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... you go after somebody elses girlfriend/boyfriend if you are in to one another?
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Depends on if it is socially morally acceptable or your own morals that you are considering.
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Depends on if it is socially morally acceptable or your own morals that you are considering. Come again |
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Well here is the thing, if you know someone is in a committed relationship and they go after you, remember most of the time if they cheat they wont feel bad about cheating again.
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Pretty much, all morals and values are subjective. Personally, I think going after someone else's significant other is a bit of a **** move, but someone else might see it as fair game.
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NO FLIPPING WAY!!!!!!
 JMO
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Well here is the thing, if you know someone is in a committed relationship and they go after you, remember most of the time if they cheat they wont feel bad about cheating again. But what if there is a situation where on the surface of it, they are in a relationship... but then you get to know one of the people in that relationship a bit better and something starts developing... I mean, its isn't fair on the other person in that relationship, but you cant deny the chemistry developing either... |
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Depends on if it is socially morally acceptable or your own morals that you are considering. Come again I was saying that if it's your morals, then you are the only one to answer that question. If it's societies' that you wonder about...typically most people frown upon it. |
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and she'll leave you with a smile-george strait
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Pretty much, all morals and values are subjective. Personally, I think going after someone else's significant other is a bit of a **** move, but someone else might see it as fair game. But when you look around, it happens all the time... |
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Of course not, & if they go for it they will do it to you too!
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Edited by
bgreymc88
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Mon 09/22/08 11:58 AM
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IMHO, I would never interfere with a woman that I am interested in and her boyfriend just to try to win her over to me.
Truly caring for someone means you have to value her happiness over your own, and I have three good friends because I chose to see her happy instead of just with me... I once tried to tell a girl how I felt about her when she was mad at her boyfriend (now husband), and I told her I wanted her to be happy. Even though I did not agree with her marrying him, I happily took pictures and video for her bridal showers (the only guy invited!!). |
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Pretty much, all morals and values are subjective. Personally, I think going after someone else's significant other is a bit of a **** move, but someone else might see it as fair game. But when you look around, it happens all the time... so does the repeat cheating..it's kind of karma's way of *****slapping you. |
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Well here is the thing, if you know someone is in a committed relationship and they go after you, remember most of the time if they cheat they wont feel bad about cheating again. But what if there is a situation where on the surface of it, they are in a relationship... but then you get to know one of the people in that relationship a bit better and something starts developing... I mean, its isn't fair on the other person in that relationship, but you cant deny the chemistry developing either... No if's and but's, a relationship/close friendship should mean just that ( no room for others) unless the two people involved in the so-called relationship have by amicable arrangement an "open" relationship. |
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Depends on if it is socially morally acceptable or your own morals that you are considering. Come again I was saying that if it's your morals, then you are the only one to answer that question. If it's societies' that you wonder about...typically most people frown upon it. As a rule, what you say is politically correct. But in the heat of the moment and all is true... could be a bit of a dilemma... When you are the one being cheated on, then it isn't a nice thing or morally acceptable, but when you are in the other seat... Values change |
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Pretty much, all morals and values are subjective. Personally, I think going after someone else's significant other is a bit of a **** move, but someone else might see it as fair game. But when you look around, it happens all the time...
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There is a man who I have had strong feelings for..he was single when we met, but found someone that makes him happy and that I would never want to interfere with. I agree with grey...if you care, you want their happiness and not just your own.
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Edited by
Lily0923
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Mon 09/22/08 12:00 PM
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... you go after somebody elses girlfriend/boyfriend if you are in to one another? YES. wait, I meant yes it's wrong not yes you should.... 
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Depends on if it is socially morally acceptable or your own morals that you are considering. Come again I was saying that if it's your morals, then you are the only one to answer that question. If it's societies' that you wonder about...typically most people frown upon it. As a rule, what you say is politically correct. But in the heat of the moment and all is true... could be a bit of a dilemma... When you are the one being cheated on, then it isn't a nice thing or morally acceptable, but when you are in the other seat... Values change true, but that is what should separate us from the animals...our ability to think out what is right and wrong. Would you act on those feelings if passion was not predominant in the situation or would you sit back and think about the possible outcome? |
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Yea, that is a good point, if you were in a commited relationship and your partner met and fell for someone else, morally would it be wrong to want to beat the *h*t out of something?
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