Topic: 33 Reasons
Lily0923's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:46 PM
so her hormones made her like LaBruan over Kobie? :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:47 PM
Jill, I think I was fooled by his crossword puzzle prowess. Definitely. Duped. And then once I realized how flaky he was, I was too stubborn to admit I did not see how dumb he was.

Jill298's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:48 PM

Jill, I think I was fooled by his crossword puzzle prowess. Definitely. Duped. And then once I realized how flaky he was, I was too stubborn to admit I did not see how dumb he was.
I've been pretty guilty of that tooflowerforyou one of those things people can't tell you, you just have to figure out on your own.

tngxl65's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:48 PM

Jill, I think I was fooled by his crossword puzzle prowess. Definitely. Duped. And then once I realized how flaky he was, I was too stubborn to admit I did not see how dumb he was.


You know they have the answers to them in the back, right ;)

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:49 PM
Lily~ No, she liked Kobe better, but still said he was a dog compared to Denzel. Of course, this is true.....
But I was just telling the story, so my mom is friends with this endocrinologist at the hospital where she works and they were talking about the Olympics and the attractive men. Basketball comes up, and she says....blah blah blah

So then Azzhole interrupts, "Wait. You lost me at Endincro... what?"

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:50 PM


Jill, I think I was fooled by his crossword puzzle prowess. Definitely. Duped. And then once I realized how flaky he was, I was too stubborn to admit I did not see how dumb he was.


You know they have the answers to them in the back, right ;)


Nah, I watched him do it in twenty minutes. It was like foreplay to my geekiness.

tngxl65's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:53 PM



Jill, I think I was fooled by his crossword puzzle prowess. Definitely. Duped. And then once I realized how flaky he was, I was too stubborn to admit I did not see how dumb he was.


You know they have the answers to them in the back, right ;)


Nah, I watched him do it in twenty minutes. It was like foreplay to my geekiness.


How do you feel about sodukos? Rubiks Cubes? Just trying to get a gauge in case I run across someone like you in the future.....

Lily0923's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:55 PM

Lily~ No, she liked Kobe better, but still said he was a dog compared to Denzel. Of course, this is true.....
But I was just telling the story, so my mom is friends with this endocrinologist at the hospital where she works and they were talking about the Olympics and the attractive men. Basketball comes up, and she says....blah blah blah

So then Azzhole interrupts, "Wait. You lost me at Endincro... what?"


I know but see how I linked hormones with Endocronologist... come on that was good...

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:56 PM

How do you feel about sodukos? Rubiks Cubes? Just trying to get a gauge in case I run across someone like you in the future.....


Any cerebral talent is like the most intense physical foreplay. And talking passionately and articulately with knowledge on any topic practically makes me want to shed my clothing.

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 06:57 PM
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:



I know but see how I linked hormones with Endocronologist... come on that was good...


Yes, I was laughing over here. Sorry. I was....

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Wed 09/03/08 06:58 PM


How do you feel about sodukos? Rubiks Cubes? Just trying to get a gauge in case I run across someone like you in the future.....


Any cerebral talent is like the most intense physical foreplay. And talking passionately and articulately with knowledge on any topic practically makes me want to shed my clothing.



bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile :banana:
Good night

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Wed 09/03/08 06:59 PM

Too deep conversations:

Anger versus fear
Courage versus valor (linked Convos, held with a marine, he was just present and feeling ignored, I think)

Another time it was religion as a societal anchor, and another was recidivism in sex offenders versus crimes against persons or property offenders. Oh, and the last one was about my mom's co-worker and her attraction to LeBron James versus Kobe Bryant. It was what my mom's friend did he got stumped on, she is an endocrinologist and he lost it right there.


Oh, my dear Lilith...any man, no matter the size of his member, that even attempted to stifle my mind would never be granted the opportunity to stain my sheets! laugh

Certainly, this man has self assurance issues, and until he wrangles these issues under control...he will continue to blow thru other women's lives like a tornado, or a small dust storm...likely winding up a very lonely man, rocking on the front porch, drinking a 12-pack of Bud every night, feverishly whittling a beaver figurine outta an oak branch, and contemplating..."what went wrong". ohwell

So? Wanna go play some putt-putt and split some clam cakes this weekend, babe? love

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Wed 09/03/08 07:01 PM
Yes, and chowda with bacon, and a movie, and then you can soothe my sore muscles.

I do have a lady date with the poor victim in the list, (one subjected to his company) but I'm free Saturday?

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 07:11 PM
Woah, site glitch there.....

I'm off to bed, night to you too, Mrtap!

Silver, see you Saturday....

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Wed 09/03/08 07:16 PM
Edited by Totage on Wed 09/03/08 07:16 PM

The person I was just dating is an A-Hole.

Going to send this via snail mail..... thoughts?

