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 I'm sorry for the pain and suffering that this person put you through.
Now if only you had stopped over at my place while you were on vacation.
Folks, it really wasn't pain and suffering as there were no deep feelings. We hadn't been dating long and he was drama king from day three. I'm more apathetic than it must seem. I really just want to increase his self-awareness. Beach~ Shoulda woulda coulda. I agree. You are right and I am wrong. You're the best and deserve the best.
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Wow!
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Thanks, Wendy. Good to see you. 
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Thanks, Wendy. Good to see you.
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Thanks, Wendy. Good to see you.
Glad to hear it.... |
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Sorry to hear things did not work out girl
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The person I was just dating is an A-Hole. Going to send this via snail mail..... thoughts? 1. You are a drama king…. 2. You got ****-faced drunk when meeting my best friend. 3. You told my best friend that I had larger breasts than your ex, while I was sitting there. 4. You repeatedly interrupted our conversations to say they were “too deep” and could we change the subject. 5. You talk about how you think your penis is small on a daily basis. 6. You never asked about me or tried to get to know me. 7. Everything is about you. EVERYTHING. 8. When presented with a topic you often lied and later decided to be honest. After days of a keeping up the lie. 9. You compliment me and then make a self-deprecating remark at the end to draw attention back onto yourself. 10. You are indecisive. Translation: weak spirited & weak minded. 11. You have no idea who you are. 12. You start and end every phone call with what a rough day you had and how tired you are. 13. You have a trousseau of emotional baggage and expect others to deal with it. 14. You are rude and uncouth, with little to no manners or filter. 15. You give out too much information. 16. You are the most selfish person in bed I’ve ever met. 17. You said things to me on the first date you had no right to. Emo….. 18. You said on date two that you meant things said on date one but shouldn’t have said them. 19. Four days later, you said all things said on date one were a joke. 20. You forced me to have the same slow down conversation three times, while I was one the same even keel let’s be friends all along. 21. You yelled at me when I tried to tell you that you hurt my feelings. 22. You drink entirely too much. 23. You have extreme control and anxiety issues, yet try to pass yourself off as laid back. 24. You don’t have a poor memory as you claim, but rather you just don’t give a **** about anyone but yourself so you don’t pay enough attention. 25. You tell me on Monday to come over whenever, that I have carte blanche. Your words. 26. Tuesday you ignore me completely. 27. Wednesday you send a dear Jane letter via e-mail. 28. You are an extremely self-centered person with very low self-esteem. 29. You are single because you want to be, because you really only want to care about other people. You don’t really care…. But you think you want to. 30. If you wanted to change, you would. You choose not to. 31. You think it’s okay to treat people poorly and do not at all live by the Golden Rule. 32. You can only date down, as the strong smart women are simply too complicated for you. We are honest and don’t play games. And you don’t get that. 33. Finally, you are an azzhole because you thought I was upset at your email. You never knew me, as you did not take the time to try. I took the time to write all this out in the hopes that the next woman you met will be treated better. I know I didn’t deserve the way you treated me, and I don’t want anyone else to have to be subjected to it either. If you’re not willing to change, then just stop dating. Really. You are an azzhole. 
See # 1, #7 & #15. |
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:pitchfork,,,,,,,,,, DAM
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OMG you just described up my ex-fiance Donnie
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Edited by
lilith401
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Wed 09/03/08 11:27 AM
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Why LittleHen, thank you for your post!
Romeo, Thank you dear. Really.
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Why LittleHen, thank you for your post!
Romeo, Thank you dear. Really.
Anytime 
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Wed 09/03/08 11:34 AM
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time for that Dale Carnegie refresher course for him!!
 - whoa!
and, i'm GLAD things did not "work out" with him!! ((lilith)) 
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You described my x boyfriend...almost perfectly, BUT you forgot...
34. You refuse to hang out with your friends with out me. 35. You tell your friends I won't let you hang out with them. 36.As soon as we split...you are always with your friends. 37. You wanted a baby and now that we aren't together....screw the baby. 38. Your short, so you think you have something to prove. SOrry this happened to you...Lots of men (didn't say all) are jerks. |
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Jill brought up a really good point.... how does someone acquire 33 reasons in three and a half weeks?????
Worse, why did I let him. I am so not the hardazz I sometimes think. I'm a girl deep down there and in my relationships, that comes out. A sweet, kind, generous one who believes in the best of others. Thanks, S1owhand.
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Just forget about the azzhole Lilith. If you give him that, it shows him you are still thinking of him, which equates into a possible chance. Just drop it like a bad habit. I don't think Lilith sending this means there's a possible second chance. Good for Lilith for saying exactly what she thinks. |
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OMG you just described up my ex-fiance Donnie
Damn girl. It was that bad between you two. And I can vouch that Lilith was very.....VERY....nice with this letter. Trust me....she could have been much more harsh had she chosen to, but she isn't like that. |
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Goof, you are a good friend... to many. Thanks for being a real man, amongst others on this site....
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Goof, you are a good friend... to many. Thanks for being a real man, amongst others on this site.... Thank you Lilith. What can I say. My peeps on here get full "Goof" protection and advice. 
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Hey Lilith, sorry things didn't work out better for you...
 so are you going to send this certified? just kidding
brush him off like lint on a jacket; not worth a second thought more. keep fishing, fishing is half the fun
good luck to ya |
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I'm already over it, I was yesterday. The email was just an impetus to send the actual letter.
I really believe good might come out of the letter. Besides, it fits with my MO.... as I sent him the sexy letter last week. 
Thanks, Fran. And Singme, you got that right. TY. This is just how I close the book. Or pamphlet, leaflet... in this case. We didn't date long. |
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