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I honestly think that parents try to be friends with their children...you just can't do this!! I am sure that there is some type of a counseling place that does in-patient treatment. If you can't control her, they will.
I know here in Indiana, we have a place called Michiana Behavorial Health Center. They treat kids and adults with all kinds of problems. They do an review of your situation and determine what is best for you, if you are a minor...your parent has to sign you in and you stay there until a doctor says you are ready to get out. I would say you need to call your family doctor or even your police department, I am sure they are aware of some in-patient facility. Good luck 
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I HAVE A 13 YR OLD GIRL THAT IS OUT OF CONTROL. SHE HAS BEEN SUSPENDED FROM SCHOOL SEVERAL TIMES THIS YEAR, BEEN LOCKED UP IN JUVY OVERNIGHT, AND CONSTANTLY CUSSES ME AND HER MAMAW OUT. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING I KNOW OF TO GET HER TO GET CONTROL OF HER ACTIONS. SHE IS CURRENTLY ON MEDICATION FOR HER ANGER ISSUES AND SHE IS ON PROBATION. WHAT CAN A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 DO? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER MIND. SHE WONT TALK TO ME AND I AM DEVASTATED ABOUT ALL THIS. I DONT WANT HER BROTHERS TO END UP LIKE THE WAY SHE IS RIGHT NOW. I TELL MY SONS NOT TO ACT LIKE THEIR SISTER BUT HER TWIN BROTHER IS STARTING TO ACT OUT. I CAUGHT HIM SMOKING CIGS YESTERDAY AND I REALLY BLEW A FUSE THEN. CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT. These issues are most of the time dealt with therapy sessions. There are many places that they will take you on and subject to your ability to pay wil charge a fee but the agreements are that normally if you miss 2 sessions they will dismiss you. Bear that in mind As for the issues the anger may be about a missing parent who possibly left abruptly never to return or death of a parent which causes the anxiety. It may also be due to ADHT which needs expeert for diagnosys. So 1st step seek counceling and then try to make sure it is not HDT or ADHT im sorry but all that add adhd abde efgh is all horse crap. adhd is a kid raised by a parent who spoils their kid and lets them get away with way to much, beat her ass, ull see what happens look asshole dont get me started.i'm no softee and my child has issues which behavior which have nothing to do with lack of discipline.either show your degree or stop talking thru your ass. 
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jewlz...how many children have you raised and do you have a degree in such?  I am a police officer, on a dialy basis i raise the children of parents who couldnt do it themselves. OMG, You are scarcely more than a boy yourself.  Dont let the brainwashing go yo your head sonny!!! 
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I HAVE A 13 YR OLD GIRL THAT IS OUT OF CONTROL. SHE HAS BEEN SUSPENDED FROM SCHOOL SEVERAL TIMES THIS YEAR, BEEN LOCKED UP IN JUVY OVERNIGHT, AND CONSTANTLY CUSSES ME AND HER MAMAW OUT. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING I KNOW OF TO GET HER TO GET CONTROL OF HER ACTIONS. SHE IS CURRENTLY ON MEDICATION FOR HER ANGER ISSUES AND SHE IS ON PROBATION. WHAT CAN A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 DO? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER MIND. SHE WONT TALK TO ME AND I AM DEVASTATED ABOUT ALL THIS. I DONT WANT HER BROTHERS TO END UP LIKE THE WAY SHE IS RIGHT NOW. I TELL MY SONS NOT TO ACT LIKE THEIR SISTER BUT HER TWIN BROTHER IS STARTING TO ACT OUT. I CAUGHT HIM SMOKING CIGS YESTERDAY AND I REALLY BLEW A FUSE THEN. CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT. These issues are most of the time dealt with therapy sessions. There are many places that they will take you on and subject to your ability to pay wil charge a fee but the agreements are that normally if you miss 2 sessions they will dismiss you. Bear that in mind As for the issues the anger may be about a missing parent who possibly left abruptly never to return or death of a parent which causes the anxiety. It may also be due to ADHT which needs expeert for diagnosys. So 1st step seek counceling and then try to make sure it is not HDT or ADHT im sorry but all that add adhd abde efgh is all horse crap. adhd is a kid raised by a parent who spoils their kid and lets them get away with way to much, beat her ass, ull see what happens look asshole dont get me started.i'm no softee and my child has issues which behavior which have nothing to do with lack of discipline.either show your degree or stop talking thru your ass. Cute, forget the phony! The OP needs advice...
