My ears and head are plugged up.......

as long as you can breath through your nose

& yes

Back on page 2 Driven had it pegged pretty good. Funny how most the women just said end it even though from what you're saying a lot of it IS working....

Bottom line: you two enjoy spending a lot of time with each other besides the benefits� stuff. You eat out, cook together, go to the movies, shop, talk for hours.... As you said "it's not all about sex" so what else do you want? Obviously he has some interest in you or he wouldn't spend all that time with you outside the bedroom.

Sounds like he's enjoying the relationship and that's why he's hanging around. As Driven said, if you try "Locking Him down" with a bunch of ground rules, ultimatums or pressure it might not go well; It will probably take his enjoyment out of the relationship.

Food for thought: A guy normally knows when he has a good thing going on and unless he's a player he normally won't stray as long things are going good. You're spending quality time with him and you're having great sex, is there really anything else? Fact is if you find the relationship that you're fantasizing about, there's no guarantee that things will be any different or the relationship won't derail if the enjoyment is gone.....

I want a friend with great medical benefits that can add me to their policy

a friend with a great life insurance benefits - add me as beneficiary

All teasing aside, if it's what you both want then no harm no foul. If someone has hidden designs of developing more or changing the other...someone will always get hurt.

Also, if you're not looking for more, than no time has been wasted, but if you just have nothing better to do right now, you're true love could be passing you by while you're busy playing with friends. That's how I see it.

I am filing you permission slip for future use it needed.....BIG HUG TO YOU!

Don't we all!!

MissyAnn

I can go on, friend with great auto insurance benefits