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Topic: Putting all your eggs in one basket...
TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sun 07/20/08 05:53 PM Edited by TheShadow on Sun 07/20/08 06:00 PM
Is never a good idea. You never know anyone until you live with them. Then! and only then, you will really start to see somewhat of who they are. It's nice to see how couples are getting together, but spending time on the net does not count for actually getting to know someone. Ok, i'm ready to hear it had to add this I'm talking about meeting people off the net. Not where you can see them everyday if you want.

bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163	Sun 07/20/08 05:53 PM
i agree with that completly

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Sun 07/20/08 05:53 PM
you're sooooooooooooooooooooo right

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 07/20/08 05:54 PM
Well I married my husband after dating him for 2.5 years and we never lived together first.

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Sun 07/20/08 05:54 PM
here! here!

Wolf19 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 6172	Sun 07/20/08 05:55 PM
so should i get another basket?

RJR1 Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 548	Sun 07/20/08 05:56 PM
I've lived with 'em and not. Didn't matter.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 07/20/08 05:58 PM
I agree. In person only for me..

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Sun 07/20/08 05:59 PM
That is true

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Sun 07/20/08 05:59 PM
Is never a good idea. You never know anyone until you live with them. Then! and only then, you will really start to see somewhat of who they are. It's nice to see how couples are getting together, but spending time on the net does not count for actually getting to know someone. Ok, i'm ready to hear it I so agree with you on this one.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Sun 07/20/08 06:00 PM
I agree also! In person is best!

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sun 07/20/08 06:02 PM
No such thing as a perfect partner. Actually , I think months of discussing things long distance...little things like daily routines, likes dislikes, and such...gives you a lot better idea of who you are dealing with than meeting someone in person at a bar...and moving in a week later! And if you don't mean move in with them...how will you find out how they are until you do??? YOu will have to talk, right? Can do that long distance.

guyguy1225 Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 1936	Sun 07/20/08 06:02 PM
true! I flew 1700 miles to find that one out ....but not giving up !

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sun 07/20/08 06:03 PM
I might add...putting all your eggs in one basket lessens the chance of some of your eggs getting lost or cracked HA!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sun 07/20/08 06:04 PM
This is why i will never get on the forum and tell everyone. I met somone and this is the one. There is noway posible for that to even happen untill you actually spnt time with them. things change with people when your actually together. it could go either way, but as most, we hope for the best and i do for those that have found somone

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 07/20/08 06:04 PM
I agree with you angel. The hours of talking and talking about things from the spiritual, to the mundane make you really get to know a person. When you log 6-8 hours a night for months, it is probably MORE talking and getting to know than you would if you WERE in person.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sun 07/20/08 06:05 PM
No such thing as a perfect partner. Actually , I think months of discussing things long distance...little things like daily routines, likes dislikes, and such...gives you a lot better idea of who you are dealing with than meeting someone in person at a bar...and moving in a week later! And if you don't mean move in with them...how will you find out how they are until you do??? YOu will have to talk, right? Can do that long distance. But how many guys are going to actually say that they walk around the house in boxers...scratching their " boys " and then pissing on the toilet seat?? lol

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 07/20/08 06:05 PM
I don't think we should rain on people's happiness.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 07/20/08 06:06 PM
No such thing as a perfect partner. Actually , I think months of discussing things long distance...little things like daily routines, likes dislikes, and such...gives you a lot better idea of who you are dealing with than meeting someone in person at a bar...and moving in a week later! And if you don't mean move in with them...how will you find out how they are until you do??? YOu will have to talk, right? Can do that long distance. But how many guys are going to actually say that they walk around the house in boxers...scratching their " boys " and then pissing on the toilet seat?? lol They don't HAVE to...we women already KNOW y'all do that!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sun 07/20/08 06:08 PM
No such thing as a perfect partner. Actually , I think months of discussing things long distance...little things like daily routines, likes dislikes, and such...gives you a lot better idea of who you are dealing with than meeting someone in person at a bar...and moving in a week later! And if you don't mean move in with them...how will you find out how they are until you do??? YOu will have to talk, right? Can do that long distance. I agree, but there are many other places besides bars I'm in a little town and to some, it's really hard to meet people even if there in a small town. For me it's not. A hello and a little smile can go along ways.