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I often read this forum and think to myself,
WOW these are really some very wise Mothers and fathers. But this thread has went to the dogs. It seems everyone has forgotten there is someone asking for your experience and guidance! What happened!! 
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I HAVE A 13 YR OLD GIRL THAT IS OUT OF CONTROL. SHE HAS BEEN SUSPENDED FROM SCHOOL SEVERAL TIMES THIS YEAR, BEEN LOCKED UP IN JUVY OVERNIGHT, AND CONSTANTLY CUSSES ME AND HER MAMAW OUT. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING I KNOW OF TO GET HER TO GET CONTROL OF HER ACTIONS. SHE IS CURRENTLY ON MEDICATION FOR HER ANGER ISSUES AND SHE IS ON PROBATION. WHAT CAN A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 DO? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER MIND. SHE WONT TALK TO ME AND I AM DEVASTATED ABOUT ALL THIS. I DONT WANT HER BROTHERS TO END UP LIKE THE WAY SHE IS RIGHT NOW. I TELL MY SONS NOT TO ACT LIKE THEIR SISTER BUT HER TWIN BROTHER IS STARTING TO ACT OUT. I CAUGHT HIM SMOKING CIGS YESTERDAY AND I REALLY BLEW A FUSE THEN. CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT. These issues are most of the time dealt with therapy sessions. There are many places that they will take you on and subject to your ability to pay wil charge a fee but the agreements are that normally if you miss 2 sessions they will dismiss you. Bear that in mind As for the issues the anger may be about a missing parent who possibly left abruptly never to return or death of a parent which causes the anxiety. It may also be due to ADHT which needs expeert for diagnosys. So 1st step seek counceling and then try to make sure it is not HDT or ADHT im sorry but all that add adhd abde efgh is all horse crap. adhd is a kid raised by a parent who spoils their kid and lets them get away with way to much, beat her ass, ull see what happens are you a mental health care professional? |
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it may have come off very abrasive the way i put it but i dont agree with child abuse or anything of the such. but a good smack on the bottom to help remind the child is all i am saying. and after that i was just stating that i dont agree with using add or adhd as an excuse for a childs behavior the thing that upset me is that we have a frightened single mom of three asking for help and you pretty much blamed her for what is happening. She doesn't need blame. She needs help. She does not need to be judged right now, she needs compassion. She is in a scary and lonely place, and I am there too. |
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it may have come off very abrasive the way i put it but i dont agree with child abuse or anything of the such. but a good smack on the bottom to help remind the child is all i am saying. and after that i was just stating that i dont agree with using add or adhd as an excuse for a childs behavior the thing that upset me is that we have a frightened single mom of three asking for help and you pretty much blamed her for what is happening. She doesn't need blame. She needs help. She does not need to be judged right now, she needs compassion. She is in a scary and lonely place, and I am there too.
