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Hello everyone again. Thank you so much for giving me advice. I have read all who replied and appreciate every one of you!! Cheers everyone!! Ok here is what I did. I had my note prepared. It just read that I would like to meet her has a friend or maybe more. I left my phone number and e-mail address on it and told her to feel free to get in contact anytime!! I went in to the bank yesterday and luckily i was directed to her. She asked me how all was and did I have a good weekend and I did vice versa. She told me where she lived and we chatted about other various subjects. we had a lot of eye contact. I had to get a form filled out and she wrote my name on it. She knew my first name but I was surprised when she wrote my surname. I did not think she would of remembered that from looking at the screen with my account details. I never told her my surname!! When my business was complete I left her the note with her name on it. She smiled and took it. As I walked away she seemed to be heading in the direction of her personal belongings (or maybe the bin...lol) and we made eye contact once again. All that was exactly 28 hours ago. I have heard nothing but it is early in the week and Ireland has a bank holiday weekend this coming weekend. My only problem is that I have to go back to the bank this friday to withdraw some cash for this weekend (no atm, thats what I was in sorting out yesterday) and if I dont hear from her, I will feel a little awkward as to what to say but I will be myself and be friendly to her as always!! I will post again if something happens but I think that if I don't hear from her in the next 6 days then I can safely say that it is time to move on!! Thanks everyone!!!!!! The Universe rewards action!!!!!! |
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I used to work in a Bank. I had guys asking me out all the time..Just take the plunge and go for it. I need to get a job at the bank! 
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Whatever happens- you did your part: you expressed how you felt. That in itself is honorable.
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Hello everyone again. Thank you so much for giving me advice. I have read all who replied and appreciate every one of you!! Cheers everyone!! Ok here is what I did. I had my note prepared. It just read that I would like to meet her has a friend or maybe more. I left my phone number and e-mail address on it and told her to feel free to get in contact anytime!! I went in to the bank yesterday and luckily i was directed to her. She asked me how all was and did I have a good weekend and I did vice versa. She told me where she lived and we chatted about other various subjects. we had a lot of eye contact. I had to get a form filled out and she wrote my name on it. She knew my first name but I was surprised when she wrote my surname. I did not think she would of remembered that from looking at the screen with my account details. I never told her my surname!! When my business was complete I left her the note with her name on it. She smiled and took it. As I walked away she seemed to be heading in the direction of her personal belongings (or maybe the bin...lol) and we made eye contact once again. All that was exactly 28 hours ago. I have heard nothing but it is early in the week and Ireland has a bank holiday weekend this coming weekend. My only problem is that I have to go back to the bank this friday to withdraw some cash for this weekend (no atm, thats what I was in sorting out yesterday) and if I dont hear from her, I will feel a little awkward as to what to say but I will be myself and be friendly to her as always!! I will post again if something happens but I think that if I don't hear from her in the next 6 days then I can safely say that it is time to move on!! Thanks everyone!!!!!! good job man!  dont be discouraged that she hasn't contacted you yet, she might not want to seem desperate or anything by contacting you so quickly. i wouldnt be surprised though if she did by the end of the week to see if you 2 cant get together sometime that weekend for drinks or whatever keep yer head up bro! |
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I like the flowers with a note leaving your phone number on card
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........the only time that I have any contact with her is in a public place. She works in a bank as a cashier. There is always loads of people around!! I do not mind embarrassing myself but I do not want to embarrass her at her workplace!! I don't want to wait outside till she finishes, that would make me feel creepy!! What shall I do?? Thanks for any suggestions you make!! i was going to suggest slipping her a note while she's at work but than again,slipping a cashier in a bank a note could have bad results |
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........the only time that I have any contact with her is in a public place. She works in a bank as a cashier. There is always loads of people around!! I do not mind embarrassing myself but I do not want to embarrass her at her workplace!! I don't want to wait outside till she finishes, that would make me feel creepy!! What shall I do?? Thanks for any suggestions you make!! i was going to suggest slipping her a note while she's at work but than again,slipping a cashier in a bank a note could have bad results lol, GET DOWN ON THE FLOOR |
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........the only time that I have any contact with her is in a public place. She works in a bank as a cashier. There is always loads of people around!! I do not mind embarrassing myself but I do not want to embarrass her at her workplace!! I don't want to wait outside till she finishes, that would make me feel creepy!! What shall I do?? Thanks for any suggestions you make!! i was going to suggest slipping her a note while she's at work but than again,slipping a cashier in a bank a note could have bad results lol, GET DOWN ON THE FLOOR no kidding.it would suck to ask a girl on a date and then be surrounded by cops.oh wait...that has happened to me |
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I had a guy put a thinking of you stickers on his bills he was paying with . Made a little Origami bird out of his dollar bill. You could cut a heart out of your deposit slip.
