I wouldn't be offended at all... as long as it was a woman saying it to me. I wouldn't be the first to say it though, but if she also had a nice azz, I'd reply "hmmmm... (look) you too". If not, I'd usually just say "Thanks".

If really wants to see it... then she can see it.

(wintergreen tic-tac fresh)

If I had a 17 year old son, I wouldn't sign him into anything. I would let him decide if going into the Marines is his choice for a career. I would never make him choose a career because that was my dream for him to become.

Basically, this all depends on what kind of person you are. How much do you value your friends? How much does your friend value you? How much do you trust that because your friend's ex broke up with him... or her (for the ladies), he or she won't turn around and do the same thing to you? If you are comfortable with it, then do it. If not, don't. This is a decision only you can make for yourself. There's nothing morally wrong about it at all as far as society is concerned.

I'm thinking that maybe... just maybe that would help your chances with the ladies.

Chat it up in here. Let them know your personailty.

My theme song must be "Love Bites" by Def Leppard

Reasons:
1) favorite band
2) being single searching for love... bites!
3) love - it's what I need

Most of us here are looking for a relationship.

I have absolutely no problem if a woman wanted to make the first move. That would save me the trouble of trying to figure out if she liked me... or the embarassment if she didn't... LOL!!!

Thank you. Hey, we've all been there. Thinking like that will only make us grow old and bitter... and alone.

Thank you for the flower as well.

He's good to you and good to your daughter. Obviously, you have strong feelings for him.

Yes, he was going through a divorce the first time around, and because of that... wasn't too sure of what he wanted. I believe now that he has had time to clear his head, he is figuring out what he wants. Give him a chance. Be with him when he wants you there and allow him a little bit of space to think... maybe about |<-->| that much space... LOL!!! Seriously, give it time, and it may just work out.

I wish you all the best, and remember if it's meant to be, it's because God made it so.

We know who isn't going to get a date on here after a statement like that.

This guy needs to calm down and quit being so judgemental towards you women. He got hurt and cheated on. Who hasn't? Life goes on.

LOL @ Sanitation Engineers

I'll come tuck you in. It's not too far away.

Man, there are many places and things that remind me about my ex. It doesn't mean that I am going to avoid them. I usually find some other part of it... or someone to talk with that eases my mind.

The relationship may be dead. Don't let it stop you from living!

Bed, Couch, Floor

sex and no sex

Yes

My ex dated someone after me, and was treated like crap. What goes around... comes around.

Great point! I don't want a "girl" I am looking for a woman who is mature enough to know what a relationship is all about... but yet knows how to get out on the town and have fun.

I am quite positive that there are no "girls" here... only mature women of many ages.

I know it doesn't stop the pain, but finding someone new will.

It still hurts to talk about it... and remember, but once I find someone else, the thoughts of her will be buried in the past. It wasn't just her I was close to. I also got attached to her kid... which made saying goodbye to her the most difficult thing I have ever done to this day.

Your future is ahead of you. All you have to do is put one foot in front of the other.

Star1972, I think ti is about time for you to do the same thing I did. Yeah, it's going to be hard to do, but it will be better in the long run.

My ex and I were great friends for a long time before the whole relationship, so yeah... it hurt, but I know that I am better off now.

If someone is lying to you, they do not respect you!

Hey, I turned 36 last week (and a few days0. Although being single again has some advantages... it does have just as many disadvantages. I try not to think about them and just get out and find something fun to do.