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I often read this forum and think to myself, WOW these are really some very wise Mothers and fathers. But this thread has went to the dogs. It seems everyone has forgotten there is someone asking for your experience and guidance! What happened!! Thank you!!! |
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Lets please keep it civil in here folks, no need to insult one another, thanks, Mark |
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I HAVE A 13 YR OLD GIRL THAT IS OUT OF CONTROL. SHE HAS BEEN SUSPENDED FROM SCHOOL SEVERAL TIMES THIS YEAR, BEEN LOCKED UP IN JUVY OVERNIGHT, AND CONSTANTLY CUSSES ME AND HER MAMAW OUT. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING I KNOW OF TO GET HER TO GET CONTROL OF HER ACTIONS. SHE IS CURRENTLY ON MEDICATION FOR HER ANGER ISSUES AND SHE IS ON PROBATION. WHAT CAN A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 DO? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER MIND. SHE WONT TALK TO ME AND I AM DEVASTATED ABOUT ALL THIS. I DONT WANT HER BROTHERS TO END UP LIKE THE WAY SHE IS RIGHT NOW. I TELL MY SONS NOT TO ACT LIKE THEIR SISTER BUT HER TWIN BROTHER IS STARTING TO ACT OUT. I CAUGHT HIM SMOKING CIGS YESTERDAY AND I REALLY BLEW A FUSE THEN. I have a 12 year old that is bipolar and always in trouble at school, too. He hasn't been to juvy yet, but I have the feeling it's coming. I can get him to sit down and talk to me one on one and he will be fine for a while, but then he goes right back to the same old ways. She needs some more positive attention. It's hard to give positive attention in that situation, but it's the best thing for her right now. Maybe she needs more time with you? CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT. |
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I HAVE A 13 YR OLD GIRL THAT IS OUT OF CONTROL. SHE HAS BEEN SUSPENDED FROM SCHOOL SEVERAL TIMES THIS YEAR, BEEN LOCKED UP IN JUVY OVERNIGHT, AND CONSTANTLY CUSSES ME AND HER MAMAW OUT. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING I KNOW OF TO GET HER TO GET CONTROL OF HER ACTIONS. SHE IS CURRENTLY ON MEDICATION FOR HER ANGER ISSUES AND SHE IS ON PROBATION. WHAT CAN A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 DO? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER MIND. SHE WONT TALK TO ME AND I AM DEVASTATED ABOUT ALL THIS. I DONT WANT HER BROTHERS TO END UP LIKE THE WAY SHE IS RIGHT NOW. I TELL MY SONS NOT TO ACT LIKE THEIR SISTER BUT HER TWIN BROTHER IS STARTING TO ACT OUT. I CAUGHT HIM SMOKING CIGS YESTERDAY AND I REALLY BLEW A FUSE THEN. CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT. These issues are most of the time dealt with therapy sessions. There are many places that they will take you on and subject to your ability to pay wil charge a fee but the agreements are that normally if you miss 2 sessions they will dismiss you. Bear that in mind As for the issues the anger may be about a missing parent who possibly left abruptly never to return or death of a parent which causes the anxiety. It may also be due to ADHT which needs expeert for diagnosys. So 1st step seek counceling and then try to make sure it is not HDT or ADHT im sorry but all that add adhd abde efgh is all horse crap. adhd is a kid raised by a parent who spoils their kid and lets them get away with way to much, beat her ass, ull see what happens Only a 21 year old kid could say this is crap. Beating their ass is not always the answer. Only when necessary! These are real problems. |
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I often read this forum and think to myself, WOW these are really some very wise Mothers and fathers. But this thread has went to the dogs. It seems everyone has forgotten there is someone asking for your experience and guidance! What happened!! this is why i sort of drifted off and left it where she is free to contact me if i can help in any way
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it may have come off very abrasive the way i put it but i dont agree with child abuse or anything of the such. but a good smack on the bottom to help remind the child is all i am saying. and after that i was just stating that i dont agree with using add or adhd as an excuse for a childs behavior the thing that upset me is that we have a frightened single mom of three asking for help and you pretty much blamed her for what is happening. She doesn't need blame. She needs help. She does not need to be judged right now, she needs compassion. She is in a scary and lonely place, and I am there too. brilliant as always my dear ((((hiker)))) xoxoxo |
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I HAVE A 13 YR OLD GIRL THAT IS OUT OF CONTROL. SHE HAS BEEN SUSPENDED FROM SCHOOL SEVERAL TIMES THIS YEAR, BEEN LOCKED UP IN JUVY OVERNIGHT, AND CONSTANTLY CUSSES ME AND HER MAMAW OUT. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING I KNOW OF TO GET HER TO GET CONTROL OF HER ACTIONS. SHE IS CURRENTLY ON MEDICATION FOR HER ANGER ISSUES AND SHE IS ON PROBATION. WHAT CAN A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 DO? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER MIND. SHE WONT TALK TO ME AND I AM DEVASTATED ABOUT ALL THIS. I DONT WANT HER BROTHERS TO END UP LIKE THE WAY SHE IS RIGHT NOW. I TELL MY SONS NOT TO ACT LIKE THEIR SISTER BUT HER TWIN BROTHER IS STARTING TO ACT OUT. I CAUGHT HIM SMOKING CIGS YESTERDAY AND I REALLY BLEW A FUSE THEN. CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT. These issues are most of the time dealt with therapy sessions. There are many places that they will take you on and subject to your ability to pay wil charge a fee but the agreements are that normally if you miss 2 sessions they will dismiss you. Bear that in mind As for the issues the anger may be about a missing parent who possibly left abruptly never to return or death of a parent which causes the anxiety. It may also be due to ADHT which needs expeert for diagnosys. So 1st step seek counceling and then try to make sure it is not HDT or ADHT im sorry but all that add adhd abde efgh is all horse crap. adhd is a kid raised by a parent who spoils their kid and lets them get away with way to much, beat her ass, ull see what happens Good Lord..you are truly an idiot! How can you say that parents spoil kids and they don't have ADHD or ADD. Obviously you have never been around a child that has this disease! I am a very strict parent and I have 2 sons, one has ADD and one has ADHD. I do not spoil my children and I do make them mind. My boys do not get away with anything, they know the rules and trust me, they follow them. I think maybe you weren't loved enough as a child and maybe this is why you feel this way? I think you should become educated about this disease before you speak about something you know nothing about. Google it my dear..you might actually learn something!!
