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a serious relationship in 4 weeks...i doubt it... It can happen, you never know how you are going to feel until love hit's you in the face with it's weiner....you just gotta hope it calls in the morning (that didn't make much sense, but it made me smile) :D |
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a serious relationship in 4 weeks...i doubt it... It can happen, you never know how you are going to feel until love hit's you in the face with it's weiner....you just gotta hope it calls in the morning (that didn't make much sense, but it made me smile) :D hmmm getting hit in the face with a weiner makes you smile, anything else you'd like to share??? 
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a serious relationship in 4 weeks...i doubt it... It can happen, you never know how you are going to feel until love hit's you in the face with it's weiner....you just gotta hope it calls in the morning (that didn't make much sense, but it made me smile) :D hmmm getting hit in the face with a weiner makes you smile, anything else you'd like to share???
Yea, this one time.....in band camp.... |
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a serious relationship in 4 weeks...i doubt it... It can happen, you never know how you are going to feel until love hit's you in the face with it's weiner....you just gotta hope it calls in the morning (that didn't make much sense, but it made me smile) :D hmmm getting hit in the face with a weiner makes you smile, anything else you'd like to share???
Yea, this one time.....in band camp....
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Ummm do you realize that this can lay dormant for 10 years?? I think someone said 3 months but according to my family doctor, he told me up to 10 years!!
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Hey you all, I met a girl online. After our first date she admitted she liked me but confessed she is HIV Positive and has been for 20 years. She thought I would run like many others have. I told her I could deal with it and it has now after 4 weeks turned into a serious relationship. Any thoughts or comments welcomed... Kudos to you for sticking around...it's gotta f*ck with your head a little bit...you got balls man. |
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Ummm do you realize that this can lay dormant for 10 years?? I think someone said 3 months but according to my family doctor, he told me up to 10 years!!
at the clinic i worked out, they said it takes 3 months to show up in the blood, which is the window period. thats with most people anyway, im sure with others there are exceptions like you said |
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I say it's great that you found someone for you, and she's lucky to have a decent guy around.
Just be safe, both of you.  
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another misinformation being spread - but I have a head ache... be careful what you believe...
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another misinformation being spread - but I have a head ache... be careful what you believe...
i was aware it takes 3 months to show up, after 3 months you dont need to re-tested unless you have unprotected sex again. intereting, the op said hes in love and moving in with this girl, yet is profile says hes looking for a relationship and a soul mate?? |
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another misinformation being spread - but I have a head ache... be careful what you believe...
i was aware it takes 3 months to show up, after 3 months you dont need to re-tested unless you have unprotected sex again. intereting, the op said hes in love and moving in with this girl, yet is profile says hes looking for a relationship and a soul mate?? Could just be that he hasn't changed his profile in 3-4 weeks. |
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another misinformation being spread - but I have a head ache... be careful what you believe...
i was aware it takes 3 months to show up, after 3 months you dont need to re-tested unless you have unprotected sex again. intereting, the op said hes in love and moving in with this girl, yet is profile says hes looking for a relationship and a soul mate?? Could just be that he hasn't changed his profile in 3-4 weeks. i guess so
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Could just be that he hasn't changed his profile in 3-4 weeks. NO because that would make sense sorry my headache is making me say these things
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First of all let me just say, I wish you luck! But, one of my very good friends passed away from HIV and all I can say to you is take lots of precautions my friend. My question to you is this, don't you have children? Will your children be living with you and your new girlfriend? I guess my concern would be this...you are an adult and can make up your own mind IF you want to risk catching HIV...but what about the innocent children? They won't have a choice..you will be putting them in harms way. I think you really should make an appt with your family doctor and you should have a very long talk with him/her. I know if I was your ex wife, I would be fighting you on having my children around that situation. I still think they are very unclear on HIV/AIDS, I know I would not want to put my children in that type of envirement. you can contract hiv in many ways, not just by sex. i know toothbrushes cant be shared, as if you have a ulcer in your mouth if you use the hiv persons toothbrush it can be passed on that way, if there is a open wound in a mouth, like after extractions, from a scale and polish, ulcers, etc Why would you want to share someone elses toothbrush ? yuck! |
