That was fantastic...But I must admit that is usually me that does too much thinking...maybe not to that extreme.

Tina ...What'a you want...youlook pretty sexy

I run into this alot...I am well known in our town because of my activity with the kids and I know (I"ve been told) that this hurts my chances of finding a lasting relationship.

I find that people lie sometimes just to save your feelings...however sometmes it would be best to be honest.

When it comes to trying to start a new relationship with someone, please know that....PEOPLE LIE....hope the best for you.

HOWEVER....if you are too old for them they will probably tell you something else.

I'm 48 the last two girls I've dated were 32

Oakie I gotta go...I've added you as a friend...we'll talk.
Keep your head up, things will get better.

See...the kids figure out what is good and what is right...just be you...if you try to change the kids will know...I'm sure you already do ...but I learned from my late dad 'cause he never did this,you tell your kids that you love them everytime you say 'bye

I believe you will get over her...the thing to concentrate on is the kids.

Mine were 2 and 4, I'm not good at advise. I can only tell you that I always said that mom must have her reasons for what she does. The most important thing I did was to prove to them that I was always there for them...whether it was a hug, a kiss or financially. (which can be tough)
One thing I did was to make sure I lived close enough that they could come over anytime. They stayed over on Tue. & Thur. and every other weekend but it didn't take long they were with me everyday...kids are smart, they figure things out on they're own.

Okie, how old are your kids?

I agree with what was said above. The biggest thing is time...time...and more time. My ex bad mouthed me all the time...I bit my tongue about her. The kids came to live with me, I'm sure it wasn't the only reason but they said they couldn't live with the constant bitterness and complaining

ridethese.com

I got shot in the ear inc.

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Probably because I'm from Ohio and I've coached Little league
baseball for 24 years and I just want people to be careful. Tried to IM
you, will keep trying.

The laughs not on you. Just be careful!!!! When you meet, take a friend.
If he won't agree to that then say no. Get all the info you can about
him before you meet.

Oceans,
That is great.
I'm going to save your responce!