Oh babe you don't even know the half of it!

Kick em to the curb, good thing there...you deserve better.

Thank you very much, Fear.

I read the list to my best friend, the one referenced in the list itself. She laughed until she almost lost it. She reminded me of another uncouth comment I'd forgotten. He said to her, "Not that I want to date you or anything, but how old are you?"...

WE NEVER LIKED HIM.....

I know. You were right. I was stupid and patient and doormatty.

I know. You were right. I was stupid and patient and doormatty.

I know. You were right. I was stupid and patient and doormatty.

I know. You were right. I was stupid and patient and doormatty.

I know. You were right. I was stupid and patient and doormatty.

But what did you think of the list???????

Over it or not, it still sucks to have to have gone through it. You're a class act lilith... and a good egg.

Thank you for saying so.

So, as a man, if you received a letter such as this, how peeved would you be? I'm thinking he's not going to show it to his friends, as I made the penis and sex comments. I did handwrite it as well....

I am so sorry, you don't need to be treated that way. You are a special young lady and dont forget.

PS give me the letter so I can deliver it in person.

Darn, Mrtap... I already posted it to the maildrop. It will go out tomorrow, delivered Friday or Saturday I would guess.

I'd give you the addy too, if not for that.

Trust me sweetie I would of love to deliver it, sure you don't have another one you would like to send.

No you were not stupid and doormatty.... You were just too kind to someone who didn't deserve your kindness...

I think the list will reaffirm in his tiny little skull the one where he is the King and anyone who doesn't kiss his ass is pathetic that he was right and you were wrong....

Note: He is a jackass who needs kicked in the head, but he's a anrcissist and likes all the attention he can get so the best thing to do at this point is let him live in the misery he has created as a life for himself...

Now had you did like I said and banged the f*ck out of him once more and then promptly told him to leave before either of you caught your breath...that might have made an impact.

But for me, I wouldn't send it... you are giving him the justification he wants that he did the "right" thing.

Lilith....you need to find a Better Class of Man to hang with......

sorry about the bad luck......

and Hey.....if the conversation is too Deep.....
thats the only Red Flag needed.....

Lol... well with a title that calls him an azzhole and makes reference to his penis size (when the guy already is obviously insecure about it) and his prowess in bed... lets just say the guy is too insecure to take anything positive from it. He likely will be inwardly hurt by it, will tell his friends only select pieces of it and paint you as bitter.

If it would have been me, personally? Well, I'd like to think the list wouldn't have been quite as long, lol. But yes, I would be more hurt than peeved. But I'd rather not have any woman think of me that way. On the other hand, I'm confident that I wouldn't make quite that impression.

He was the one who talked about his penis size.... all the time. I just pointed it out. He would refer to himself as an azzhole, not me, and it was why I chose the title. I think all of his comments were to seek compliments, maybe? Even about his penis.


Lily.... I hope he gleans something from it. I truly do. Either way, I sent it for me. I think he does this to women all the time, he admitted as such in his private mail I received before I mailed the list. He called it the self defense mechanism. My point is that he can't not get feedback for this. I truly hope he stops doing this. I doubt he will, but I said my peace.

Ghost, thanks. I agree completely about the red flags.

It's too bad he knows who I am.... I would LOVE to play with him...muahahahaha....

I gotta know... what were some of the topics of these 'too deep' conversations?

Please please send another so I may deliver it..

please please.

Lilith... you do realize that he may be to dumb to understand all that? I already knew you were smarter than him from day one, but since then, he has proved himself even more dumb than I gave him credit for.

39. You blow goats

Lily~Ahhh yes, that would be funny. But just as fruitless as my letter, ya know.


Too deep conversations:

Anger versus fear
Courage versus valor (linked Convos, held with a marine, he was just present and feeling ignored, I think)

Another time it was religion as a societal anchor, and another was recidivism in sex offenders versus crimes against persons or property offenders. Oh, and the last one was about my mom's co-worker and her attraction to LeBron James versus Kobe Bryant. It was what my mom's friend did he got stumped on, she is an endocrinologist and he lost it right there.