Slip her a note...on a condom that says "I'll blow a hole in this fvcker for you"... Yeah, call me a romantic....

so would this really work if I did this to a man I found attractive?

BINGO!!!! I agree. She is not smiling because she likes you.



But if you must try for the bank teller... because a guy won't give up.
Ask her to go for a cup of coffee, so that you can get to know her. No dates. Don't ask for a date.
If there are any resistence (boyfriend, bank rules, don't drink coffee), TAKE the hint and eject.

Don't creep her out.

lmao your funny, you crack me up

so what happened, details please??

Just ask her... It's not that hard. You just have to let go a bit. Spark up a couple conversations and tell her you and your buddies are going to shoot some pool or something, and see if she wants to come along. The action of actually making your play in front of people shows confidence and security.

Honestly, after taking a minute or two to determine if it was a joke....it probably would work for me.,..lmao

slip her a note .. sexy and secretive

I'd go with that one, just because it is hilarious.

Walk with her one day and while your walking, without studdering or anything be straight up and honest, i think your attractive and would like to get to know you outside of work.

A poem with your name and number at the bottom.
A single rose petal- yellow (for friendship) if all else fails.


Good luck

A note...simple & sweet...no rose or flower that sounds too needy unless you know she's already interested....

Hello everyone again. Thank you so much for giving me advice. I have read all who replied and appreciate every one of you!! Cheers everyone!!

Ok here is what I did.
I had my note prepared. It just read that I would like to meet her has a friend or maybe more. I left my phone number and e-mail address on it and told her to feel free to get in contact anytime!!

I went in to the bank yesterday and luckily i was directed to her. She asked me how all was and did I have a good weekend and I did vice versa.
She told me where she lived and we chatted about other various subjects. we had a lot of eye contact.

I had to get a form filled out and she wrote my name on it. She knew my first name but I was surprised when she wrote my surname. I did not think she would of remembered that from looking at the screen with my account details. I never told her my surname!!

When my business was complete I left her the note with her name on it. She smiled and took it.
As I walked away she seemed to be heading in the direction of her personal belongings (or maybe the bin...lol) and we made eye contact once again.

All that was exactly 28 hours ago. I have heard nothing but it is early in the week and Ireland has a bank holiday weekend this coming weekend.

My only problem is that I have to go back to the bank this friday to withdraw some cash for this weekend (no atm, thats what I was in sorting out yesterday) and if I dont hear from her, I will feel a little awkward as to what to say but I will be myself and be friendly to her as always!!
I will post again if something happens but I think that if I don't hear from her in the next 6 days then I can safely say that it is time to move on!!

Thanks everyone!!!!!!

Good luck!
I am sure the uncertainty and waiting is the worst!

Thanks!! It is!!

That was a ballsy move man. Good for you.

as an aside, I love irish girls.

Love is when you look into someone's eyes
and see their heart.

Good luck and let us know what happens

ah, yes I do think it might work for you.