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Fri 05/15/09 04:44 PM


For example, the father of my daughter left as soon as we both found out I was actually pregnant, because before hand I had my doubts, nonetheless. Now, hes back with his girlfriend that he got with immediately after breaking up with me and let me tell you all she is THE definition of white trash, well like my said, "trash deserves trash." but thats not the point. Now, there getting MARRIED in September, they have four months to plan a wedding, as he once even called? or even had the courtesy to even ASK how both "his" daughter and I were doing?

I'm glad I was the only adult in that whole relationship. Because I love her more then my own life.

And the kicker, I'm glad his name isn't on the birth certificate.

But, fellas, if your going to get a girl pregnant, MAN UP and take the responsibility to help raise the child or the other alternative, adoption, but I don't have the courage to do so with my little girl, I'm way too attached now.
....I don't get women pregnant. I'm 43 and kept my pecker in my pants. Just so I wouldn't have to see stuff like this.


Good, thats being responsible.

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Fri 05/15/09 04:41 PM

noway Way to group all men in one category!

There are some of US DADS out here that go above and beyond with our children!!!!!!!!!!!


The more MATURE men, yes, I agree with you on that.

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Fri 05/15/09 04:37 PM
For example, the father of my daughter left as soon as we both found out I was actually pregnant, because before hand I had my doubts, nonetheless. Now, hes back with his girlfriend that he got with immediately after breaking up with me and let me tell you all she is THE definition of white trash, well like my said, "trash deserves trash." but thats not the point. Now, there getting MARRIED in September, they have four months to plan a wedding, as he once even called? or even had the courtesy to even ASK how both "his" daughter and I were doing?

I'm glad I was the only adult in that whole relationship. Because I love her more then my own life.

And the kicker, I'm glad his name isn't on the birth certificate.

But, fellas, if your going to get a girl pregnant, MAN UP and take the responsibility to help raise the child or the other alternative, adoption, but I don't have the courage to do so with my little girl, I'm way too attached now.

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Thu 05/14/09 08:16 PM
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Thu 05/14/09 07:50 PM
what is the one thing that seals the deal in a long-term relationship for you? that ONE thing where you can say, "this is it, this is the person for me?"

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Thu 05/14/09 11:27 AM
not ****ty ones like so many people listen too.

suggestions?

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Wed 05/13/09 08:42 PM
I'm an idiot, plain and simple.

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Wed 05/13/09 07:54 PM
haha I can't believe I took it so literal.

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Wed 05/13/09 07:48 PM
wow, well now I feel dumb, I just don't usually say 'ring' but he means call me. hahaha

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Wed 05/13/09 07:25 PM
okay so my boyfriend from SO many years ago joined the army, hes now 20 and I, 19. We both had a bad falling outthen we stared talking agian last year. well he was sent to Iraq back in March. He wrote to me while there and he said and I quote, "Hey well you never know what will happen, I'll give you a ring when I get home."

Now, in guys terms what does this mean. He told me this May 2nd and I haven't heard from him since.

Help!

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Tue 05/12/09 06:43 PM



or not?

I at least gotta be, my momma always tells me, theres a man out there for every woman, no matter what style, personality, body type, ethic background.

but i just want honesty from you all.



IDK, ARE you a catch? It's up to you to determine if you're a catch or not. If you can't see yourself as a catch, neither can anyone else. flowerforyou


Good point, Totage.


yeah i know, i'm just not proud.

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Tue 05/12/09 06:20 PM
thank you.

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Tue 05/12/09 06:03 PM

I think we all wonder this at some point. I think I am a decent looking guy. I am an engineer at a defense contractor, play bass in a band, study a foreign language, and am very outgoing. Yet I am still single. I just think its hard finding someone that fits.


"aint't" it the truth

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Tue 05/12/09 05:28 PM

Why do you feel that you're not?flowerforyou


Theres A LOT to my story, thats why.

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Tue 05/12/09 05:27 PM


or not?

I at least gotta be, my momma always tells me, theres a man out there for every woman, no matter what style, personality, body type, ethic background.

but i just want honesty from you all.



If you're looking to be caught, I think you will be rather quickly. You're very pretty, have great taste in music and sound like you know what you want.

But can't you share these things without being caught?



You have a valid point.

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Tue 05/12/09 05:20 PM
or not?

I at least gotta be, my momma always tells me, theres a man out there for every woman, no matter what style, personality, body type, ethic background.

but i just want honesty from you all.

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Sun 05/10/09 07:29 AM
make sure and spoil moms, grandmas, aunts, what have you rotten today.

mom, the toughest job i've come to love.


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Sat 05/09/09 09:07 AM
Mines deffinitely Mike Rowe from Dirty Jobs, Ralph Fiennes, and Zach Braff, hes got such a cute humour and charm.

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Fri 05/08/09 05:47 PM

egyptian eyes.


good thing?

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Fri 05/08/09 05:00 PM


sideways


ditto


lol

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