is it hard dating someone across the country?

Very, gay or not. I have tried a couple times and it never works out. Too easy to stumble on someone local and lose all interest in the other person that you most likely will never meet.

I have found it hard even from SE VA to the DC area and that is just a 3 hour drive. Too many eligible people around here and you sure as heck won't find them on this board most likely.

Think about this, do you really believe that someone you have never met and knows nothing about you would out of the blue match you and want a relationship from a thousand miles away? Hell a hundred miles away?

That is called a scammer and that is 95% of the people on this site anymore