Seductive? My wardrobe consists of jeans, sneakers, t-shirt, flannel shirts and sweaters (winter). Everything that'd look good on my bedroom floor ![]() |
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Topic:
sex without relationship
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Sex without relationship is incomplete ephemeral satisfaction, in some aspects like food without taste. Hardly an equal analogy. Food will still sustain you, even if you can't taste it. Where I'll agree....is that a relationship without sex is not sustainable |
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older women
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Age is not just a number - it's a measure of lived experience....
A 30 year old with no kids has no idea what the it is to be a grandparent that his 55 year old lover would. That same 55 year old has already did the carefree party phase. They might entertain the idea for a day - but their days of benders are over. And as for dreams of starting a family - forget about it. A 35 year old dude grinding, raising his value, owning his own home and trying to cut out a living for himself, has less in common than a 25 year old bimbo who hasn't really figured things out yet. She will have to in the next 5 years, so they may play along being naive. They would make the best mothers biologically, but fast forward to 45 and she's 35, there's a high probability that she will find herself bored and feel like she's missing something since she'll feel like gave herself up early. It will only be later, after the divorce, after banging a bunch of dudes that are just there for the cooch - that she realizes that nothing has really changed, and that the grass is only greener where you water it. She may never even realize that, it depends on how bright she is. Perhaps a 75 year old with one foot in the grave might have more in common with his 55 year old counter part. But I'd think with this situation I'd be concerned that the younger one is looking for a payday. I can't imagine that a pair of wrinkly balls or tube sock knockers would turn anyone on, when they can have a the same version or even younger model. And I can't see changing an adult diaper or feeding pudding to a reduced mobile or cognitive person being a goal. |
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Topic:
Better than Sex
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I'd rather wash my dishes than have sex. What about my dishes? ![]() |
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What is life?
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Life is what you make it. Is not a cow life, a chicken, a plant, the earth we live on, the sky, the air we breath? Native Americans thought everything was alive in some way and should be respected. White men think everything is dead and should be used. Speak for yourself. You may like necrophilia, I don't |
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Topic:
single 20 yrs, stop trying?
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All positive responses, nobody holding any accountability from him.
I'll address the elephant in the room.... Lower your standards. There's obviously something unattractive about you. Whether it be your approach, your lifestyle, your demeanor, or the quality of women you feel you deserve. There IS something and you know this because you feel it's wrong or unusual about being single for 20 years - which suggests that it wasn't intentional, and not from a lack of trying. There is a woman out there for you, you hafta remember - get what you give. |
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Topic:
finding a good relationship
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If it's not a destination, it's a journey to where?
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Topic:
Flat Chested Women
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What business is it of yours ... or ANYone?! If it's a new toy to play with....it matters |
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So, you're not saying he did or didn't, but are completely sure that she did or didn't enough to say she should be held accountable. Maybe look at your own double standards before trying to pretend like your view isn't one-sided. You weren't there, and I wasn't there, but you are the one here talking about who and who shouldn't be held accountable or take accountability. You've clearly made up your mind who is telling the truth and who isn't, as it's right there in your own post. this... ![]() |
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Happy Mother's Day!
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Happy Mother's Day Ladies
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Topic:
Turnoffs for guys
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I beg to differ.... Unlike women, most dudes do not use immutable characteristics phase them out. Turnoffs are usually something women can change. Their weight and their attitude are the first ones I can think of. I would think that for me, attitude is number 1. - Sl*ts turn us off to dating - but we'll take em home for the night - Any chick who prides herself on being "sassy" is just telling us she's a b!tch and tryna sound cute about it - Boss babes can pound sand. We do not want combat when we get home Sounds o me like you don't have any self esteem and get threatened by a woman who isn't submissive and in the kitchen You're right.... so threatened. now go make me a sandwich |
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Topic:
What is Soul mate
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No such thing as a soul mate. There are usually several options to Choose from for a Spouse. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Do you ever visit the Forums , especially the Games ... I highly recommend it .... that's where the real people are and connections are very likely ! .. Good luck !! The games have been ruined |
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Topic:
Define Sexy
Edited by
bobtail76
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Sat 03/30/24 11:18 AM
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Crystal, you are thinking of romance novels, not reality. Not unless you wish to call science & psychology a romance novel, hihi. What I am telling is reality. It never ceases to surprise me how little people know and understand of how we 'work' when it comes to relationships. When you explain them -still in understandable language- they get all awkward, sometimes nasty even, and dismissive. That's in general, not talking about you, so don't take offense. But this subject is what I've studied to great length, still do,-and even taught courses about. All what I'm saying is based on hormonal workings and psychology, aka science... This knowledge has been out there for decades yet hardly anyone knows about it! Even in spite of thousands being single and could benefit greatly from it. That's what I find weird, but alas. You're actually right. I've learned that women - can find the same man sexy and repulsive, depending on their cycle. Evolutionary psychologist Sarah Hill wrote a book about the unintended consequences of the birth control pill. One of the unintended consequences I recall, is the pill tricks a woman into being attracted to a guy that she may not be attracted to, when she comes off the pill. The synthetic drugs that trick their body into thinking it's pregnant really messes with the natural order of a woman |
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Topic:
Best hangover cures?
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I've heard that drinking plenty of fluids and eating well while drinking can PREVENT a hangover. Though I am not 100% sure if this is true as I've never had one. But to deal with a hangover would be most likely taking something for headache relief such as acetaminophen. That and resting should help a lot. Best of luck! Why would somebody screw up a $100 buzz with a $5 cheese burger? Food just means you need to drink more to get drunk. I beg to differ.... Cheeseburger and water before you go to bed will ensure you can drink the next day! |
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Topic:
Best hangover cures?
Edited by
bobtail76
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No...I can just tell you've never.
That's why it didn't make sense. Had you ever been hungover you'd know there NO being taken advantage of...ever! You are at your most irritable, lets just put it that way |
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Best hangover cures?
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Love me as a solution I don’t think it’s nice to take advantage of a woman in that situation ![]() Absolutely not I agree! Don’t drink again cause there are guys out there who’ll take advantage of a woman with a hangover. Stay safe ![]() That doesn't even make sense! Have you ever been hungover? |
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Happpy Saint Patrick's Day! Not so happy because it is one of the drinkingest days of the year in USA. What's so bad about that!?!! |
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Topic:
Turnoffs for guys
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I beg to differ....
Unlike women, most dudes do not use immutable characteristics phase them out. Turnoffs are usually something women can change. Their weight and their attitude are the first ones I can think of. I would think that for me, attitude is number 1. - Sl*ts turn us off to dating - but we'll take em home for the night - Any chick who prides herself on being "sassy" is just telling us she's a b!tch and tryna sound cute about it - Boss babes can pound sand. We do not want combat when we get home |
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Topic:
Living apart together?
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otherwise...what's the point?
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