I want a friend with great medical benefits that can add me to their policy

a friend with a great life insurance benefits - add me as beneficiary

Good for you, girl ... I knew this post would come one day! I hope you'll see the warning signs and hit the dusty trail EARLY if this new guy doesn't tow the line - NO SETTLING FOR SCRAPS, ya hear me?!

*gives Missy permission to come back and lecture her if she posts that she's not heeding her own advice! *

that's why i don't watch the news...

Name says it all!!!

All I can say, Missy.... is that I give up. If you don't care enough about yourself to stand up and get a backbone...

I refuse to waste any more energy communicating here. Good luck...

I've only been on this site for two days, but I've been on another site since the end of March. The one guy I was interested in said all the right things, was so wonderful and "perfect". We seemed to get along great, thinking alike, believing in the same things, values, and goals, then after two weeks started talking on the phone, a week later we met. He kept saying how excited he was and definitely wanted to continue, called every day for the next couple of days, on a Tuesday night said he wanted to meet the next day.....no meet, no call, nothing.......for a week. Tried to say he was just SOOOO busy, wasn't talking to anyone else, was so lonely, yada yada, but would call later that night. No call, not email for another 4 days, still wants to continue talking and seeing each other. Then I see him on there almost every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day, no contact for almost two weeks-then a "still want to get to know you, but slowly". What, and maybe next lifetime we'll actually have a first date?? Still haven't heard from him, and really don't give a %$$#. He is now on another site too, and still checks back onto the other sited frequently, but he doesn't have any time to talk to me. Yeah, you know what you can do with your excuses, and I'll gladly draw you a map!

to the curb she must go

Sometimes the whole FWB thing can work. It's just all about a mindset. If you go into it trying to gain something more than you are doomed to failure and lots and lots of pain. But if it really is just a phsyical thing and there are clearly no expectations for something more it can be a good thing. No one likes to be alone all the time and sometimes a little connection can go a long way even if it's not leading to "the one". The trick is to know your own feelings and limitations. Some people can't seperate love and sex (not a bad thing), on the flip side you can't always go through life having random and pointless connections with people. And if you want to do a FWB an ex you still have a thing for is not always the best way to go

man up and tell her you like her more than a friend

ouch! I have a FWB and its becoming increasingly clear to us both that its not working out....we love each other as friends, the sex is screwing (no pun intended) up that most important part of our relationship. We're taking a break from each other, cooling off and then we'll see what happens. hopefully its not too late to save the friendship.

Maybe if you are too close of friends the sex screws things up.
Is this because when the relationship gets to this level that maybe folks should become committed? This is really all too confusing.

tried the friends with benefits in the past , guess where it got me, heart broken and with the guy as my new BROTHER N LAW!!!!!

tried the friends with benefits in the past , guess where it got me, heart broken and with the guy as my new BROTHER N LAW!!!!!