Most Definitely Mirror. I have lots of friends that are guys and always have since I was little. I was the only girl on both sides of the family for 14 years so guys were all I had to hang out with. My very best friend is a guy and we have been friends for over 16 years with no romantic feelings.

Oh yeah! That would be soooo worth it!

Great Idea! THanks!

Have reported them several times. Unfortunately the courts have swung so far the other way nothing was ever done.

You have NO idea! THis is just one thing in a loooong list!

THanks for the advice

Is it wrong not to want to take her since she will have already seen it? I feel like its left overs. Part of the issue is this woman was my best friend before she helped destroy my marriage. So I really don't want my daughter hanging out with her. This woman drinks excessively now and is not nice to my kids. My ex and this woman have put my kids in dangerous situations several times.

Mine are 2 weeks after his

I'm a divorced Mom with 3 kids. I have scrimped and saved to buy my kids Christmas this year. I have no desire to compete with my Ex who is able to buy the kids anything they want, I just wanted to get a little something for them. My daughter is a big theatre buff and has talked non stop about wanting to see a broadway play. So...I finally managed to save enough to buy her tickets to see "Wicked". This is the only present I bought her. My ex had called and told me what all he bought her and so I thought I was safe. Well... Guess what...he hurried up and had Christmas with the kids and bought her ....what else...Wicked Tickets. I'm so hurt. Not only did he buy her a ticket but she is going with the whore that he divorced me for! Do I have a right to be upset? Now I have nothing to give her for Christmas as I don't have the money to buy anything else.

THat the one person you trust the most will destroy you

While it would be nice not to stress about paying the bills, NO. After a horrible marriage I know I want the REAL thing. LOVE, RESPECT, FRIENDSHIP, HONESTY, COMPANIONSHIP. The whole deal!!

You can totally connect with someone with out seeing them! It actually makes the eventual first meeting much easier as you already know so much about each other. Becoming friends first is the best way to develop a lasting relationship. My parents and grandparents were great examples of that!! Just be completely honest with each other and let things happen naturally!

Go to the website Franshade posted. You can actually calculate what your child support will be if you know what his income is. I live in Indiana and my ex moved to Kentucky. Everything went through Indiana and the county I live in. The child support calculator is exactly what my attorney used to figure out how much he was to pay and that is what the courts also used. Attorneys here in Southern Indiana run about 200.00 per hour. In child support cases it is highly recommended to have an attorney and do NOT use the same one he does. Also, current Indiana law requires child support to be paid until the child is 21.

Throwing darts at my ex's picture works well for me!!

I'm so sorry! Trying to explain to a 5 year old is difficult enough without friends or family being the problem! Have you talked to your friend about this yet?

Is there any other food group????

This is a very touchy subject for so many. I have talked with my Grandma about this as she was a military wife. She says this time really isn't any different than any other. I have numerous family members in the military and some in the sand box for the 3rd time. One by his choice, he volunteered to take his battalion back. The important thing is that we support our men and women regardless of our thoughts or feelings about the war itself or the president. As one of my cousins pointed out there is much more going on and at stake than we realize. He insists the media twists everything and that we are accomplishing something good. Does he want this to continue...heck NO!!! He is just so tired of being treated as less than human because he chooses to defend our country and the rights we have. Pretty sad if you ask me.

and your definition of that would be?????

Oh yeah! I know there are many others too but they just don't want to admit it!

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