hmm try again out a$$hold an a$$hold

now that I like --mine is "you cannot out ******* an *******" once I tried but it finally dawned on me-I should be proud it didn't come natural, and I will never do it again

I have been on Mingle before twice and dropped off when I found someone both times. i have always been a one man woman. Both times the male dropped off too. Neither relationship worked out long term but I do not regret either.
This time around I believe that I will talk alot more in the forums and not have the expectations of a "one and only". I know it can and will happen for me one day. The trust that several have mentioned here of both of them remaining for the forums sounds healthy--i would love that for myself one day.
As far as you catching him on the site after he said he was going off--he knew you were disapointed, so if it was an accident if he was tuned into you he would have taken care of it. I have had the experiance of one guy going off of here because we were exclusive-BUT HE WENT ON ANOTHER FREE SITE--plenty fishy

Apparently I know some really messy women, cause I've known a bunch of women who leave dirty laundry on the floor. They also happened to be really creative and hilarious people.



Well now--I am creative and hilarious and I do like people to call first--but thats because my underwear on the floor is several sizes bigger than it was when I was less inhibitated.

now that was good. loved it

Its so hard--there is such a thin line between letting someone know you are interrested and appearing over eager and not desperate. I find I tell too much and apoligize repeatably with people I do not know--where as that is not something i do when I am comfortable.
There is alot to be said for slowing down--but you are torn about putting all your cards on the table. i just have to hope (and pray) that the right person will one day be at the same place and we click. I hope that for all of us.
When you finally meet-- Slow down and smile, catch her eye go for the connection that words cannot say.

Put me some potato salad and fried chicken on that plate, then get my cooler and bring it right here...

starting to feel a real tingle...sigh...

Try to keep up with me shorty

You snooze, you lose....

Hand me that bunny, would ya?

I am more comfortable on the forums on POF
many more to chose from. Planetstew there.

yea, he might be somebodies son...too bad he also might be someone's father and a poor excuse for a role model...part of solution or part of the problem--nothing is neutral or unaffected by your actions....

I loved like a penquin in bondage....at the time
I had a pair of black strappy high heals and i am
light skinned...i would tell people look-- I look like a penguin in bondage....I didnt understand
everybody didnt know all Zappa's songs...they thought I was nutz...still love me some Zappa(and black high heels)

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jeez...i do not want to insult anyone....but i do want to say that alot of men ask me for my regular e-mail address immediatly----i want to know if you have read my profile, men i m and have not read it...that is insulting...if you just tried to i m me and i havent read yours i am instantly uncomfortable.....my questions are do you have a drivers licence, do drugs, family orientled, have to be in a crowd every weekend...those are necessary questions i need to know before we go any further...i could care less if you want to give me a bubble bath---i know i do not want to be touched by a stranger today...and i want to know a whole lot more before we talk bubble baths....i was told i was cold unromantic and reminded him of his x wife...this was 2nd conversation if that makes me cold.....least i am safe..oh yea i work security.

DITTO... may there be miles of smiles for ourselves and loved ones....

hugs and smiles you feel but cannot see.....

actually i said something different than you did LOL...and any one who can read sees that...
just checking in saying hello....loggerhead turtles are laying eggs on beaches here and its an awesome experience....scheduled myself so i can be out in full moon to assist because may be more tonight....hope that wasnt too yawn boring..
night all....1stcharmme
yes, i too believe that we can say nice things to each other...thanks for compliment also Tom what you said was cool (LOL)

hi all....south carolina has it all ya'll

and mister you know that you are fine, of course we are all beautiful in our own way---still open to a under 40 and and a over 40 meet somewhere, or are ya'll doing one without invites?
still would love for us to go camping somewhere neutral in fall, tent camping or low maintence...