I been single 6 mos and i cant find a great guy to save my life. If i do all he wants is sex! Im not dissn sex cuz it feels oh so lovely but where r the "real men!"

hello and welcome, 6 months isnt bad try a few years lol, ive been ready just have to wait and hope the right one comes by... :)

in my own opinion, its hard to find a REAL person at all...i know where i live at most the girls i have met is the ones on the fake stuff. mainly cuz this city is a party city so thats wat girls bout...but anyways, me personally, i love a relationship. but alot of guys i know cant help wen a girl is thrown at them and wen the girl do give it up pretty quick they might stick around for a while but then get bored or try to keep lookin for the next girl who might be better even tho they might not realize or appreciate wat they already got. oh and another thing i do know bout these guys i know is that they scared of them emotions they be feelin wen they get attached to a woman and jus leave her or start changin the way they treat the girl...but im only speakin on other guys that i know down here.

hi & welcome and i've been single for 5 yrs, so..dont feel bad..

take your time, meet some friends, have fun..it will happen if its meant to

good luck

First off, let me say I wish you a very warm welcome to the forum community!

I agree six months is very little time. Most of us have been at this for years, and a good compatible person is hard to find and a gem when you do. Just keep going out and try to have fun and along the way you'll meet the right guy. It just might take awhile, but you never know.

Quit looking so hard darlin .. just enjoy life. You have plenty of it to live.

Love happens when you least expect it, and a woman (or man) content with his life BEFORE she/he meets someone special is oooooohhhhh soooooooo attractive to the opposite sex.

& welcome to the forums babe getting involved here will definitely afford you more friends if nothing else

Not sure, I'm fake myself, but welcome!

Can't find a guy?
Looking for a real man?

Have you tried Mutual Match yet?

Listen to the Fade.
I live my life, do the things I like to do, play drums with friends, ride the bike, go kayaking, go listen to live music. Sometimes with my kids, sometimes alone. Don't wait for 'someone' to complete your life, live a complete life and then you'll have something beyond what a partner can bring, and something to share with a partner.

I just dupe women, bang them, and leave. Soooooooo......no good guys out their. Only horn dogs.

(((((((((( Goof ))))))))))

*swoons* You're my hero dude.

yep yep listen to the MM too

(((Fade)))

It aint easy being cheesy!

Let me add here that living your life is what it is all about. Trying hard to "find a good guy" is harder than finding a needle in a haystack. Why is that? Cause those good guys are usually right their in front of you. You just gotta open your eyes and let them bang you.

<<<<<Morning Fade>>>>>
When I came here I was beat and bruised, divorce wasn't even final yet. Found out the hard way that having someone/anyone in my life, someone who "wants" me ain't going to fix anything.
I have to make my life what I want it to be, and I am still working on it too, before I am ready a relationship.

Life is sooooooooooo simple from your perspective ... I love cheese

exactly ..

I didn't come in that way, but I see many who do and they really need to get their lives together first.

Has anyone noticed the OP is a whole whopping TWENTY-TWO

*sigh*

Youth is wasted on the young. j/k

Yes...yes....simplifying life helps me to cope with it. It's like my take on winning the lotto. People always say "I need to win the lottery". Okay......but.....you gotta play the damn thing first in order to win.

this is the era of fast-food mentality..get it quick and move on when it fails to hold our attention any more..people dont seem to know HOW to have a long term relationship anymore and I think thats pretty sad..you cant just blame one gender..its going both ways..so I dont know if there is an answer to this..just hang in there and hopefully youll meet someone who wants what you want...

But I likea da cookies...