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Topic: I want to ask a girl out but.......
AtariBaby's photo
Fri 08/01/08 08:10 AM
Hello again. I went in to the bank and was myself. She asked me what my plans were for the weekend and I told her that I wasn't really sure and she told me where she was going, but it is a big distance from my area.

After thinking about things I decided that i will go my own way. If I landed to where she was going she would probably think I was desperate.
And besides she has my number. I am going to another town tonight and I will see what happens there. I don't think I will hear from her so I am just going to get on with life and keep all my options open. I am a bit long in the tooth to start an avalanche of mind games!! Videogames yes but not mindgames!!!!! She is a lovely girl and I wish her well!!


Thank you everyone for your advice, help and support but I feel that I may be flogging a dead horse.

No matter, upwards and onwards we go!!!

drinker

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Fri 08/01/08 01:59 PM

Hello again. I went in to the bank and was myself. She asked me what my plans were for the weekend and I told her that I wasn't really sure and she told me where she was going, but it is a big distance from my area.

After thinking about things I decided that i will go my own way. If I landed to where she was going she would probably think I was desperate.
And besides she has my number. I am going to another town tonight and I will see what happens there. I don't think I will hear from her so I am just going to get on with life and keep all my options open. I am a bit long in the tooth to start an avalanche of mind games!! Videogames yes but not mindgames!!!!! She is a lovely girl and I wish her well!!


Thank you everyone for your advice, help and support but I feel that I may be flogging a dead horse.

No matter, upwards and onwards we go!!!

drinker



Be prepared...

Next time when she ask you where you are going.... Be the Fun confident guy and have a Fk ing plan.... Don't be "UNsure". Dude she is qualifying you. You have to become what any woman desires... not just her. Have you read the "Secret"? I think the author is from your country. Eventually, a confident man has more options and you would be qualifying her. And that's when she will ask YOU out... instead of hoping for her to call.

Even though she was not going to be with you this weekend, you would want to be the fun exciting guy that she wished she was going with. Have Fun with your buddies and go to exciting places and show the excitement when you speak. It is all about improving yourself... and you wouldn't have to come online to ASK for Advice on asking a girl Out. Be the Man... and get rid of the Videogames. The only way is to totally uninstall it.

Face it... it is an addiction.. like cocaine (encourages the production of endorph) that takes you out of life and time and after a few years what do you have to show for it... a high score that only you care about.

Ok ok... I am only guessing about who you are... I don't know your story... but I hope you find a compatible girl in your life.

AtariBaby's photo
Sun 08/03/08 11:35 AM


Hello again. I went in to the bank and was myself. She asked me what my plans were for the weekend and I told her that I wasn't really sure and she told me where she was going, but it is a big distance from my area.

After thinking about things I decided that i will go my own way. If I landed to where she was going she would probably think I was desperate.
And besides she has my number. I am going to another town tonight and I will see what happens there. I don't think I will hear from her so I am just going to get on with life and keep all my options open. I am a bit long in the tooth to start an avalanche of mind games!! Videogames yes but not mindgames!!!!! She is a lovely girl and I wish her well!!


Thank you everyone for your advice, help and support but I feel that I may be flogging a dead horse.

No matter, upwards and onwards we go!!!

drinker



Be prepared...

Next time when she ask you where you are going.... Be the Fun confident guy and have a Fk ing plan.... Don't be "UNsure". Dude she is qualifying you. You have to become what any woman desires... not just her. Have you read the "Secret"? I think the author is from your country. Eventually, a confident man has more options and you would be qualifying her. And that's when she will ask YOU out... instead of hoping for her to call.

Even though she was not going to be with you this weekend, you would want to be the fun exciting guy that she wished she was going with. Have Fun with your buddies and go to exciting places and show the excitement when you speak. It is all about improving yourself... and you wouldn't have to come online to ASK for Advice on asking a girl Out. Be the Man... and get rid of the Videogames. The only way is to totally uninstall it.

Face it... it is an addiction.. like cocaine (encourages the production of endorph) that takes you out of life and time and after a few years what do you have to show for it... a high score that only you care about.

Ok ok... I am only guessing about who you are... I don't know your story... but I hope you find a compatible girl in your life.
Thank you for advice Sv!! I dont think I will have to bump into her again. As we speak she is setting up my atm account and I am going to a new area in september so I wont see her again.
Plenty more fish in the sea!! She is a lovely girl but maybe not for me!!
But I know lots of other girls and will be meeting many more new faces this coming september!! Fingers crossed!!
Thanks SV.

Ps I cant uninstall my videogame addiction, it is a natural instinct from birth!!

drinker

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Mon 08/04/08 08:30 AM
Good Luck

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Mon 08/04/08 07:16 PM

whisper to her, hey im interested in you would you like to go on a date with me sometime,like maybe tomorrow?

You got my vote.:smile:

stevenpwis's photo
Mon 08/04/08 07:34 PM
don't do the flower thing, that's a little creepy

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Mon 08/04/08 07:37 PM
if you want my advice, oh wait, I have no advice, I'm a coward, I would have no balls to ask her out

SVImager's photo
Mon 08/04/08 08:16 PM
That's ok... wait till she get some balls and ask you out.

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