. Ummm....no...it isn't. There will still be times when the kids, even though they aren't at home, are going to run into trouble, or have some kind of problem. You would still have to deal with their mother while she is trying to help them. Any mother who is truly a mother is going to help her children whether you like it or not. |
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Edited by
littleredhen
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Thu 10/16/08 08:43 AM
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Well, I guess I've just been lucky in the past. My ex is 41, and her kid's out of the house with a kid of her own! No kids living at home...that works too. Make up your mind, dude. First you say that you want them to neither have nor WANT children...then you turn around and say that you are ok with them having kids that don't live at home. You are going to have a whole lot more luck finding one of the latter than you are of the former. If they don't live at home, i.e. they're grown and out of the house, it's basically the same as NOT having kids. Ummm....no...it isn't. There will still be times when the kids, even though they aren't at home, are going to run into trouble, or have some kind of problem. You would still have to deal with their mother while she is trying to help them. Any mother who is truly a mother is going to help her children whether you like it or not. Absolutely Guy & the thing to remember is this, her love for her kids does not diminish her love for you, but your resentment of it will. |
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Am I going to be on time to work today?
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whats for lunch?
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Well, I guess I've just been lucky in the past. My ex is 41, and her kid's out of the house with a kid of her own! No kids living at home...that works too. Make up your mind, dude. First you say that you want them to neither have nor WANT children...then you turn around and say that you are ok with them having kids that don't live at home. You are going to have a whole lot more luck finding one of the latter than you are of the former. If they don't live at home, i.e. they're grown and out of the house, it's basically the same as NOT having kids. Ummm....no...it isn't. There will still be times when the kids, even though they aren't at home, are going to run into trouble, or have some kind of problem. You would still have to deal with their mother while she is trying to help them. Any mother who is truly a mother is going to help her children whether you like it or not. Absolutely Guy & the thing to remember is this, her love for her kids does not diminish her love for you, but your resentment of it will. Precisely. |
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Am I going to be on time to work today? Probably not....lol |
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Am I going to be on time to work today? LOL I am I am turning the computer off at 11 am. Damn work is cutting into my Mingleing. |
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whats for lunch? I am still trying to figure that out myself...lol |
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subway turkey on wheat
don't forget the olives |
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Am I going to be on time to work today? Probably not....lol You're good. |
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Have a nice afternoon everyone. I am being disaplined today & getting 2 hours OT at work. I am always amazed at how fast time goes while on here.
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Have a nice afternoon everyone. I am being disaplined today & getting 2 hours OT at work. I am always amazed at how fast time goes while on here. Have a good day. :-) |
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Have a nice afternoon everyone. I am being disaplined today & getting 2 hours OT at work. I am always amazed at how fast time goes while on here. Have a good day. :-) I'm still hungry, whats for lunch |
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I'm still not sure..lol
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Ummm....no...it isn't. There will still be times when the kids, even though they aren't at home, are going to run into trouble, or have some kind of problem. You would still have to deal with their mother while she is trying to help them. Any mother who is truly a mother is going to help her children whether you like it or not. She says once they're out of the house, they're on their own! |
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Ummm....no...it isn't. There will still be times when the kids, even though they aren't at home, are going to run into trouble, or have some kind of problem. You would still have to deal with their mother while she is trying to help them. Any mother who is truly a mother is going to help her children whether you like it or not. She says once they're out of the house, they're on their own! Uh huh. And she can SAY that until she is blue in the face. It doesn't change the fact that if one of her kids has problems, and she is a good mother, she WILL help them. |
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Ummm....no...it isn't. There will still be times when the kids, even though they aren't at home, are going to run into trouble, or have some kind of problem. You would still have to deal with their mother while she is trying to help them. Any mother who is truly a mother is going to help her children whether you like it or not. She says once they're out of the house, they're on their own! Just want to make sure I understand, now that my kids are gone and on their own I'm no longer their mother? NOT!!!!!!!!! |
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Edited by
KymmieSue
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Thu 10/16/08 09:54 PM
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Ummm....no...it isn't. There will still be times when the kids, even though they aren't at home, are going to run into trouble, or have some kind of problem. You would still have to deal with their mother while she is trying to help them. Any mother who is truly a mother is going to help her children whether you like it or not. She says once they're out of the house, they're on their own! Sorry, double post. Sorry JustAGuy, had to comment. |
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Oh great and wise JustAGuy...
Where do the socks the washer eats end up and why does the washing machine never eat two that match? (I realize this is a "relationship advice catagory" so I'll justify this in terms of having better chance at a relationship if my socks match! LOL!) |
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