1. You are a drama king….
2. You got ****-faced drunk when meeting my best friend.
3. You told my best friend that I had larger breasts than your ex, while I was sitting there.
4. You repeatedly interrupted our conversations to say they were “too deep” and could we change the subject.
5. You talk about how you think your penis is small on a daily basis.
6. You never asked about me or tried to get to know me.
7. Everything is about you. EVERYTHING.
8. When presented with a topic you often lied and later decided to be honest. After days of a keeping up the lie.
9. You compliment me and then make a self-deprecating remark at the end to draw attention back onto yourself.
10. You are indecisive. Translation: weak spirited & weak minded.
11. You have no idea who you are.
12. You start and end every phone call with what a rough day you had and how tired you are.
13. You have a trousseau of emotional baggage and expect others to deal with it.
14. You are rude and uncouth, with little to no manners or filter.
15. You give out too much information.
16. You are the most selfish person in bed I’ve ever met.
17. You said things to me on the first date you had no right to. Emo…..
18. You said on date two that you meant things said on date one but shouldn’t have said them.
19. Four days later, you said all things said on date one were a joke.
20. You forced me to have the same slow down conversation three times, while I was one the same even keel let’s be friends all along.
21. You yelled at me when I tried to tell you that you hurt my feelings.
22. You drink entirely too much.
23. You have extreme control and anxiety issues, yet try to pass yourself off as laid back.
24. You don’t have a poor memory as you claim, but rather you just don’t give a **** about anyone but yourself so you don’t pay enough attention.
25. You tell me on Monday to come over whenever, that I have carte blanche. Your words.
26. Tuesday you ignore me completely.
27. Wednesday you send a dear Jane letter via e-mail.
28. You are an extremely self-centered person with very low self-esteem.
29. You are single because you want to be, because you really only want to care about other people. You don’t really care…. But you think you want to.
30. If you wanted to change, you would. You choose not to.
31. You think it’s okay to treat people poorly and do not at all live by the Golden Rule.
32. You can only date down, as the strong smart women are simply too complicated for you. We are honest and don’t play games. And you don’t get that.
33. Finally, you are an azzhole because you thought I was upset at your email. You never knew me, as you did not take the time to try.

I took the time to write all this out in the hopes that the next woman you met will be treated better. I know I didn’t deserve the way you treated me, and I don’t want anyone else to have to be subjected to it either. If you’re not willing to change, then just stop dating. Really. You are an azzhole.




flowerforyou Can we still be friends?

no photo
Wed 09/03/08 07:25 PM

Yes, and chowda with bacon, and a movie, and then you can soothe my sore muscles.

I do have a lady date with the poor victim in the list, (one subjected to his company) but I'm free Saturday?


You got it, toots! As always stated...MY TREAT! flowerforyou

I'll let you treat to dessert...Creme Brulee or Key Lime Pie??? love

Eaglescout414's photo
Wed 09/03/08 07:26 PM

The person I was just dating is an A-Hole.

Going to send this via snail mail..... thoughts?

1. You are a drama king….
2. You got ****-faced drunk when meeting my best friend.
3. You told my best friend that I had larger breasts than your ex, while I was sitting there.
4. You repeatedly interrupted our conversations to say they were “too deep” and could we change the subject.
5. You talk about how you think your penis is small on a daily basis.
6. You never asked about me or tried to get to know me.
7. Everything is about you. EVERYTHING.
8. When presented with a topic you often lied and later decided to be honest. After days of a keeping up the lie.
9. You compliment me and then make a self-deprecating remark at the end to draw attention back onto yourself.
10. You are indecisive. Translation: weak spirited & weak minded.
11. You have no idea who you are.
12. You start and end every phone call with what a rough day you had and how tired you are.
13. You have a trousseau of emotional baggage and expect others to deal with it.
14. You are rude and uncouth, with little to no manners or filter.
15. You give out too much information.
16. You are the most selfish person in bed I’ve ever met.
17. You said things to me on the first date you had no right to. Emo…..
18. You said on date two that you meant things said on date one but shouldn’t have said them.
19. Four days later, you said all things said on date one were a joke.
20. You forced me to have the same slow down conversation three times, while I was one the same even keel let’s be friends all along.
21. You yelled at me when I tried to tell you that you hurt my feelings.
22. You drink entirely too much.
23. You have extreme control and anxiety issues, yet try to pass yourself off as laid back.
24. You don’t have a poor memory as you claim, but rather you just don’t give a **** about anyone but yourself so you don’t pay enough attention.
25. You tell me on Monday to come over whenever, that I have carte blanche. Your words.
26. Tuesday you ignore me completely.
27. Wednesday you send a dear Jane letter via e-mail.
28. You are an extremely self-centered person with very low self-esteem.
29. You are single because you want to be, because you really only want to care about other people. You don’t really care…. But you think you want to.
30. If you wanted to change, you would. You choose not to.
31. You think it’s okay to treat people poorly and do not at all live by the Golden Rule.
32. You can only date down, as the strong smart women are simply too complicated for you. We are honest and don’t play games. And you don’t get that.
33. Finally, you are an azzhole because you thought I was upset at your email. You never knew me, as you did not take the time to try.

