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when I find something worth my time to state my opinion.I do. if no reason to I wont,it keeps people assuming things,and when people assume its most always wrong. So you purposely mislead people? |
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pls tell me how I mislead people??
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what I say is true,when I want to state my opinion I will,if I dont want to I wont,if someone dont like my opinion then oh well.I leave faces because thats what I like to do,I write,talk a lot u just got to know me,which u dont so u are one of the ones who assume things,whixh is cool u can do that.
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Edited by
OrangeCat
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Fri 05/30/08 11:28 PM
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I do not mislead not one person,I cant stand when people do that to m,but pls tell me how I am misleading people
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So I happen to be very opinionated, forthright and not afraid of conflict. When I strongly believe in something I defend it as is my right and duty to do so...why does that translate in other people as me being angry?? Does this happen to you? Do you think it happens more to women than men, since women generally are assumed to be passive and non-confrontational??? This place is starting to give me a complex....  Nothing personal, but I haven't noticed you until the construction signs came up about that complex you're building. Is there going to be a full basement and a spa? More importantly, and for a good defense, is there going to be a place where we can get guns and knives and stuff? If it's going to be a battle, we should be prepared. 
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First I heard you were angry.  Same here. |
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what I say is true,when I want to state my opinion I will,if I dont want to I wont,if someone dont like my opinion then oh well.I leave faces because thats what I like to do,I write,talk a lot u just got to know me,which u dont so u are one of the ones who assume things,whixh is cool u can do that. I assumed nothing, i asked you questions....DEFENSIVE much? You said "when I find something worth my time to state my opinion.I do. if no reason to I wont,it keeps people assuming things,and when people assume its most always wrong. " You stated that the reason you do it is to keep people assuming, so instead of coming right out and saying what you want to say, you allow them to assume things about you which you now claim to be false. I'm asking for clairification...... I don't want to assume. I want to know what it is that you think. |
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So I happen to be very opinionated, forthright and not afraid of conflict. When I strongly believe in something I defend it as is my right and duty to do so...why does that translate in other people as me being angry?? Does this happen to you? Do you think it happens more to women than men, since women generally are assumed to be passive and non-confrontational??? This place is starting to give me a complex.... Some people think that only their opinions count and if you do not like what they like or you do not think the way they think , they are upset and rude . Once they put an issue in a public forum , it is open for debate . There is no such thing as a person being always right on this planet !.  .
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Opinions are always right.... TO YOU. (you being whomever is reading this) It's when people get their facts wrong and then base an opinion from said facts that they are wrong.
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So I happen to be very opinionated, forthright and not afraid of conflict. When I strongly believe in something I defend it as is my right and duty to do so...why does that translate in other people as me being angry?? Does this happen to you? Do you think it happens more to women than men, since women generally are assumed to be passive and non-confrontational??? This place is starting to give me a complex.... Some people think that only their opinions count and if you do not like what they like or you do not think the way they think , they are upset and rude . Once they put an issue in a public forum , it is open for debate . There is no such thing as a person being always right on this planet !. . |
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i never found you to be angry. opinions are great.
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So I happen to be very opinionated, forthright and not afraid of conflict. When I strongly believe in something I defend it as is my right and duty to do so...why does that translate in other people as me being angry?? Does this happen to you? Do you think it happens more to women than men, since women generally are assumed to be passive and non-confrontational??? This place is starting to give me a complex.... uhhhh I don't think so .. but you do have a scowl and your arms are crossed (known defensive stance in body language) in this pic. that would be my guess?  the crossed arms make my tits look bigger, I was told it would make me more¨"feminine", what do you think?..does it work? not really .. lol I just think it gives that "I don't give a rat's ass what you think" look ... and that's what you are trying to avoid aren't you? just sayin ...
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As to being upfront and sharing what's on your mind .. you go girl!!!
I'm known for that, especially in the music industry where I work with a lot of artists of one genre. They know if they want the straight up no BS skinny .. they call me
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So I happen to be very opinionated, forthright and not afraid of conflict. When I strongly believe in something I defend it as is my right and duty to do so...why does that translate in other people as me being angry?? Does this happen to you? Do you think it happens more to women than men, since women generally are assumed to be passive and non-confrontational??? This place is starting to give me a complex.... uhhhh I don't think so .. but you do have a scowl and your arms are crossed (known defensive stance in body language) in this pic. that would be my guess? the crossed arms make my tits look bigger, I was told it would make me more¨"feminine", what do you think?..does it work? not really .. lol I just think it gives that "I don't give a rat's ass what you think" look ... and that's what you are trying to avoid aren't you? just sayin ... You can't live your life worrying about what other people think, because then you have given them control. Her only question was, why do people think she is angry when she is not? Not caring about people's opinions means you are secure, not angry. Not everyone is willing to be a people pleaser just to be liked. |
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i never found you to be angry. opinions are great. e |
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Edited by
symbelmyne
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Sat 05/31/08 04:12 PM
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well, this has certainly been a very good read...there appears to be two options, either voiced or unvoiced opinions. When a woman voices her opinion, no matter how carefully she chooses her words there is always going to be the undertone of "b!tch". so she can choose to shut up and avoid the conflict..I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut, I can speak and feel its my right (and sometimes obligation) to express myself.
So, yes..I dont give a rats a$$ if I rub someone the wrong way just because I state my opinion...but that doesnt mean Im angry...
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Nothing personal, but I haven't noticed you until the construction signs came up about that complex you're building. Is there going to be a full basement and a spa? More importantly, and for a good defense, is there going to be a place where we can get guns and knives and stuff? If it's going to be a battle, we should be prepared. well there is going to be a cache of rocks so I can throw them at boys...(I like to do that you know).
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well, this has certainly been a very good read...there appears to be two options, either voiced or unvoiced opinions. Because when a woman voices her opinion, no matter how carefully she chooses her words there is always going to be the undertone of "b!tch". so she can choose to shut up and have and avoid conflict..I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut, I can speak and feel its my right (and sometimes obligation) to express myself. So, yes..I dont give a rats a$$ if I rub someone the wrong way just because I state my opinion...but that doesnt mean Im angry... I don't think they are ever going to get that. I can't tell you how many times some misogynist has called me "bitter" because I don't buy into his theories of female subservience. Oh well.
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I don't think they are ever going to get that. I can't tell you how many times some misogynist has called me "bitter" because I don't buy into his theories of female subservience. Oh well. Agreed... I have that youtube video about me being a stupid feminist... Ahh such dreams!
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I don't think they are ever going to get that. I can't tell you how many times some misogynist has called me "bitter" because I don't buy into his theories of female subservience. Oh well. Agreed... I have that youtube video about me being a stupid feminist... Ahh such dreams! |
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