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Thank you again to all who have posted in. Some of the reply's made me laugh!! Good job folks!!
It is now wednesday and still no word but I would say it will be the weekend if I am to hear anything at all. After the weekend (if no word)I will give up!! Thank you all guy's n gals Ps I will let you all know how it turns out!! |
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Its thursday evening here guys n gals and still no word and I have to go into the bank tomorrow. I might wear in my balaclava!! Maybe that is a bad idea due to the nature of the place!!
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Thank you again to all who have posted in. Some of the reply's made me laugh!! Good job folks!! It is now wednesday and still no word but I would say it will be the weekend if I am to hear anything at all. After the weekend (if no word)I will give up!! Thank you all guy's n gals Ps I will let you all know how it turns out!! One suggestion. If she doesn't call, then when you go back into the bank and wind up with her as your teller, just be the way you always were with her. |
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write a note on one of your deposit slips with your phone number.... when you go in to make a transition do so then say oh yea i have another one..... then hand her the deposit slip saying you would like a withdrawl.. write in there you want to withdrawl her from the bank for some dinner out.. to give u a call if she is interested
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Play it off really cool as if she is not the only one. Don't even mention the fact she didn't call you.
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 Love is when you look into someone's eyes and see their heart. |
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I used to work in a Bank. I had guys asking me out all the time..Just take the plunge and go for it. I need to get a job at the bank! |
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Edited by
SVImager
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Thu 07/31/08 02:04 PM
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Love is when you look into someone's eyes and see their heart. HELLO!!!!! Are we experienced Matured ADULTS??!!!?? Come on that is what an inexperienced TEENAGER believe... and Hollywood Movies presents. That is the Fairy Tale that got us to 60% Divorce Rate and 50% Cheating Rate. You can Fall in Love with anybody...said by some Mom on Jerry Springer. (I don't watch the show) Hollywood has confused us between what is love and what is inflatuation & Lust. That is the big Lie about Marriage that the other thread was talking about. Your heart will betray you (bible). Trust in your heart (Disney Hollywood Fantasy). What's important is their values and character and family (the Master Template). The stuff that will not change with time (more than likely never). How does he/she deal with problems? Does his/her parents respect each other (Future view whether he/she will respect you)? Does he/she respect their parents? Do they even talk to each other? Does he/she spend money like there is no tomorrow (that would solve later financial issues)? What does he/she believe in? Are they Goal oriented? Please fill out this form and take a number. hehe... |
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Thank you again to all who have posted in. Some of the reply's made me laugh!! Good job folks!! It is now wednesday and still no word but I would say it will be the weekend if I am to hear anything at all. After the weekend (if no word)I will give up!! Thank you all guy's n gals Ps I will let you all know how it turns out!! One suggestion. If she doesn't call, then when you go back into the bank and wind up with her as your teller, just be the way you always were with her. |
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Play it off really cool as if she is not the only one. Don't even mention the fact she didn't call you. Yes I will do that!! |
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Play it off really cool as if she is not the only one. Don't even mention the fact she didn't call you. Yes I will do that!! |
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