or not?

I at least gotta be, my momma always tells me, theres a man out there for every woman, no matter what style, personality, body type, ethic background.

but i just want honesty from you all.

Why do you feel that you're not?

Of course!

If you're looking to be caught, I think you will be rather quickly. You're very pretty, have great taste in music and sound like you know what you want.

But can't you share these things without being caught?

Sure...id make a fully extended dive to catch you.

You have a valid point.

Theres A LOT to my story, thats why.

of course your a catch. No matter what there is to your story. I have seen enough of you here to make that judgement. so go get caught! and here is your lolipop

It's not important how others feel, it's how you feel that matters.

If so, address these things that you might think need to be changed and get a better outlook...

I think we all wonder this at some point. I think I am a decent looking guy. I am an engineer at a defense contractor, play bass in a band, study a foreign language, and am very outgoing. Yet I am still single. I just think its hard finding someone that fits.

"aint't" it the truth

I used to wonder the same thing...then I quit worrying about it and figured if something happens, I will see where it goes. Aside from that, I just wake up and do my thing everyday without concern.

IDK, ARE you a catch? It's up to you to determine if you're a catch or not. If you can't see yourself as a catch, neither can anyone else.

thats up to you. i like it how every thread you start asks the same general question : how do i look? what do you think of me? am i a catch?

if you want to be truly attractive, drop the self-concentration and think of what you can do for other people. you can be as physically attractive as a hollywood actress and have a garbage heap for a soul, and anyone with a single iota of sense will avoid you like the plague.

yes you look good, but the world doesnt need another self-centered pretty face. thats largely why this country is in trouble. its all about looks and objects. hot wife nice car - that has become the american dream. and it is killing us.

You really are starting to grow on me.

thank you.

Everybody has a history.

Good point, Totage.

yeah i know, i'm just not proud.