Your right marie, it’s not ok, wasn’t ok and never will be ok. It’s a
matter of who suffers. I spent 2 solid years working this one out within
myself concerning my X. The thing is, she is still in my life (kids) and
is still pulling all the same tricks: money, deceiving, knifing,,, At
least there is one thing I can count on, she has a predictable behavior.
I don’t know when it’s going to hit or from where. But I had to get
unwrapped from the hurt in all of that before I went nuts.

both





What if I snore?

Noticing that forgive is being tied to forget in several posts, as if
they are one in the same. I have a view on that.
Forgetting is only a temporary condition of the conscience brain.
Everything you ever experience is stored in the brain and is there being
used in some fashion.
Forgiving is something conscientiously done for the self. It really has
nothing to do with the other person. It has everything to do with
removal of suffering. When you hear the other persons name or remember
the situation and there is no trigger activated or body tension and it
just passes on through, forgiveness has happened.

Passion flower – very intricate in structure and array of colors

omfg Lily


No date That night!

Either leave it natural or decorate it wildly.


Let the dog watch or kick em outside?

!! !! !!

Right next to Lorina Bobet

not a good idea in my place, too many cobwebs up there. to me they're
kind of like those precious dust particules, god provided them, let'em
be.

Interesting discussion. Guess my boundaries are a bit closer in. If I’m
in a relationship where we have agreed we are exclusive, then there is
no other sex partner, period. It’s a matter of integrity. This is what I
bring into any relationship, friend, intimate, business whatever, and if
integrity is compromised, then that is a relationship I choose not to be
engaged in.

Tried satin, couldn't keep the pillow under my head and sliped right out
of bed - wasn't even drunk.

flannel in winter otherwise cotten


Curtin/ drapes open or closed?

Firm


Big bed with room to wonder or smaller cozy one?

depends on couch or bed



Body pillow or no?

good night


Couch or bed?

ghost in the graveyard = friends on a lonely night

One of those medium sizes. The thing is a piece of junk so I spend a
lot of nights on the couch. There is a stereo out there. Besides the dog
isn’t allowed on the bed but is on the couch. Sometimes it’s nice to
have a one dog night.

Good Night = Sleep Well

righ on chibear, the kids made me some french toast too.
Now they're wanting icecream

see - it did mean food

oh come on crash, that pic is just preloading my thoughts

whew, I was thinking food, needing to plan a head to supper