I don't trust my boyfriend even calling him that is sort of weird. But he really really makes it seem that he just wants me but I see that's just a way to stab me in the back. ...i hate not being in love. ..it's the best feeling and I want it. ..I have to be in a better situation the fact that he lives with me and we share a car, all this IOU stuff is fudging me over :(((((((

So you and him Bang and share a car, and he is nothing but a Toyboy because you do not trust him. You are not looking for a relationship, you need the thrill of being in love.

How about you talk to HIM about it - he is the one who outgha know. Not the freaking internetzz

so much fail, my brain hurts.

and right after that, see a professional who can identify the root cause and advise.

So? Dump him and get your life together.

You need to get out of that situation...and fast.

Good luck and best wishes

The simple truth of the matter, since you don't really love him you shouldn't be living together. You are setting him up for a fall. Me personally, I think you should cut him loose before too much more damage is done.

Also, You should do something about your trust issues before getting involved with another man.

Is the car in both of your names? If you have no trust get yourself out of the situation good luck

Maybe boyfriend is the one who had better skedaddle!!

... holy cornflakes Batman..lol..
Op.. you just need to reread your own posting to know it is not your boyfriend that is the problem.. at least from what you have put down here so far.. it seems to be you with the problem.. let's see by your own admission.. you say.. he really really wants you... well that sounds normal..
But then you say by him wanting you he is somehow stabbing you in the back..wtf.... does that mean...ohhh..
Maybe he should ignore you and then you would feel like he truly loves you..
Are you that type of woman..?.

Agree lol

Agree lol

Oh PhD, put your reading glasses on, darling!
The keyword is "seem" ---> he really really makes it SEEM ...

I don't trust my boyfriend even calling him that is sort of weird


Now Chrystal, Is that not a weird way to talk about a guy she is living with?

Run Boyfriend Run

not sure if you are just room mates that started sleeping together or if you were dating and a relationship before moving in together

I don't understand this " share " thing or " IOU " thing.
It sounds like psychological manipulation/ emotional abuse.

What is yours is yours. Take your sh@t & go!
If it is your place, throw him out.

Paul Simon - 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover + lyrics: http://youtu.be/298nld4Yfds/

^^^ditto^^^ Slip out the back, Jack... Get a new plan, Stan..

Is it the guys apartment and car?

Sounds to me that you aren't ok with your situation and the crap is going to hit the fan.Get things in order and let nature take its course.

If you are no longer in love with the guy enough to talk things over with him, the sooner you break up the better for the both of you in my opinion. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

If you're not happy leave