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HIV is passed through blood, ie seman, sores, needles, vaginal blood. Not anything outside of the body except an open sore touching an open sore of another. Spit has been thought about, but it has to have blood in it or entering into a place that is open. There are many hiv aids couples. One with and one without that share a good and loving relationship. It is about safety and a few extra minutes out of your day to stay that way. Do hiv and aids patients not deserve love too??? To say things like I'll buy insurance on you or I would never do it is kinda ignorant. Or lazy. To tell you the truth that desease is rampant among women of color, white young women as well as older....hispanics and the heterosexual population. It was on the decline, then people got lazy again and now have unprotected sex over and over again. Teenagers are in the up and coming hiv patients around the world. There are so many people with hiv that don't know it, and spreading it around. You can't tell by looking. I take my hat off to you young man for having enough heart to stick around and not run like a chicken. She is to be commended for at least telling you. Many don't. Kat Well said Kat my hat is off to you.I am tired of all the doom and gloom I have been hearing here.Many HIV positive people live pretty normal lives.Or try to but the stigma still exisits. Marker,if your girlfriend has been positive for 20 yrs I am sure she is aware of the risks. |
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First of all let me just say, I wish you luck! But, one of my very good friends passed away from HIV and all I can say to you is take lots of precautions my friend. My question to you is this, don't you have children? Will your children be living with you and your new girlfriend? I guess my concern would be this...you are an adult and can make up your own mind IF you want to risk catching HIV...but what about the innocent children? They won't have a choice..you will be putting them in harms way. I think you really should make an appt with your family doctor and you should have a very long talk with him/her. I know if I was your ex wife, I would be fighting you on having my children around that situation. I still think they are very unclear on HIV/AIDS, I know I would not want to put my children in that type of envirement. you can contract hiv in many ways, not just by sex. i know toothbrushes cant be shared, as if you have a ulcer in your mouth if you use the hiv persons toothbrush it can be passed on that way, if there is a open wound in a mouth, like after extractions, from a scale and polish, ulcers, etc Why would you want to share someone elses toothbrush ? yuck! if you read what i said, i said ACCIDENTLY using someone elses toothbrush, especially yound children. i wouldnt use anyone elses but accidents happen. |
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Looks like we may be living together soon. She has a 9 year old daughter who has also really taken to me. She has never gotten AIDS and is told by doctors she is a miracle for having it for 20 years... Obviously she had unprotected sex with her ex husband for about 4 months. He did not get infected. The doctor said its less then a 4% chance of infection from vaginal intercourse with a man. The infection rate is much higher from male to female. She has never infected a male with unprotected sex. |
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I just have one question. And please forgive me if it was already asked. As I was not going to sit here and read through 9 pages of responses. BUT if she has been HIV for 20 years now, then how the hell does her child not have it? Oh hell the person she got pregnant by would have it as well. So does that mean he did not know either? OK that was two questions. Sorry. I would be VERY leary on getting involved. But that is just me, I do have my own children that I need to protect. But this whole thing does not make sense to me. It is an STD so A child would also get it. And unborn child shares EVERYTHING from there mother at that point. She had a c section to prevent infection during child birth. Also the risk is very low for female to male infection during sex. Her ex did not get infected during their 4 months of unprotected sex to get pregnant... |
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another misinformation being spread - but I have a head ache... be careful what you believe...
i was aware it takes 3 months to show up, after 3 months you dont need to re-tested unless you have unprotected sex again. intereting, the op said hes in love and moving in with this girl, yet is profile says hes looking for a relationship and a soul mate?? Yes thats true.. I just enjoy the forums and also may I add that I did not make this up. Its very real and Im learning more about it every day. Thanks you all
Could just be that he hasn't changed his profile in 3-4 weeks. |
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another misinformation being spread - but I have a head ache... be careful what you believe...
i was aware it takes 3 months to show up, after 3 months you dont need to re-tested unless you have unprotected sex again. intereting, the op said hes in love and moving in with this girl, yet is profile says hes looking for a relationship and a soul mate?? Yes thats true.. I just enjoy the forums and also may I add that I did not make this up. Its very real and Im learning more about it every day. Thanks you all
Could just be that he hasn't changed his profile in 3-4 weeks. your correct many precautions can be taken to prevent the mother from giving the baby hiv
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