k im not asking for sympathy but some girls i been with or like truly start to go out with they always want to lie and say there is no connection and all, and sometimes i feel used, im not desperate but im sick of those girls who just lie, and i tell tham this at first and they still do it, its so rare to find a girl to truly call your own

any other guys else feel like this??
and girls wat do you think, do you agree some girls dont know wat they want or just want to waste a guy's time for revenge??

Discuss

Women & Men both play too many games. Why is it so hard to just be honest? I am honest and alot of people can't handle the truth, but I think life would be easier with the truth being told straight up front. saves time and heartache.

I find that people lie sometimes just to save your feelings...however sometmes it would be best to be honest.

Same way man every women i have been has done me the same way they tell me we have this great connection then couple of weeks later they dump me saying she doesnt so who knows

it happens to me alot to man

if they cant be straight up, i send bend m over.!!!! lol

Yep women and men both play games...women out of experience, men out of stupidity

well i for one am upfront with the guy if i dont feel a connection after the first couple of dates i let him know that we should just remain as friends. i don't like playing head games with anyone cuz i dont want the guy doing it to me.

DUDE!!! the gurls want to have fun and they don't want to cry.

they want to play, but they don't want to be used.

They want to be taken care of, but want their independence.

They want to be protected, but they say they're tuff!!!

go along with it!!You'll have more fun when you're young!!

Dude if she says there is no connection.... she would know and she isn't lieing . Why there is no connection is the element you need to research and then find yourself. Present yourself to a woman without trying to be what you think she wants you to be. if not then you are presenting the lie to her.

Is there any possible way your reading too much in what they say? I am just asking because I have offered to be friends and the man took my kindness as more than it was. This was not on this site but in person. His feeling were hurt to find out that I really meant "friends" and nothing more ever. I am just trying to understand. If they are players then you got played, no if ands or buts, those individuals live for what they can get from others and there are almost no boundaries for them. I dentifying those ones is the key in that case and staying the he$$ away from them unless you want to play the game with them. Hope this helps

Women & Men both play too many games. Why is it so hard to just be honest? I am honest and alot of people can't handle the truth, but I think life would be easier with the truth being told straight up front. saves time and heartache.
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exactly..
i mean i am all real and i tell them my honesty and how i truly am but i know in tha end , im always goin to be tha one who kept their word

I run into this alot...I am well known in our town because of my activity with the kids and I know (I"ve been told) that this hurts my chances of finding a lasting relationship.

nah i think i just have to stop giving into their lil games lol
i mean i dont deserve this and i know deserve better than this
but sometimes im just too foolish to some women

So you are saying that when these girls tell you there is no connection, they are lying??? Sounds to me like they are being straight up and honest. Why would anyone lie about that?

wouldee makes a good point. Problem is they may tell you to go with the flow. But, sometimes going with the flow ends in heartbreak, because all that stuff they tell you in the beginning changes. But, they don't tell you it changes. Because they expect you to be a mind reader. So just go with the flow until it doesn't flow anymore.

I think part of the problem is that it is hard for a man to remain just friends with a women he is attracted to.

It could be that the women were trying to give it a shot to see if they would feel something with you, but maybe ended up just not feeling it, so ultimately felt the need to tell you how they were honestly feeling. It would have been dishonest of them to just go along and blow you off or stop taking your calls without any explanation. Telling you how they feel is honest.

I live my life like Jesus is listening(he doesnt like liars).However,im not religious or a Jesus freak.Maybe it justs helps me to be honest.I hate when ladies lie because i hold them to a higher standard.It is human nature to lie and women usually do it to protect someones feelings...whateva!

well said goofy