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Sat 04/07/12 02:22 PM

I believe a job or career is important for anyone...including yourself. Can't live on love and sunshine...
However, there are some females that are home makers (I'm jealous) and some men who are home makers too... that is ok as long as the couple has agreed that it is ideal for them.
..I am still jelly frustrated


Of course it's important. But HOW important is it to you? Would you rather be the stay at home partner while he provides, and be in a miserable relationship? Or be just scraping by, making ends meet, with BOTH of you working, and be happy & in love?

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Sat 04/07/12 02:17 PM

I became disabled prior to the first recession in 2002 or so and have a comfortable life.

To me, I need to work. I enjoy analyzing and solving things (my experience/job for 27 years) and now I attend college for an accountant degree. I should get a kidney within this next year and I would love to work again (cuz I think of it as fun).

So work is important to me. Don't know how potential mates feel about it.


P.S. If you don't have a job, women are reluctant to date you. So I got a double whammy having a medical condition too!


This tells me that you are at least trying to make the best of your situation, and not just milking it and being a bum. And hopefully, some woman will realize this too, and be understanding.

Best o luck to you brother.

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Sat 04/07/12 07:37 AM
With the economy in the sh**ter, we all know times are hard in this day & age. That being said, there are quite a few people with the skills, knowledge and experience, having to struggle with a line of work that they may not have planned on doing (with people being laid off, hiring freezes, etc...).

I mean, I have a full time job & I always pay my bills on time, and am able to get by (not very comfortably, basically paycheck to paycheck). But still able to do a few luxurious things as I see fit.

What I wanna know is how many of you hold this in high regards over say...love, companionship, & happiness?

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Sat 04/07/12 07:27 AM
Will do. Thanks.

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Sat 04/07/12 06:48 AM
Victoria Secret Model on a dating site? Say it isn't so!!!

Oh....wait


Haha. I think I've seen it all now.

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Sat 04/07/12 06:42 AM
Judging by your pic? Scary. Hope that Columbine edge works for ya.

Good luck.

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Sat 04/07/12 06:23 AM
I just moved here & was wondering where the hot spots are. I know there are the beaches & the obvious. Just wanted to know if there is anything else worthwhile goin on around these parts.

Thanks.

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Sat 04/07/12 06:20 AM
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but our freedom ended a long time ago my friend.

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Sat 04/07/12 06:09 AM

It has changed , I also joined a few years back. I come and go too. I deleted my account for awhile because I started getting a ton of adds from other sites. They were annoying to the pointe that I was'nt even looggin on anymore. Thats seems to have stopped. I sort of like it again.


Hi Dawnette! I vaguely remember you from the movie forums. Luckily, I have not received any spam. Yet. My vacation ends tomorrow night, so I'll be kinda busy with work & won't have as much time on here anyway.

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Sat 04/07/12 05:15 AM
Edited by Filmfreek on Sat 04/07/12 05:18 AM
I joined this site in '08, mainly to meet a date, but...then I discovered the forums. I was unemployed at the time, so I spent most of my free time here. It was GREAT because there was always so much activity & life.

Well...I eventually met someone (here in the forums oddly enough) who turned out to be the jealous type, so she made me deactivate my profile.

So...here I am 3 yrs later...and it just isn't the same. I mean I see a few familiar faces here & there, but it seems dead most of the time.

What happened?

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Sat 04/07/12 05:07 AM

larry the cable guy
cedric the entertainer


Cedric is the man. Dude is freakin hilarious.

Can't stand ANY of that low brow, blue collar crap.

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Sat 04/07/12 05:05 AM
Haha. Part of his act is being offensive. I'm sure he's sorry you took it that way. :wink:

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Sat 04/07/12 04:21 AM
Happy Birthday Torgo!

Cheers!

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Fri 04/06/12 11:29 PM
I watch Hoarders & Cops sometimes.

Do those count?

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Fri 04/06/12 11:27 PM
I like Louis a lot.

Favorite of all time is Bill Hicks.

Also...

Sam Kinison
Rodney Dangerfield
Richard Pryor
George Carlin
Doug Stanhope
Joe Rogan
and you wouldn't think it, but...Bob Saget.

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Fri 04/06/12 11:19 PM
No. Just fascinated with porn. Haha.



Seriously though.

Ron Jeremy's was pretty good. "Being Ron Jeremy" or something.

I have "The Girl Next Door" about Stacey Valentine. Not bad.

Also saw the one on Annabell Chong. Pretty disturbing. And yes. She does go into being abused as a child & everything.

Fascinating. No. Interesting. Yes.

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Fri 04/06/12 11:02 PM
I would maybe add a few more pics & add some humor, make a joke about something. Chicks dig that. I think...

And if you wanna be more outgoing, I would advise posting in the forums when you get a chance.

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Fri 04/06/12 10:04 PM
Haha. Why thank you sir. I will work on that.

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Fri 04/06/12 09:27 PM
Who cares if you MAY seem to come across as desperate? Anyone willing to make that judgement call is more than likely shallow & arrogant & not worth your time anyway.

Don't worry about it. Just do it.

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Fri 04/06/12 08:21 PM
Ok ladies. I'm not insecure & I don't consider myself bad looking. I need some feedback here please. I'm not having any luck finding a date. Is it my profile? My pics?

Your honesty is appreciated. Don't worry. I can take it. Don't hold back or sugarcoat anything.

Thanks.

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