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Sun 07/26/09 11:16 AM
just had waffles, eggs, and sausage. to late for breakfast now. how about lunch. something spicy might be nice.

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Sun 07/26/09 11:03 AM

The solution:

A world dictator who is an environmentalist, naturlist, pacifist, vegetarian, that sets in strict laws to preserve and improve peace amongst humans, wildlife, and nature.

The Problem:

To get every single person on Earth to agree with the dictator.






it will happen. give it time

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Sun 07/26/09 11:00 AM

I think so, yes. If we have good and positive thoughts, we can have a good life. If we have negative, pessimistic thoughts, then our quality of life will be lessened.




for a while yes. but friendships and relationships will ultimately determine quality of life. no matter your outlook when you have enough crap tossed on you it does get tough. for example 2 family member having near death experiences in the same week. both in ICU and totally unrelated. at the same time losing your job and other person in your relationship starts cheating on you. Well positive outlook at that point may be tough to have. that is where having friends comes into play.

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Sun 07/26/09 01:26 AM




This is a respond to the woman who wrote a topic entiteld ( men are players) I just want to findout how did u know we r players unless you were cheating on your boyfriends first.


Wait, what? This line right here nullifies the rest of your post, matter of fact I didn't even read past this line as I figured the rest would pretty much make no sense as well.


would it be that hard to spell check. i understand a few errors but come on already.


Not the spelling. The logic.


you could understand what he said. all i saw was a jumble of words. couldn't understand half of them. had to keep rereading it. likely he was crying as he was typing it all because he was caught.

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Sun 07/26/09 01:23 AM


This is a respond to the woman who wrote a topic entiteld ( men are players) I just want to findout how did u know we r players unless you were cheating on your boyfriends first.


Wait, what? This line right here nullifies the rest of your post, matter of fact I didn't even read past this line as I figured the rest would pretty much make no sense as well.


would it be that hard to spell check. i understand a few errors but come on already.

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Sun 07/26/09 01:21 AM



I just want to findout how did u know we r players unless you were cheating on your boyfriends first.


Will someone please explain this to me?


In some kind of twisted logic...I think he's saying that ' It takes a cheater to KNOW a cheater '.

Not quite sure how THAT works.

Must be kinda like my ex cheating on me and excusing it by saying " Well you WOULD have ".


Had a similar situation ex used the excuse i thought you were. Had every right to after the 5th time of her cheating on me. (don't need to go into that, learned my lesson hard) but still I always chose not to cheat. Never did she once take responsibility for her actions. she loved to play the victim

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Sun 07/26/09 01:17 AM
Where are the women at who say what they mean and mean what they say. Where are the women at who live a life of integrity?
Where are the women who are the same in private as in public?
Where are the women who will date a guy with kids?
Where are the women who are not psycho?
Where are they and where do I find them?

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Sun 07/26/09 01:11 AM

This is a respond to the woman who wrote a topic entiteld ( men are players) I just want to findout how did u know we r players unless you were cheating on your boyfriends first.

I want to refresh your memory that issue depens on the person that you r dealing with. there are many women cheat on there hasubands , boy friends and thier families just to have fun and full thier plusures. want to let u know it is your fault for not taking care on your man and let him slipt from your hands to another girl . I dont plame the men somtimes because when thy find no time for them the start looking for what they missed in another woman


blaming others for your actions is so childish. If you cant own up and take responsibility for your own actions then you don't deserve to be in a relationship. in fact you should stay alone because you are going to do nothing but cause harm to those who you are with. If you do not find what you want in a relationship you do not cheat. you end the relationship and move on. it is that simple. no easy button needed.

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Sun 07/26/09 12:13 AM
Edited by Jon85213 on Sun 07/26/09 12:14 AM
what area of Arizona? sorry misread profile thought you were in Arizona

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Sat 07/25/09 09:29 PM

Just asking.


depends on what you mean by love. What is your definition of love? For some it is being distant. Others it is buying gifts. While others it is spending time with them and being involved. I guess if it is healthy behaviors then there is not an issue. but if it is unhealthy such as buying them everything they ask and never really punishing them then yes you can love them to much.

