Oh ohhh... Not good! The feelings might rekindle

I will normally drive up to a max of one hour, for a meet and greet. And after that we alternate, if things work out...Gotta show and put in the effort....just saying...

I wouldn't trust someone who has the name, "Have an affair", and has the marital status of "No Answer". That person is most likely cheating on his wife and that makes him not trustworthy.

Also you say, "He who hesitates is a damm fool". You're calling women that hesitate having an affair, "damn fools". What the heck.

Btw, the correct saying is "He who hesitates is lost."

Depending upon my mood & the mind-set of the Other Individual;
I will & have employed all the above strategies. Sad to report
that gentle,sensitive, compassionate, soft spoken, & kind efforts
have not been successful. Repeated failure of communication seems to
provoke it's own kind of anger & gets me, exhausted & stressed-out.
In turn I feel compelled to "up my game" & become rather hard-azz, brusque, & bitchy in the matter. It becomes further upsetting to be
forced to employ such aggressive, cold, & callous behaviors when "That Is Not Who I Am [but,have the capacity to be]. Having to employ such a nasty display towards someone who I had once felt "Warmth" towards does not make
me feel good as a person. More often than not, it escalates into a unpleasant, ugly mess:{ The End.

I had mine until I was 27, mostly because no one wanted it and I had to beg someone to take it. If I had it to do all over again, I'd stay a virgin till the day I died because I don't think it was worth it.

It also can delay the process if you are in a hurry

Just saying

It kind of feels like that sometimes. Nobody at all that seems like a real or interesting person and then one comes along and just when you think you've clicked it's "user deactivated" and you're left thinking that that was all bollocks then and not a genuine person interested in you. You think that there's nobody real on this internet and you're being taken in by them because they seem like a real person at last and not just some sad case that resorted to trying to meet somebody this way like yourself.

How realistic do you think that it is that you could meet the type of person that you would really like to meet on the internet?