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it may have come off very abrasive the way i put it but i dont agree with child abuse or anything of the such. but a good smack on the bottom to help remind the child is all i am saying. and after that i was just stating that i dont agree with using add or adhd as an excuse for a childs behavior the thing that upset me is that we have a frightened single mom of three asking for help and you pretty much blamed her for what is happening. She doesn't need blame. She needs help. She does not need to be judged right now, she needs compassion. She is in a scary and lonely place, and I am there too. brilliant as always my dear ((((hiker)))) xoxoxo well, I posted a similar thread and got nothing but love and compassion. I would have cried my eyes out if I had gotten this kind of stuff. It was her very first post. Think she will come back here for help? |
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hiker, i would have to say i doubt it and i wouldnt blame her. with some of the things that were said here about and her children. totally out of line and uncalled for. i found it gross and sickening!!!!!!!!!! completely disappointed in how that was handled!!!!!!!
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I HAVE A 13 YR OLD GIRL THAT IS OUT OF CONTROL. SHE HAS BEEN SUSPENDED FROM SCHOOL SEVERAL TIMES THIS YEAR, BEEN LOCKED UP IN JUVY OVERNIGHT, AND CONSTANTLY CUSSES ME AND HER MAMAW OUT. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING I KNOW OF TO GET HER TO GET CONTROL OF HER ACTIONS. SHE IS CURRENTLY ON MEDICATION FOR HER ANGER ISSUES AND SHE IS ON PROBATION. WHAT CAN A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 DO? I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IS GOING ON IN HER MIND. SHE WONT TALK TO ME AND I AM DEVASTATED ABOUT ALL THIS. I DONT WANT HER BROTHERS TO END UP LIKE THE WAY SHE IS RIGHT NOW. I TELL MY SONS NOT TO ACT LIKE THEIR SISTER BUT HER TWIN BROTHER IS STARTING TO ACT OUT. I CAUGHT HIM SMOKING CIGS YESTERDAY AND I REALLY BLEW A FUSE THEN. CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO? I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT. These issues are most of the time dealt with therapy sessions. There are many places that they will take you on and subject to your ability to pay wil charge a fee but the agreements are that normally if you miss 2 sessions they will dismiss you. Bear that in mind As for the issues the anger may be about a missing parent who possibly left abruptly never to return or death of a parent which causes the anxiety. It may also be due to ADHT which needs expeert for diagnosys. So 1st step seek counceling and then try to make sure it is not HDT or ADHT im sorry but all that add adhd abde efgh is all horse crap. adhd is a kid raised by a parent who spoils their kid and lets them get away with way to much, beat her ass, ull see what happens I personally take offence to the ADHD thing, it is not crap, I was brought up by EXTREMELY strcit parents in a very well dicsiplined house, and I still have troubles wth my condition to this day, so you can be quiet about that one.  
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ADHD is real...its a condition...it can be treated but it is real. those who have never experienced such matters have NO right judging or making such assumptions...again...disappointed!!!
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ADHD is real...its a condition...it can be treated but it is real. those who have never experienced such matters have NO right judging or making such assumptions...again...disappointed!!! But aren't you used to ignorance running amuck? It just makes me sad, really.
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