I just started dating a 20 year old myself, I'm 29 years old. As long as it's legal, it shouldn't matter if you're into the person.

if you want my advice, oh wait, I have no advice, I'm a coward, I would have no balls to ask her out

don't do the flower thing, that's a little creepy

my neighbor walks around the yard wearing a bright yellow one, I want to punch his pp, it makes me sick

what is your opinion on men wearing a speedo?

I agree with you. I need to learn to let the beginning of the relationship go and think of what is going on now and how it may end up even worse off in the future

I guess I just feel good in the beginning that I always think of the first times we spent together

She always has to point out that she is busy, I know she is, and as someone else pointed out earlier, everyone is busy. I think the more you say you are busy, you are going to believe you are busier than you actually are and it puts a lot more stress on you.

I haven't been on here in over a month

indeed i do, and thanks, hopefully things will turn for the better. I'm too good of a person for games

we were talking on instant messenger and that's not somewhere to discuss something like that, I actually believe it should be talked about in person, but if phone is all she can do then that is how we are going to talk about it.

it's not me, she is the one who mentioned it...she said she feels bad that she doesn't give me any time.

Alright, here's the deal, my "girlfriend" and I have been seeing each other for a little over 4 months, haven't really seen each other but twice for a half hour each time in the past month. She goes to school to get her masters and works about 30 hours a week. I have no problem, but she seems to think that I do. It would be nice to see her more, but her school work should be her number one priority right now. If we are in for a long term relationship, things will work out, once she is done with school we would see each other more. But here is my thing right now, she was supposed to call me tonight before she drove out to the airport to pick up her friend, we were going to talk about whether to end it or keep it going. She didn't tell me when she was going to call whether early evening or later evening, so I am getting a little nervous, don't know if she forgot about me or if the flight is late. Should I send her a text asking when she is driving out to the airport?

A week after I told her, that's when she told me she's a virgin, she's 29.

She may be busy, but what is a one minute phone call to say not today.

I apologize

I actually see couples, unmarried, with each other all the time and they have been together for a few months, I guess I will never have that, I do want that where the girl is so into me that she wants to be with me a lot.

that's one of the things i don't like being called is needy, i get defensive when people call me that...i had one girl call me needy when I saw her once a week and called her 3 times a week, i don't call that needy.

yeah, thanks for that, being needy means what? haven't seen her in 3 weeks. I don't even know what JMO is. Needy is everyone on this freaken site, so desperate to find someone we go online to find that someone who doesn't exist.

i left her a message an hour and a half ago to see if she wanted to get together because she said the other day that we would, it's shiiiit like this that i deal with all the time, she won't return my calls...at least call me to tell me we aren't going to get together or are going to.