I would die before I hit a lady, and infidelity would negate the prenup

Have to agree. Pre-nups seem to say, "I don't expect this to last, anyway." The person asking for one is already planning a divorce before the wedding has even happened. Do I really want to marry someone who is looking towards divorce. Divorce should be a last option. With a pre-nup, the person already has a ready made exit door and no motivation to try and work out any issues that might arise.

The question is.. would HE sign a prenup?

No. I would have no problem signing one. I don't marry for money in the first place...yet I would make sure it works "both" ways

that is a whole nother thread. This thread is for her. That being said I would in a heartbeat

I think the harsh critique is unwarranted. The d!ck or asshole or cheap tightwad bastard may need a prenuptual agreement to protect a business that's in his name or finances that are tied up in family trust as in family inheritance shared between siblings in an escrow. My sisters inheritance doesn't belong to you in a divorce decree no matter what your cheap sleazy polyester divorce lawyer says. Does that make sense. Look deeper into the question. A pre nup is for protection for both parties.

I would sign one...........i didn't help him get where he is why should i benefit when it falls apart. However whatever is accumulated after we got together is fair game.......

wldnt object- divorces can be bitter.
if a prenup makes either person feel better to get married, why not?? although it would make me think he didnt think he could trust me.. idk

as long as your ass is safe...you can do w/it what you like i swear it's no fun here when you're away saving the world

oh come on now you couldnt have missed me that much

I wouldnt mind b/c I have my own money & that prenup would work both ways.

makes sense

Everyone keeps looking at it in a cheap tightwad/ gold digger view. Most pre nups are for protection for BOTH parties. Think liability issues. Think protection. Follow with me now- A man owns a corporation for example. He signs a prenuptual agreement with his wife leaving her exempt and hold harmless of that corporation. Later he gets indicted on federal corruption charges, money laundering charges, illegal business charges. Because of that prenup she moves on with her life and he's screwed. Same situation only the greedy mindset woman says "screw that prenup- I'm not signing it!" when he goes down on the federal corruption charges the feds go after her also. She had nothing to do with the business and is sitting in prison 7 years for being guilty by marriage. And wishing she would have signed a prenup. Think about it.

I am really trying to help here- so please don't get me wrong. Another example is a married couple who has no prenuptual contract. The wife starts a dot com that thrives well. For awhile. Then it tanks and the creditors and banks come after her assets with lawsuits an then his assets because he's guilty by marriage. A prenup would have gave them a security cushion. Folks this stuff happens every day. The good, the bad, and the ugly.

My sister signed a pre nup with her husband. He owned his own house in a predominant area which is worth alot. So basically when she signed that agreement she said, I came with so much and you came with so much and if this doesnt work out you keep all of your stuff and I keep mine. I still think he is a tightwad and he is!!!

Ladies, for the ones that have a problem with a prenup. Explain to me why you think you shoul dbe entitled to any assets he had prior to marrying you?

I have no problems with prenups but with my sisters husband I did because he is a cheap guy. He has tons of money yet makes her go to the thrift stores for clothes for their child.

How about this one from experience.....stupid d!ckhead blows a redlight and T bones your car. You are injured. Stupid d!ckhead says "sorry buddy, you're screwed because I got no auto insurance. Ha ha ha, whaddya going to do to me? That's right nothing." Wrong. Sorry Mr d!ckhead, upon further inspection you f*ck my lawyer finds out that you may not have auto insurance but you and your wife have joint homeowners insurance and the laws in my state jurisdiction state that I can sue your homeowners insurance which I do and win big on pain and suffering. Your homeowners insurance company is not too happy with you and cancel you. Two weeks later after your homeowners insurance gets cancelled, your house mysteriously gets arsoned an burned to the ground by the bikers freinds- ya know- the one you T boned at a red light- then laughed in his face? So now your house and every thing you owned is gone. Your car is wrecked. You are deemed uninsurable ever again by all insurance companies faster than a mouse click, your credit rating drops 500 points, you lose your job, you live now in a homeless shelter, and your wife divorces you and wishes she would have had a prenuptual agreement so she would have been protected against your stupidass actions. Ha ha buddy.

Im against them...its like planning to fail.

I cannot even date a woman who says she wouldn't. Sucks for me. it looks like I really narrowed the field