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Topic: I need help
Matteo1989 Joined Sun 09/07/08 Posts: 2	Mon 09/08/08 02:04 PM
I dont know why but women never seem to respond to me when I talk to them or message them. It just seems no one really gives me a chance. Is it my looks or something. Please give any advice.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Mon 09/08/08 02:07 PM
matteo, maybe you are being too vague, havent had prior contact with them... my advice join the forums, share a joke, a laugh, get to know people, make friends, then select and weed out those whom you are interested in. Good luck

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Mon 09/08/08 02:08 PM
see if maybe you can isolate the one common factor in all those and see what you can do about it

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Mon 09/08/08 02:08 PM
I'm waving the bullsh*t flag on this one.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Mon 09/08/08 02:08 PM
Welcome and have a blast...post often and allow everyone to get to know you

Wolf19 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 6172	Mon 09/08/08 02:09 PM
well,how high are your expectations?that could be one of the problems. you just have to be patient,you just gotta keep trying and eventually you will score.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Mon 09/08/08 02:09 PM
just lower those expectations?

samauribaby Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 479	Mon 09/08/08 02:10 PM
You have written nothing about urself on ur profile... maybe tell us why ur worth talking to!

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Mon 09/08/08 02:13 PM
And yet another is lost in the insanity known as Mingle 2.

Amalie Joined Tue 09/18/07 Posts: 1239	Mon 09/08/08 02:13 PM
You have written nothing about urself on ur profile... maybe tell us why ur worth talking to! I agree!

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 09/08/08 02:13 PM
Ignore them and they will come

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Mon 09/08/08 02:14 PM
Did someone just say something?

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 09/08/08 02:15 PM
this really isn't a dating site, where all just bots,

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Mon 09/08/08 02:17 PM
I dont know why but women never seem to respond to me when I talk to them or message them. It just seems no one really gives me a chance. Is it my looks or something. Please give any advice. i don't know what your emails come across as sounding like, but your posts sound pessimistic and negative. that doesn't encourage a reply.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 09/08/08 02:19 PM
I dont know why but women never seem to respond to me when I talk to them or message them. It just seems no one really gives me a chance. Is it my looks or something. Please give any advice. Well, it could be a few things. Are you messaging women who live far away? Or are lots older than you? Or you're just saying hello or something, and not really giving them much to respond to? Filling out your profile would be a huge help, I'm suspicious of those who have empty profiles; it doesn't have to be a huge essay, just a few lines about what you like or don't like or something. Good luck. :)

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Mon 09/08/08 02:20 PM
wow! what is it with all the "why dont people respond" or "what am i doing wrong" threads on this site? they should change the name from 'mingle2' to 'whaaaa what am i doing wrong'

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 09/08/08 02:23 PM
just lower those expectations? Works everytime

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 09/08/08 02:23 PM
When in doubt, WHIP IT OUT !

SGene1 Joined Sat 11/18/06 Posts: 30	Mon 09/08/08 02:24 PM
You have written nothing about urself on ur profile... maybe tell us why ur worth talking to! I'm thinking that maybe... just maybe that would help your chances with the ladies. Chat it up in here. Let them know your personailty.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Mon 09/08/08 02:26 PM
maybe even come back and actually visit your thread once in awhile