Hey everyone,

We’ve all been there— staring at a blank message box, wondering how to break the ice without sounding cliché or boring. First impressions matter, especially in dating, and sometimes it's hard to find the right words.

Here are some ideas I’ve tried:

Ask something specific based on their profile. Instead of “Hey,” try: “I noticed you love hiking— what’s your favorite trail so far?”

Share a fun fact about yourself: “I make a mean homemade pizza— have you tried cooking something new lately?”

Use light humor or a playful question: “Quick— pineapple on pizza: yay or nay?”

These little prompts often spark better replies than generic hellos like “Hi” or “How are you?”

What about you?

What’s your go-to opener?

Ever received a message that made you want to respond immediately (or not at all)? Why?

Any creative ice-breakers you dream of using?

Let's swap tips and help each other craft messages that actually get replies!

How on earth are you single? (works for me )

Good luck in your search.

"How fast can you get undressed in an emergency?" Hasn't worked for me so far.

"Let's see them knockers"

Yep works for me.

Tell her, Let's get together tonight.