You saw that they were married when you chose to become friends, she has not made any move to try to meet you...if you chose to go forward with a friendship, i think her being honest now shouldnt be held against her....i do not believe that out of blue you asked if she ever cheated, you might think you did...but something in your heart or brain made you ask the question...now ask yourself why her answer really bothered you...only you know the answer...reach deep...learn more about yourself and your own enlightenment, morals, etc.
best wishes....

well i realize my picture makes me look kind of slow cuz my good friend convinced me that everyone would know i was winking...gotta love your friends...anyway i work on a private island and i get these rich tourist who call me to say there is a turtle stranded on the beach.....and since i am part of loggerhead program... haul ass---and at least twice a year its a *%#!!# horseshoe crab, years ago when i waitressed, a woman told me i am not sure i like grits could you bring me just one and i'll see---hey i am polite, educate them if they will listen to my slow voice, but youknow 1/2 the time they think i do not know what i am talking about....worked with soft shell crabs, do you think they would believe a female with a drawl could possibly explain that its not a different crab its a blue crab outgrowing its shell..

do you find that some people seem to think because you talk slow, that you are slow?

saint helen island(beaufort) for me too---and we are a

i like the idea but since i am 52 think that it would be cool to have an older and younger meet/different hours different agendas and if people were friends of all ages no hard and fast rules.... but i would hate to show up and be one of few older (couger) i am brand new here so have no friend base...so my opinion is still being formed......i am off the wall so i say go camping and take over the campground

when i was waitressing many years ago on 95# a woman told me i do not know if i would like grits can you bring me just 1 and let me try it?

my father gave me tough advice but it was true..." do not be a quitter but do be smart, do not beat a dead horse, get off the s.o.b. and look him in the face and if its dead take off walking..fast...........also told me i deserved better than an emotional cripple, that hurt...but i was with an emotional cripple. you are going to hurt but even when your heart is breaking it will not stop..its your life,walk fast.

try this mix a small container of sour cream, with about 3 tablespoons of good mustard, and 2 tablespoons of horseradish (or more for the brave which i am) dip those fried mushrooms in that..awesome...also if you slice the mushrooms in about 3 pieces they won't hold in that juice that makes them soggy so fast...or burn the hell out of you when you are trying to gobble down more than everyone else.

thanks from me too, feels sooo strange to start, but i have just been reading and now feel better...warm group here.

snowbirds headed south for summer