Most sites are overrun anymore but you get what you pay for...that should lead you down the right path to find legit women and they are not on free sites.

Free sites are a joke and this has become a game with me to see how many fakes I can bust in a day, LOL

based on experience I would say 99.5% of the women are fakes, frauds and scammers.

Most are young boys working in sweatshops in China and Ghana, they have horrible grammar, canned responses and can't answer normal question that any man would ask a woman.

Best of luck, there are better places to look

P.S. Ask yourself how many real women would want to establish a relationship with you from hours to thousands of miles away and you will figure this site out real fast.

That's rough, I lost one 5 months ago that was just shy of his 3rd birthday and my older Aussie laying beside me turns 13 tomorrow.

They are our children and we love them totally.

Take your time, you will find another furbaby to love.

Why not? Just because one guy was a POS doesn't mean that all the other ones you meet will be.

Give things a chance but be wary would be my advice and don't wear your heart on your sleeve,

You live in a large city with tons of guys around, you should have no problem finding a man your age that is a man and not a boy.

Profile says you have children that live at home but you also say you are undecided on having children...

Tell me all I need to know about you

LOL good luck on here with the 99% fake women.

Try another site you will have better luck, maybe

Why Mandy White, it is Kenna James well known porn actress.

Why hiding who you are on here unless you are a scammer just using someone else's pictures?

It takes a second on Google search for anyone that doesn't know you to find your face!

Read your "profile", yes you need help of a special kind and it is not related to blocking someone, more like being a fake account.

try a site that caters to that type of woman instead of all the frauds/scammers/fakes that are on here.

You might find better luck on a pay site since it tends to weed out the phonies

Based on what I have seen and the number of frauds I have reported (though nothing gets done about 99% of them). I would say easily 95% of both sexes are frauds/fakes/scammers.

They are so easy to recognize that I could write a simple script for their servers to catch them but they are too lazy or inept to do so themselves.

Why can we not state the age group and distance and the system NOT send me at 60 a 20 year old from the Philippines that wants an intimate relationship and marriage, when I say 50-70 in a 50 miles radius?

Their grammar is atrocious, the system can tell they are in Ghana or Chiana by their IP address and does nothing.

While I was typing this I was matched with a 23 year old from New York (800 miles away) LOL. Pitiful

Very, gay or not. I have tried a couple times and it never works out. Too easy to stumble on someone local and lose all interest in the other person that you most likely will never meet.

I have found it hard even from SE VA to the DC area and that is just a 3 hour drive. Too many eligible people around here and you sure as heck won't find them on this board most likely.

Think about this, do you really believe that someone you have never met and knows nothing about you would out of the blue match you and want a relationship from a thousand miles away? Hell a hundred miles away?

That is called a scammer and that is 95% of the people on this site anymore

Based on 99.9% of the women on this site being frauds/fakes/scammers just showing up would be pleasing.

Don't need the naked unless you are trying to distract him from something.

Being honest would be refreshing also instead of all the plastic yoga pants Barbies running around.

get divorced?

anyone that only has one phone number and uses dating sites is a fool, plain and simple.

cell phones are cheap especially pre-paid ones and if you don't have a burner until you really get to know someone you deserve what you get.

BTW like TxsGal says, sounds pretty darn suspicious

gee 99% or the women in here answer in one word answers like any bot or script kiddie would.

So you wonder why men don't talk? How about the women start doing some talking and carry on a conversation. I would hope some of the real ones on here have that ability.

Biggest give away to the fakes is the horrendous grammar that they use and the contrite phrases like "age doesn't matter"

There are other red flags you learn such as the scammer app requests like WhatsApp, KIK, Google Chat, etc. Anything to take you off the site where the admins can't see what is being said (not like that really maters much anyway).

I would find it VERY hard to believe that anyone is using a "deep fake" on a dating site. Been watching too much NCIS L.A. I would say if you believe that tech is so readily available to the average scammer. Oh and out of sync audio is not a surprise talking over the internet. Wave your hand in front of your webcam and watch the lag!

Most of these scammers are young boys in Accra, Ghana and China that do this for a meager living.

LOL like that works. Must be why I get matches from women 2000 miles away and 18 years old

Beach when the weather gets better, Busch Gardens, If you want to drive also Kings Dominion north of Richmond.

Lots of history, Revolutionary War, Civil War, etc.

I have lived here 40 years and it would take quite a bit of typing to tell you everything there is to do.

It all depends on what you like and want. Most likely all your desires are available

Nice to see someone with more half a brain. Your logic is spot on.

When you research slave states and the whole slavery issue it is very enlightening, but don't ever try to bring the facts to a liberal unless you want to be called a racist.

Ask them the last state to abolish slavery, the race of the first man to have registered slaves in America.

They just can't handle facts.

So very true and many other things are starting to come out about the whole Covid fiasco, and many other things that were obviously planned to throw an election.

People can remain with their heads in the sand and ignorant or wake up and actually look around them.

Interesting fact the only continent where healthy young atletic people are NOT randomly suddenly dying of heart attacks is Africa. Guess which continent did NOT have vaccine mandates? Sort of goes along with the Jan 6 BS.

Lies can only cover up for so long when many people know the truth, someone will always get "religion" and spill the beans.