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pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Sat 04/12/08 12:27 PM
I have no problem signing one,what he had before we met is not mine.What we make together is.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sat 04/12/08 01:26 PM
You're darn right I am thinking material here, and so are all of you. this was you presuming what i asked for in my divorce, material things it has nothing to do with thinking something is doomed from the start. it has EVERYTHING to do with dooming the marriage before it starts, there's no trust I would have to be competely naive not to believe that a majority of the women attracted to me are attracted for reasons other than who I am inside know who you're marrying before you marry them prenups are needed to keep peole from getting screwed prenups are used to guard assets from spouses that aren't trusted...period You did not make one valid point in that argument. it all reeks of money grubbing to me. You never truly know anothers heart, you can only trust that it is the same as yours. Thinking material had nothing to do with presuming what you asked for in your divorve, it is strictly terms of money. If it didn't matter, and you loved a person for who they were, as well as trusted them you would have no problem with signing a prenup. The no trust issue is simple, it works both ways. You are setting a persons heart, and mind at ease by telling them that the money does not matter, rather you love them for who they are. Prenups are not used to guard from a non trusted spouse, they are to guard your assets from whatever may happen in the future. You cannot seperate the two, that is a serious problem you have, not my problem.

PINKYBLUISH Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 1536	Sat 04/12/08 05:22 PM
it is just a papper ...also the marriage certificate...its just a papper, i say sign it and get over with it. The thing here is u r going to get marry so whats the big deal w the prenup, i mean its not like ur marriage is going to be doom for a prenup, i heard of pple that cheat, get divorced, or whatever and the marriage was doom since the very beging and they never had a prenup so what i am trying to say is that when its meant to be and u know how to work things out signing a prenup its not much a big deal...so i say just do it and keep walking

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Sat 04/12/08 05:24 PM
yes and I know it may sound harsh... but I only plan on marrying once, just once. I don't believe in divorce (in most circumstances), so I won't marry someone that does. I'm not saying there aren't valid reasons for a divorce so don't attack me But I also want it in the back of his mind... that if he steps out of the marriage, he stands to lose ALOT more than just me. i agree with the thinking here. but i would sign it. wouldnt have any issues with signing it.. then again.. im never gettin maried, so this question doesnt appyl. lol

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Sat 04/12/08 05:25 PM
Look, seriously. I would sign one, I don't give two big whoops about it. I am comfortable with how I am living now, and would be if there were to be a divorce. I'm the most unmaterialistic person I know. But I don't Plan on getting married again, so who freakin knows. btw, im kinda drunk.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sat 04/12/08 05:31 PM
Look, seriously. I would sign one, I don't give two big whoops about it. I am comfortable with how I am living now, and would be if there were to be a divorce. I'm the most unmaterialistic person I know. But I don't Plan on getting married again, so who freakin knows. btw, im kinda drunk. hmm, drunk kitten is only 4 hours away from me

wickedlluccy Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 1040	Sat 04/12/08 05:40 PM
Look, seriously. I would sign one, I don't give two big whoops about it. I am comfortable with how I am living now, and would be if there were to be a divorce. I'm the most unmaterialistic person I know. But I don't Plan on getting married again, so who freakin knows. btw, im kinda drunk. hmm, drunk kitten is only 4 hours away from me ...walk away our sweet little smoldering Cancer man...she'll eat you up and spit you out all over ...lol...lol...she is one of us known as sexy but dangerous...and your cancer soul would get bruised profusely...but then..I could be wrong...lol.. (glad your still around hun ) ~wicked~

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Sat 04/12/08 05:42 PM
Look, seriously. I would sign one, I don't give two big whoops about it. I am comfortable with how I am living now, and would be if there were to be a divorce. I'm the most unmaterialistic person I know. But I don't Plan on getting married again, so who freakin knows. btw, im kinda drunk. hmm, drunk kitten is only 4 hours away from me I thought you were going north? HMMMMMM?

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sat 04/12/08 06:00 PM
Look, seriously. I would sign one, I don't give two big whoops about it. I am comfortable with how I am living now, and would be if there were to be a divorce. I'm the most unmaterialistic person I know. But I don't Plan on getting married again, so who freakin knows. btw, im kinda drunk. hmm, drunk kitten is only 4 hours away from me I thought you were going north? HMMMMMM? up, but not yet. Got called back for a 12th hour delivery

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sat 04/12/08 06:00 PM Edited by Single_Rob on Sat 04/12/08 06:01 PM
Look, seriously. I would sign one, I don't give two big whoops about it. I am comfortable with how I am living now, and would be if there were to be a divorce. I'm the most unmaterialistic person I know. But I don't Plan on getting married again, so who freakin knows. btw, im kinda drunk. hmm, drunk kitten is only 4 hours away from me ...walk away our sweet little smoldering Cancer man...she'll eat you up and spit you out all over ...lol...lol...she is one of us known as sexy but dangerous...and your cancer soul would get bruised profusely...but then..I could be wrong...lol.. (glad your still around hun ) ~wicked~ I doubt you are wrong, I am too soft hearted

