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..when it´s over...
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It takes time to move on.Just fill your time with positive people and things.I know it's hard not to dwell.When you catch yourself thinking about the ex or the relationship STOP yourself and purposely think of something else.
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Women With Babies
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That's awesome.Too many men shirk their responsibility to their own children it's just wrong.
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I am so heartbroken
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Learn from this.You were smart enough to realize it was NO GOOD.Take the opportunity you have now being single and build an excellent life for yourself.
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Miseery LOVES company. She obviously sided with her friend over HER husband, that's how I see it. You deserve so much better than that..... I agree with this answer. I went through this my ex-wife is one of those people that has to "fit in" and is very easily influenced by her so called friends.Granted I take my responsibility for my errors but these people (her coworkers) kept the negativity going and going.Misery loves company almost every coworker she has is divorced and miserable and a few have numerous children with all different fathers.Real smart taking advice from them huh? 
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i gave my wife everything and anything and always tried to be nice. I made the same mistake and it was a mistake.Giving a woman that constantly complains and is never happy is telling her that her behavior is acceptable. I know now "DO NOT REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR". |
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Some People Are Never Happy
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There is a woman where I work that is CONSTANTLY complaining. I asked her once if there was ever a point in her life when she didn't have something to complain about. Her answer : " Nope. " How can one person be THAT miserable without resorting to suicide??? Easy they torture their significant other,their kids and extended family with their incessant complaining. I call it "malcontent syndrome". LOL
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wow what a question.I would say a woman that complimented me,was my best friend willing to be there,listen to me no matter how trivial my problems,has my back,is loyal and understands that men have emotions too.I guess you would say unconditional love.The only place I have gotten that so far is from my DOG...LOL
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Which would be worse?
Edited by
simplelife123
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Sat 11/08/08 08:14 AM
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then I can slide out of the door to meet up with the cooler, hotter guy who doesn't argue with me or ignore me. Unfortunately those cooler hotter guys are just lying to get sex and you most likely will throw away your family,honor,pride,and dignity by doing such a thing.If you are not happy then split and then go for another. |
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Which would be worse?
Edited by
simplelife123
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Sat 11/08/08 08:09 AM
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Being ignored is worse.But what do you do when you have argued about the same topic 100 times till you are so frustrated and disgusted that you either keep arguing about it and go crazy or ignore it / them.
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Some People Are Never Happy
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I have my theory about "Fantasy Land" some people build Fantasies around people and things.Then when REALITY does not match the fantasy they get all depressed and bummed out till the next fantasy comes along.
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Some People Are Never Happy
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Why is it that some people who seem to have it all just are not happy??They get whatever they want and are temporarily happy but it quickly fades.I think they are lacking something within themselves and wont allow themselves to be happy EVER.
What's your opinion??? |
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Why are you here???
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I agree about the picture comment. Some people are just not photogenic.Allot of people look better in person.Unfortunately
our society has made people very shallow.Woman in the USA that "have a few extra pounds" just beat themselves up because they compare themselves to what they see in the media. I read an article that stated that the average American female is size 12 around 5' 4" tall and weighs around 140-150 pounds. People need to be happy with themselves. |
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Looking for a soulmate...
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I don't know. I think the odds on finding a soul mate are like the odds on the lottery.The problem is we ignore those feelings telling us "something is wrong" or we try and "fix" other people.I think finding that special someone that you can be with for life is a difficult thing because some people lie
and act the way they know you want them to act.All I can say is listen to your instincts. |
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Guys PLEASE....
Edited by
simplelife123
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Sat 11/08/08 07:16 AM
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1st off why the hell is he talking to his ex about you in the 1st place?Maybe he is using you to make her jealous or Maybe she's not an ex.2nd don't let someone's name calling get you down they are just showing how LOW they are by doing that.3rd there are allot of liars in the world and allot more on the internet because they think they are anonymous.
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TORN...........
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We all make mistakes.Just try and learn from them and not make the same mistakes again and again.
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Thoughs about ur EX?
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I think it depends on how and why you split.Almost no one splits by saying hey this is not working lets just go our own ways. It is usually one person doing something disgusting like lying,cheating,stealing,and etc that makes you want to leave them. I know and I want absolutely nothing to do with my ex and I question now what I saw in her in the 1st place.
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just being honest
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I think the reason is that the women on these sites outnumber the men and they get a ton of messages.It's worse when they actually talk to you and you are thinking "that conversation went well" only to have them NOT talk to you again.Good luck I think it's just a matter of Time,Patience,and maybe some Luck.
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I give up!
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I agree I think we all are damaged but are repairable.We heal but probably wont forget.I think most people on internet dating sites have been hurt in some way. I am finding in my situation that just when I think I am doing alright something pops up to remind me and that's OK because I shouldn't forget or I will make the same mistakes again.I also agree with iam4u's comments.
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Would you?...
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Depends on the circumstances. The guy you are talking about seems to be playing the field.Some relationships are not salvageable in my opinion but if two people are of the same mind and really want things to work they will.
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Meeting face to face
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I think the best thing would be to message here for a while followed by phone conversations to really get to know one another.Meeting to soon makes things very awkward and uncomfortable for both people>been there done that.
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