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Topic: Why does everyone think Im angry?
therooster Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 866	Fri 05/30/08 08:39 AM
So I happen to be very opinionated, forthright and not afraid of conflict. When I strongly believe in something I defend it as is my right and duty to do so...why does that translate in other people as me being angry?? Does this happen to you? Do you think it happens more to women than men, since women generally are assumed to be passive and non-confrontational??? This place is starting to give me a complex.... You have to be cute or funny or quick witted and very very careful about what and how you say it,,,,,,,,,,

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/30/08 08:39 AM
That and it's likely your pic. It looks hard

therooster Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 866	Fri 05/30/08 08:40 AM
So I happen to be very opinionated, forthright and not afraid of conflict. When I strongly believe in something I defend it as is my right and duty to do so...why does that translate in other people as me being angry?? Does this happen to you? Do you think it happens more to women than men, since women generally are assumed to be passive and non-confrontational??? This place is starting to give me a complex.... You have to be cute or funny or quick witted and very very careful about what and how you say it,,,,,,,,,,

therooster Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 866	Fri 05/30/08 08:40 AM
So I happen to be very opinionated, forthright and not afraid of conflict. When I strongly believe in something I defend it as is my right and duty to do so...why does that translate in other people as me being angry?? Does this happen to you? Do you think it happens more to women than men, since women generally are assumed to be passive and non-confrontational??? This place is starting to give me a complex.... You have to be cute or funny or quick witted and very very careful about what and how you say it,,,,,,,,,,

hunky62 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1894	Fri 05/30/08 08:40 AM
Sugar, people who judge you and don't know you have no idea, I adore you... you and I are alot alike. We calls em' like we see's em'... and for people who live in "Niceville" that disrupts their delicate sensibilities. Don't sweat it, they are the ones with the issues...not you. Don't change, or then I'll be angry.... And no one wants that wrath... Side note: Society puts this submissive persona on women like it's our duty to please people... FCK THAT NOISE... You're a good person.... OMG...that is such psycho-babble bullsht...everyone has opinions...but btching is just btching...

TheMaverick Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 132	Fri 05/30/08 08:44 AM Edited by TheMaverick on Fri 05/30/08 08:47 AM
Sugar, people who judge you and don't know you have no idea, I adore you... you and I are alot alike. We calls em' like we see's em'... and for people who live in "Niceville" that disrupts their delicate sensibilities. Don't sweat it, they are the ones with the issues...not you. Don't change, or then I'll be angry.... And no one wants that wrath... Side note: Society puts this submissive persona on women like it's our duty to please people... FCK THAT NOISE... You're a good person.... OMG...that is such psycho-babble bullsht...everyone has opinions...but btching is just btching... Agreed, what kind of feminist bull **** jargon is that? Or should I say feminazi????? Society may put that persona on you but deal with it; otherwise, good luck finding a man; if the man become submissive, he's either metro, has no backbone and becomes your puppet, or gay and not out of the closet...

therooster Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 866	Fri 05/30/08 08:46 AM
Sugar, people who judge you and don't know you have no idea, I adore you... you and I are alot alike. We calls em' like we see's em'... and for people who live in "Niceville" that disrupts their delicate sensibilities. Don't sweat it, they are the ones with the issues...not you. Don't change, or then I'll be angry.... And no one wants that wrath... Side note: Society puts this submissive persona on women like it's our duty to please people... F*CK THAT NOISE... You're a good person....

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Fri 05/30/08 08:47 AM
Sugar, people who judge you and don't know you have no idea, I adore you... you and I are alot alike. We calls em' like we see's em'... and for people who live in "Niceville" that disrupts their delicate sensibilities. Don't sweat it, they are the ones with the issues...not you. Don't change, or then I'll be angry.... And no one wants that wrath... Side note: Society puts this submissive persona on women like it's our duty to please people... FCK THAT NOISE... You're a good person.... OMG...that is such psycho-babble bullsht...everyone has opinions...but btching is just btching... Agreed, what kind of feminist bull **** jargon is that? Or should I say feminazi????? Thus I maketh my point.... I "have" to be cute, careful of what I say??? I "have" to smile and watch my body language???....ummm I dont think so, I'd rather be a b!tch any day instead of a floor mat...

rebkel Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 205	Fri 05/30/08 08:48 AM
Sugar, people who judge you and don't know you have no idea, I adore you... you and I are alot alike. We calls em' like we see's em'... and for people who live in "Niceville" that disrupts their delicate sensibilities. Don't sweat it, they are the ones with the issues...not you. Don't change, or then I'll be angry.... And no one wants that wrath... Side note: Society puts this submissive persona on women like it's our duty to please people... FCK THAT NOISE... You're a good person.... OMG...that is such psycho-babble bullsht...everyone has opinions...but btching is just btching... Agreed, what kind of feminist bull **** jargon is that? Or should I say feminazi????? Thus I maketh my point.... I "have" to be cute, careful of what I say??? I "have" to smile and watch my body language???....ummm I dont think so, I'd rather be a b!tch any day instead of a floor mat... No, you certainly don't have to. But at the same time, there's no sense in complaining about it, if you aren't willing to change anything about it. Just a thought.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 05/30/08 08:49 AM
That would be the feminazi bullsh*t that keeps assholes at bay... Works well huh?? why should she or anyone else have to conform to what others want them to be? A very wise woman once told me... "Look at your hand, you have 5 fingers, you need them all, all of them are different, people are like fingers, they are all different, but you need all of them." Well behaved Women seldom make history......