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Sat 04/12/08 06:02 PM
Rob, your welcome to come have some beers at my place anytime. I wouldn't eat you up and spit you out. Im a virgo.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sat 04/12/08 07:30 PM
Rob, your welcome to come have some beers at my place anytime. I wouldn't eat you up and spit you out. Im a virgo. yes, and taken. to friends, weewt!

malizza Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 113	Sat 04/12/08 08:28 PM
If you fell in love with a fairly wealthy person, would you object to a prenuptial agreement? if yes, state a valid reason, and not just; "if he loves me it wouldn't be needed" No because I dont want anything that doesn't belong to me I would want to build on our relationship from the point of the marriage... but Not try to benefit from anything that He had beforehand...

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Mon 04/14/08 02:30 PM
If you fell in love with a fairly wealthy person, would you object to a prenuptial agreement? if yes, state a valid reason, and not just; "if he loves me it wouldn't be needed" No because I dont want anything that doesn't belong to me I would want to build on our relationship from the point of the marriage... but Not try to benefit from anything that He had beforehand... clapclapclapclapclap

SQUIDLOVERGIRL85 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 328	Mon 04/14/08 02:34 PM
If you fell in love with a fairly wealthy person, would you object to a prenuptial agreement? if yes, state a valid reason, and not just; "if he loves me it wouldn't be needed" dunno...

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Mon 04/14/08 02:35 PM
If you fell in love with a fairly wealthy person, would you object to a prenuptial agreement? if yes, state a valid reason, and not just; "if he loves me it wouldn't be needed" dunno... thanks for the honest answer

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Mon 04/14/08 02:48 PM
I don't have a problem with this as long as it deals with what he had before we where married. Myself I don't have much but I would want it stated that my kids got my house if anything happen to me it is not much but I worked hard for it I bought it myself. I did not acquire it in the divorce so hey it is only fair. No one wants to give up half of what they worked hard for. But then I let my ex have his share and he keep his business I did not touch it. I guess it is how some are differnt I don't believe in taking them to the cleaners.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Mon 04/14/08 02:50 PM
I don't have a problem with this as long as it deals with what he had before we where married. Myself I don't have much but I would want it stated that my kids got my house if anything happen to me it is not much but I worked hard for it I bought it myself. I did not acquire it in the divorce so hey it is only fair. No one wants to give up half of what they worked hard for. But then I let my ex have his share and he keep his business I did not touch it. I guess it is how some are differnt I don't believe in taking them to the cleaners. a very respectable answer from a respectful lady. Thank you

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 04/14/08 06:20 PM Edited by ellgee1976 on Mon 04/14/08 06:21 PM
You did not make one valid point in that argument. it all reeks of money grubbing to me. You never truly know anothers heart, you can only trust that it is the same as yours. Thinking material had nothing to do with presuming what you asked for in your divorve, it is strictly terms of money. If it didn't matter, and you loved a person for who they were, as well as trusted them you would have no problem with signing a prenup. The no trust issue is simple, it works both ways. You are setting a persons heart, and mind at ease by telling them that the money does not matter, rather you love them for who they are. Prenups are not used to guard from a non trusted spouse, they are to guard your assets from whatever may happen in the future. You cannot seperate the two, that is a serious problem you have, not my problem. your arguement holds no water with me rob, that's what you fail to realize or understand. i wanted nothing but my freedom from him whether or not i signed a prenup, i still would want nothing from him once the relationship is over if you loved a person for who they were, as well as trusted them, you would have no prenup in MY opinion, a prenup screams "I DON'T TRUST YOU" know who you're with, if you have even a slight doubt of their integrity, then ya shouldn't marry 'em.... PERIOD not all women are the same

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Mon 04/14/08 07:08 PM
You did not make one valid point in that argument. it all reeks of money grubbing to me. You never truly know anothers heart, you can only trust that it is the same as yours. Thinking material had nothing to do with presuming what you asked for in your divorve, it is strictly terms of money. If it didn't matter, and you loved a person for who they were, as well as trusted them you would have no problem with signing a prenup. The no trust issue is simple, it works both ways. You are setting a persons heart, and mind at ease by telling them that the money does not matter, rather you love them for who they are. Prenups are not used to guard from a non trusted spouse, they are to guard your assets from whatever may happen in the future. You cannot seperate the two, that is a serious problem you have, not my problem. your arguement holds no water with me rob, that's what you fail to realize or understand. i wanted nothing but my freedom from him whether or not i signed a prenup, i still would want nothing from him once the relationship is over if you loved a person for who they were, as well as trusted them, you would have no prenup in MY opinion, a prenup screams "I DON'T TRUST YOU" know who you're with, if you have even a slight doubt of their integrity, then ya shouldn't marry 'em.... PERIOD not all women are the same apparently a lot of them are, just like men. Thanks