I took the time to write all this out in the hopes that the next woman you met will be treated better. I know I didn’t deserve the way you treated me, and I don’t want anyone else to have to be subjected to it either. If you’re not willing to change, then just stop dating. Really. You are an azzhole.




Okay, after reading all of this, I do agree that you were treated wrong. However, it seems to me that he had a rough time growing up, or something drastic happened, like parents treated him bad or people picked on him at school...etc. He NEEDS that reassurance. He is very insecure about himself. I'm insecure myself, so it's easy for me to say where he is coming from. At the same time, he doesn't have to do a lot of the stuff he is doing. If he cared about you, he would talk to you too and not be as selfish. Have you ever been straight up before and tell him how he is acting? I think a letter (a nice letter) would be the best. I really hope this helps. It's really hard for guys who are insecure about themselves to be in relationships. And a lot of them ARE very selfish and self-centered. Luckily I wasn't. I hope this helps you. Talk to you later,

-Matthew

feralcatlady's photo
Wed 09/03/08 07:30 PM
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can't wait to see karma bit him in the arce

Lily0923's photo
Wed 09/03/08 07:36 PM

Okay, after reading all of this, I do agree that you were treated wrong. However, it seems to me that he had a rough time growing up, or something drastic happened, like parents treated him bad or people picked on him at school...etc. He NEEDS that reassurance.
-Matthew


F*ck that sh*t he's a grown man, he needs to grow a pair and not push his insecurities onto other people....

I'm so God Damn tired of all the mamby pamby "I'm a victim of society" bullsh*t....

We all have issues, and we all had bullsh*t growing up...and if he can't handle his issues he needs to not bring other people into his world of insecurity and self victimizations.

GUYS WHO ACT THIS WAY...GROW A PAIR, OR STAY THE F*CK OUT OF THE GENE POOL. (that goes for women too by the way)

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 09/03/08 10:05 PM

The person I was just dating is an A-Hole.

Going to send this via snail mail..... thoughts?

1. You are a drama king….
2. You got ****-faced drunk when meeting my best friend.
3. You told my best friend that I had larger breasts than your ex, while I was sitting there.
4. You repeatedly interrupted our conversations to say they were “too deep” and could we change the subject.
5. You talk about how you think your penis is small on a daily basis.
6. You never asked about me or tried to get to know me.
7. Everything is about you. EVERYTHING.
8. When presented with a topic you often lied and later decided to be honest. After days of a keeping up the lie.
9. You compliment me and then make a self-deprecating remark at the end to draw attention back onto yourself.
10. You are indecisive. Translation: weak spirited & weak minded.
11. You have no idea who you are.
12. You start and end every phone call with what a rough day you had and how tired you are.
13. You have a trousseau of emotional baggage and expect others to deal with it.
14. You are rude and uncouth, with little to no manners or filter.
15. You give out too much information.
16. You are the most selfish person in bed I’ve ever met.
17. You said things to me on the first date you had no right to. Emo…..
18. You said on date two that you meant things said on date one but shouldn’t have said them.
19. Four days later, you said all things said on date one were a joke.
20. You forced me to have the same slow down conversation three times, while I was one the same even keel let’s be friends all along.
21. You yelled at me when I tried to tell you that you hurt my feelings.
22. You drink entirely too much.
23. You have extreme control and anxiety issues, yet try to pass yourself off as laid back.
24. You don’t have a poor memory as you claim, but rather you just don’t give a **** about anyone but yourself so you don’t pay enough attention.
25. You tell me on Monday to come over whenever, that I have carte blanche. Your words.
26. Tuesday you ignore me completely.
27. Wednesday you send a dear Jane letter via e-mail.
28. You are an extremely self-centered person with very low self-esteem.
29. You are single because you want to be, because you really only want to care about other people. You don’t really care…. But you think you want to.
30. If you wanted to change, you would. You choose not to.
31. You think it’s okay to treat people poorly and do not at all live by the Golden Rule.
32. You can only date down, as the strong smart women are simply too complicated for you. We are honest and don’t play games. And you don’t get that.
33. Finally, you are an azzhole because you thought I was upset at your email. You never knew me, as you did not take the time to try.

I took the time to write all this out in the hopes that the next woman you met will be treated better. I know I didn’t deserve the way you treated me, and I don’t want anyone else to have to be subjected to it either. If you’re not willing to change, then just stop dating. Really. You are an azzhole.





Sounds like you picked a winner .. AGAIN. We need to rethink your strategy noway