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Topic: i understand that we are all single
gammalight6000's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:50 AM
but for what real reason is it that we all are. we all have odd quirks and things that we do subconsciously, but what are they?

have you really analyzed why you are single, what could it be?
do i smell, do i have bad breath, maybe i say things i shouldn't, am i to shy, am i not aggressive enough?

these are all good questions we need to ask our selves..


any one have thoughts on this?

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Wed 08/13/08 09:52 AM
I was just confessing to my friend that it's not a joke anymore. I really am older and uglier, but none the less MUCH PICKIER & my standards are a tad high on expectations for a real gentleman. I'm getting back to where I'm just fine knowing I'll be the "cat lady". :banana:

sara89's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:53 AM
im single out of choice...and im sure if you had bad breath or something like that someone would tell you.

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Wed 08/13/08 09:54 AM
Of course Ive analyzed this. I know why I am single and it has been a choice......to protect my heart from being hurt again. Sometimes these things take time and takes people a while to open up again.flowerforyou

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Wed 08/13/08 09:54 AM
Im single cause I cant seem to find someone that has what I want....I want to be attracted to the person first, then they have to have something going on in life and last but not least we have to compatible...I dont wanna to change anyone and I dont want anyone changing me....

gammalight6000's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:54 AM

im single out of choice...and im sure if you had bad breath or something like that someone would tell you.


most times they don't

sara89's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:57 AM


im single out of choice...and im sure if you had bad breath or something like that someone would tell you.


most times they don't


thats just cruelty...i dated a guy with disgusting breath..sweet guy but it was awful..so i told him and he got it fixed...no sense it ruining a good reletionship over something that can be fixed kinda easily

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Wed 08/13/08 09:58 AM

Of course Ive analyzed this. I know why I am single and it has been a choice......to protect my heart from being hurt again. Sometimes these things take time and takes people a while to open up again.flowerforyou


LOL!!!!!laugh laugh laugh OMG!!! She writes on Kadoo's!!!!!!!! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Would have sent this private, but I'm not allowed!!!!

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Wed 08/13/08 09:59 AM
After years of learning what it is I don't want in a relationship, I've become selective enough to be able to avoid the "wrong" people....

talukas2004's photo
Wed 08/13/08 10:00 AM
I'm single because not many people catch the sarcasm that I often throw out and think I'm just being a prick all the time. Also because when talking to most women, they are great in text, but meeting them its like a completely new person, then they just never talk to you anymore.

I'm probably single for being myself.

And I've gotten pickier with the girls I want to be with.

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:38 AM

Of course Ive analyzed this. I know why I am single and it has been a choice......to protect my heart from being hurt again. Sometimes these things take time and takes people a while to open up again.flowerforyou


Good answer! 10 points...
The next question is footsie on the first date, acceptable?

gammalight6000's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:48 AM


Of course Ive analyzed this. I know why I am single and it has been a choice......to protect my heart from being hurt again. Sometimes these things take time and takes people a while to open up again.flowerforyou


Good answer! 10 points...
The next question is footsie on the first date, acceptable?
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Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:50 AM

I was just confessing to my friend that it's not a joke anymore. I really am older and uglier, but none the less MUCH PICKIER & my standards are a tad high on expectations for a real gentleman. I'm getting back to where I'm just fine knowing I'll be the "cat lady". :banana:


Me too! That's my plan! To be the "cat lady".

:banana:

Blaze1978's photo
Wed 08/13/08 03:02 PM

but for what real reason is it that we all are. we all have odd quirks and things that we do subconsciously, but what are they?

have you really analyzed why you are single, what could it be?
do i smell, do i have bad breath, maybe i say things i shouldn't, am i to shy, am i not aggressive enough?

these are all good questions we need to ask our selves..


any one have thoughts on this?


I think I'm too shy at the wrong times. I also think I'm too aggressive at the wrong times, a subconscious attempt to compensate.

Perhaps that is why I've been single for a lifetime. I don't know.frown

lionsbrew's photo
Wed 08/13/08 03:03 PM
im just recently single again. that being said i think alot of us are single because we really dont know what we want.

dawnyhi's photo
Wed 08/13/08 03:06 PM
I am single because I am extremely sensative I dont want to be belittled or put down...if i have quirks that is what makes me me and if someone dont like em screw em but it takes time to find that right thing so i will take my time (maybe I found it already i dunno) but I would rather be friends with the world then to get close to someone who will later treat me like garbage...

I made a choice so that is why i am single
yeppers

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Wed 08/13/08 07:13 PM
Edited by heartSoul on Wed 08/13/08 07:13 PM
single by choicesmile2

not willing to play games and put up with ANY dramanoway

so if the guy can't step correct, don't step at all!shades

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Sat 08/16/08 05:24 PM
i think im single for a few reasons. one my low self esteem but im working on it... two i sometimes feel like i havnt been given a chance...

but im not single by choice like many. im ready to find the one for me and settle down. now i know that is gonna get some people going but your only 20 live life.

but i dont act 20.. im ready for more out of life then dating a different person every day happy

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Sat 08/16/08 05:28 PM


I was just confessing to my friend that it's not a joke anymore. I really am older and uglier, but none the less MUCH PICKIER & my standards are a tad high on expectations for a real gentleman. I'm getting back to where I'm just fine knowing I'll be the "cat lady". :banana:


Me too! That's my plan! To be the "cat lady".

:banana:


3 cats & a cat sized dog. I think I'm already there.ohwell

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Sat 08/16/08 05:30 PM
I am not pretty, so most men don't look twice. Those that do seem to think "she's desperate enough to take care of me while I keep looking"

I'm not!

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