well its better than slipping her a note while she's working

so what if ppl are around, the most she can do is say no..... you wont know untill you try. I had to do the same thing, she worked at the bank I asked her out just to find out she had a BF. so i moved on

I used to work in a Bank. I had guys asking me out all the time..Just take the plunge and go for it.

Give her the note inside the bank so she knows who you are and leave the rose on the car

Thank you everybody for your kind comments!!


I do have to hand in a piece of paper with my account number on it, so I was thinking of drawing two little stick people sitting down at a table and put my phone number at the bottom of the paper.

I can't leave a rose on her car cos some smart ass will dispose of it.

I was in 10 days ago (it was a friday) and she was asking me what I was doing the weekend. She told me that she had a party on. I told her to have fun at the party. We are on a first name basis although I have never met her before till a month ago. She is not from my area but close by.

She is really cute!! I think I will go for it. I have to go in tomorrow so I hope to see her and chat to her. If the chat goes well I will pop back in this friday and give her my note with the little stick people on it!!

Would this be a yes or a no-no for a girl??

HAVE THE stick people ready, and if you feel the few mins. you get to chat is going well, just plop it on here then, why wait til friday ? you might be able to have a date friday instead of a phone call perhaps ???

Everyone inside the bank can hear what you say on the drivethru speaker!

Ask her what time she gets her lunch break & if she would like to have lunch with you. If that goes well ask her out on the weekend.

Thank you to everyone.

I will definetely go for it!!

see that's what I thought till it happened it totally weirded me out...but he got in my car and I always lock it

Atta boy! She's a lucky gal!

i llike this idea too !!! good luck

ok heres what you do......get a ski mask......put it on and hand her a note askin her out......Nobody will pay any attention to her!!!

Ok I was a bank teller and a lot of guys knew it was not appropriate to approach me at work so they would leave a note on my car or on the back of a deposit slip right a little not.... Just dont hand her the note by itself or else she'll think shes getting robbed lmao

Yeah but he said ON the car....not IN it....

That really IS kinda creepy.,..lamo

yeah you're right but it was real creepy

well dude, you said you two chat when you go there, and that the 2 of you are on a 1st name basis. hell, she's even mentioned personal plans for the weekend before, which shows that she's probably interested at least a little.

go in tomorrow, do what you have to do, then just ask her point blank if she would like to have lunch with you. keep your voice low as to not be heard by others as you said you did not want to possibly embarass her at work, but do not whisper as it would seem kind of strange for a guy to be whispering to a teller in the middle of a work day

what's the worse that could happen? the smiles politely and turns you down? eh, *hit happens. but what if she doesnt? give it a shot bro, and good luck

let us know how it turns out!




and personally, i think the card/rose on her car might come off a bit creepy and stalkerish JMHO

wow, that's creepy....

see?!

avoid women who are nice to you because it's their job. This includes strippers, waitresses and yes, bank tellers.