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Sat 07/25/09 07:56 PM


so lets go out sometime. you never know might work.


awww that's sweet, your cute, but honestly, I'm a little self conscious abt my height, so with heels I am probably almost 6'... but it's good to know there are guys like you still out there



so dont wear heals:wink:

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Sat 07/25/09 07:42 PM
so lets go out sometime. you never know might work.

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Sat 07/25/09 07:41 PM

It seems to me that the men nowa days are so judgement...thinking that a woman must be a hoe if she has kids...not true!!! last time i was with any one was in february and that was my sons dad and i havent been with else in over 2 years...so what is you're take on this...is it i am UNATTRACTIVE now that i have children...i am not fat or anything...i am in alright shape..well im not muscular but i am on my way to being toned.. i walk alot and i started to do yoga... IS IT JUST THE FAMILY ASPECT THAT SCARES THE GUYS AWAY OR SOMETHING?? I AM JUST WONDERINGohwell


As far as you I don't see you see you as that. I see someone who likely has been hurt by a lot of guys. They see you as having a child so they automatically assume you will put out. when they don't get it. they get all but hurt and leave. Well let them. You don't need that type of guy. you need the guy who will be there for the long hall. Hope this helps.

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Sat 07/25/09 07:02 PM
im interested. old fashioned values are hard to find in anyone. nice to see someone who appreciates that.

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Sat 07/25/09 01:19 PM
whats the topic? do you want shock or enjoyment. could try slideshow karaoke. Its where a group of people give a presentation on slides they never have seen before. check it out http://blip.tv/file/2260391

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Sat 07/25/09 09:17 AM
respected, courageous, trustworthy

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Fri 07/24/09 12:21 AM





What would you suggest as a good one?

Just curious.



Oh geez, put me on the spot why don't ya? lol!

Umm well it's best to start out simple... maybe throw a small compliment to the person you're emailing, letting them know why you emailed them--what caught your eye, etc. Tell them something about yourself (something small... or ask how their day was), and leave them with a question that needs more than a yes or no answer. Also, don't give out your email or phone number in the first message--it sounds too desperate. And under no circumstances speak of "love" in the introductory email. lol

Since that is what everbody does I reckon I'll just avoid that.

I prefere to read their posts.

If I like something they say I might check the profile before I email them.

But when I do send one it will be about the post and possibly something I like in the profile(if I checked it).


Actually, barely anyone does that. Most people (in my experience) try to go for originality... and fall flat because they just don't have the same sense of humor as the recipient. Which is fine, I suppose, if you only want to date someone with your exact same mindset. Sometimes it's better to go simple in the beginning and lead up to more.




really? I think AB's approach is original. It is original to the current thought, and it can be serious as well...or it can show a different view point.

I really doubt there is too many ways to introduce yourself via a social network site anymore, JMO.

I could be wrong...



He likely send the same thing to every girl he emails.

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Fri 07/24/09 12:17 AM
First I want to say welcome. This site is great because it is freee and not a lot of people asking for money. Second if your still trying to get over a previous relationship you may want to hold off jumping into another one. May want to just make some new friends. casual dating but don't rush into a relationship until you are over the last one.

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Fri 07/24/09 12:14 AM

Post yours!!

Here's my latest one. Of course most of my really bad ones are spammers/scammers. But still entertaining. Notice the part where he says where he's from. That's priceless.



Hello,
How re you doing?A man's love cannot be satisfied by beauty alone; you're more than beautiful and that's why I IM you...Though miles may lie between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart.Don't measure the distance; measure my love. i dont mind getting to know you more.I would describe myself as a good person' Honesty and important to me and I believe that both communication and mutual respect for one another is the key to a happy and serious relationship. am single with 8yrs boy..i live in bagbad Kenturky.Am honest and faithful man looking for very good woman who i can share my life with a man who we can be very happy in life someday,who really know how to treat a man very good.also good in god i will always make sure that my woman will be happy and be in love with me.if you think you are serious woman....loving humble honest and a Christian.I am a very simple man.. you can IM me through..... (omitted)



sounds scary. surprised he didn't ask to marry you already. definitely someone you would want to avoid. although dating him likely wouldn't be bad because he would do everything for you at the drop of a hat. just don't ever try to breakup. that would be scary.

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Thu 07/23/09 11:52 PM

But I don't do this thing very often.
Any pointers?


describe your interests. what you are looking for. Do you want a serious relationship, friend, sex or something else. Try to create something that will entice someone to know more.