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/30/08 08:49 AM
That is not being a floor mat. It's choosing when to speak up and when to let things ride.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 05/30/08 08:49 AM
Sugar, people who judge you and don't know you have no idea, I adore you... you and I are alot alike. We calls em' like we see's em'... and for people who live in "Niceville" that disrupts their delicate sensibilities. Don't sweat it, they are the ones with the issues...not you. Don't change, or then I'll be angry.... And no one wants that wrath... Side note: Society puts this submissive persona on women like it's our duty to please people... FCK THAT NOISE... You're a good person.... OMG...that is such psycho-babble bullsht...everyone has opinions...but btching is just btching... Agreed, what kind of feminist bull **** jargon is that? Or should I say feminazi????? Society may put that persona on you but deal with it; otherwise, good luck finding a man; if the man become submissive, he's either metro, has no backbone and becomes your puppet, or gay and not out of the closet... I don't want a man if he thinks like that anyway.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/30/08 08:50 AM
Sugar, people who judge you and don't know you have no idea, I adore you... you and I are alot alike. We calls em' like we see's em'... and for people who live in "Niceville" that disrupts their delicate sensibilities. Don't sweat it, they are the ones with the issues...not you. Don't change, or then I'll be angry.... And no one wants that wrath... Side note: Society puts this submissive persona on women like it's our duty to please people... FCK THAT NOISE... You're a good person.... OMG...that is such psycho-babble bullsht...everyone has opinions...but btching is just btching... Agreed, what kind of feminist bull **** jargon is that? Or should I say feminazi????? Thus I maketh my point.... I "have" to be cute, careful of what I say??? I "have" to smile and watch my body language???....ummm I dont think so, I'd rather be a b!tch any day instead of a floor mat... I think you answered your own question.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 05/30/08 08:52 AM
Sugar, people who judge you and don't know you have no idea, I adore you... you and I are alot alike. We calls em' like we see's em'... and for people who live in "Niceville" that disrupts their delicate sensibilities. Don't sweat it, they are the ones with the issues...not you. Don't change, or then I'll be angry.... And no one wants that wrath... Side note: Society puts this submissive persona on women like it's our duty to please people... FCK THAT NOISE... You're a good person.... OMG...that is such psycho-babble bullsht...everyone has opinions...but btching is just btching... Agreed, what kind of feminist bull **** jargon is that? Or should I say feminazi????? Thus I maketh my point.... I "have" to be cute, careful of what I say??? I "have" to smile and watch my body language???....ummm I dont think so, I'd rather be a b!tch any day instead of a floor mat... Honey you just stay exactly the way you are. Don't change for these assholes who aren't clever enough to understand that a women's strength does not detract from their precious manhood.

TheMaverick Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 132	Fri 05/30/08 08:52 AM Edited by TheMaverick on Fri 05/30/08 08:53 AM
That would be the feminazi bullsh*t that keeps assholes at bay... Works well huh?? why should she or anyone else have to conform to what others want them to be? A very wise woman once told me... "Look at your hand, you have 5 fingers, you need them all, all of them are different, people are like fingers, they are all different, but you need all of them." Well behaved Women seldom make history...... True but don't complain about your disposition if you are proud to be a certain way. You have to right to be "different" but people also have to right to treat you differently as a direct result. You reap what you sew...DEAL WITH IT. Don't complain that society should change to fit your own standards, that is close-minded and selfish.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/30/08 08:52 AM


Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Fri 05/30/08 08:53 AM
People think Im a perv just becuse I carry my blow up doll everywhere!!!! Dont change a bit, U are awesume just being you!!!!!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 05/30/08 08:53 AM
Is it just me or is the general caliber of the people and the replies on this site going down? I can't believe some of the stuff I see.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/30/08 08:54 AM
neither can I

TheMaverick Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 132	Fri 05/30/08 08:55 AM Edited by TheMaverick on Fri 05/30/08 08:55 AM
Is it just me or is the general caliber of the people and the replies on this site going down? I can't believe some of the stuff I see. I prefer it this way rather than some moderator censoring peoples posts and taking away my absolute right of free speech. But it's not absolute if you read the TOS agreement...