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I don't like FPS games... (yeah I said it again   )
Maybe if I got into them... but I don't care enough about them. Give me a sword...and now your talkin'
Agreed  a sword would take more skill to wield in the real world. Not that real guns are ever easy. It's just that a sword maybe requires some honor?
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religious extreemist members
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I understand the question. why are people acting double sided, feeding both sides. I dont even know how people do it. I am on the side of doubt, I find it hard to believe that A supreme being creates faulty products (humans) and then blames them for being the way they are. truth be told, if you are a creator of anything, and there are flaws in your creation. the flaws in the creation REFLECT flaws in the creator. if there are flaws in the creator then the creator cannot be all powerful. so therefore, the idea of god is a flaw because It was made with the human Mind. God therefore didnt make humans, humans made God You are quite correct. Good logical thinking. I hope you post often. Actually - this is a prototype example of fallious logic, and makes no sense at all. The assumed premise here is that man is analigous to any and everything he creates - thus attempting to equate God to man. However, there isn't anything on this planet created by man that comes even CLOSE to the creation of man himself - therefore to attempt to equate God's creation of man, and man's creation of anything as somehow being analogious or equal - is at best laughable, and in the absolute - delusional. You might want to reconsider the standard by which you qualify logic. But you're ASSUMING (and we all know what that does- makes an A$$ out of Adam) that the person in question has started out thinking and/or believing that there is a supreme being. If they do not, then their conclusion is logical. Your logic is excellent an example of fallacious (yeah that's called spell check!) logic because you surmise that one MUST start out believing what YOU do. If there were a supreme being that did create humanity in it's image then it created us to be analogous to it- or as close as it could get us to be. Take birth for example. "God" does not do this. We do- this supreme being is very scientific for it supposedly created the first humans. It may have created the souls of every human but it did not have any part in making any human after the first two. This is because of sex, all the components wherein conception is envolved and then birth. Heck, "God" created us to have sex- to make more of us- therefore becoming like it (as close as "God" could get without making more supreme beings like itself). |
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"When you first meet a new cat, it’s usually startled when you first approach. It may not necessarily take flight but it will take precautions until it feel’s your not a predator with any type of agenda. Until the cat gets more familiar with whom you are and the scent you carry; you must believe that you are approaching with no intentions to “picking up the cat.” Notice that usually when you try to move around with the cat after first meeting it, it tends to want to disperse away. Well the same result would occur with a woman due to the high level of compliance you’re asking while she has little data and not enough comfort with you. Just like how you can tell the current emotional state/mood of a cat by the angle of its ears, you can tell about a woman by her current emotional state and conversation she gives you which are feedback you can acknowledge to know what input you’re receiving, therefore making it easy to communicate with her because you understand where she is in that moment. Is it an indication of disinterest, demonstration of lower value, compliance test, indication of interest, or a demonstration of higher value? None the less the more time you spend in field then the more calibrated and awareness you will have of your environment, particularly social settings. In other words you will always know of what’s REALLY going on while others think they do. (People with really advanced game know what I mean. So remember when a movement is implemented it should be calibrated, smooth, confident, playful, and accurate. At the same time have that belief of being internally strong with no regrets or reasons why you as a man can’t step up if something caught your curiosity. However, don’t put yourself in a situation where you become that guy, “I must pet this cat.” Then you will notice your possibilities slimming down especially when you feel she’s got potential From there if you continue to game in the wrong direction you got yourself a restraining order. So how would you approach a cat? That’s how you approach a woman." http://www.venusianarts.com/women-are-like-cats-part-1/ This is a nice theory. If guys did approch women in a more friendly matter and were actually friendly- with no expectations other then meeting the woman or "cat" in question... It might work. But, that's the thing. Not all women are cats. Some are more dangerous then a house pet. |
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For the ladies
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I think what TheShadow is really asking is that while many of you believe in "50/50", if a guy takes you on a first date and says "So we going Dutch or what?" at the end of it, it wouldn't be a good first impression. So we know what the expectations are. He question more revolves around, so guys to this and this and that, what do you women do in return? And just for the record, Valentine's day is a commercial holiday that is just another day on a guy's wallet  Too bad we don't have a "white day" like in Japan where it's the girls turn to buy the guy chocolates and stuff. 50/50 and everything you know? 
Valentine's Day is when the females give stuff (typically chocolate) to the males in Japan. White Day is when guys give the gals stuff (typically something white) in return. |
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For the ladies
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I don't actually know what it was like for a lot of people. But here's what I've observed from older couples including my parents. He "brings home the bacon" then plants his butt in front of the tv, waiting for supper and generally ignoring the kids.
The women clean, do laundry, take care of the kids, make meals, do the shopping, budget, etc. Many of those things are just taken for granted. To this day my Mother still does all of that, including ironing for hours every week aside from her day job. It's no wonder she's exhausted and doesn't feel special. He gets hot meals and lunches everyday while she works her *** off just so he doesn't complain about the dust on some shelves he could easily get up and clean himself. Do I think 50/50 works? It could? Maybe. I won't hold my breath. I've been on dates where no one asked- we just paid for our own things and that was fine. I feel uncomfortable when a guy does pay. I don't know if he'd expect something in return and I'm not that kind of gal. I don't mind having the door opened for me...but it's always weird if they try to get to the door before I do just to do it. I'm fine opening the door myself thanks. AS for doing things in return for me feeling special in a relationship...it's different with different people. There's not always a set rule of things. Although, my ex did love the little hand massages I'd give him. |
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Eyes and a smile (an excellent arse...cuz what else do you hold on to when-?) Heh. He can look as good as he wants but if he's a butthead he's a butthead. I want someone I can talk to and laugh with.
Hmm laugh lines... |
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Your Thoughts????
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I had gym teachers/coaches of both genders. From grade school all the way up and various afterschool activities- they never entered the locker rooms. They would tell us what they had planned for the class or lesson that day then send us in, giving us a time when we were expected to be out and ready to go.
It shouldn't matter what sexuality you are. Because really when you get down to it if some teacher/coach decided to touch a student it's wrong. |
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sooooo anyways...on a lighter side. lets say men are dogs..hypothetically,of course 
lets see whats so bad about dogs.. they pee where they want...kinda like men. they are loving and faithful,for the most part...kinda like men. they also love to go running out of the yard,and sometimes they dont come back....kinda like men.. they will adore you..as long as you feed them...kinda like men.. if they see another dog on their turf...its on!..kinda like men.. they Always check out the other female dogs...kinda like men.. they never clean up after themselves...kinda like men.. see where im going with this?? how else are men like dogs? *disclaimer* the poster in no way believes all men OR women are dogs..so save the hate and just relate. 
They always jump *up* when you come home. |
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Games can be a really fun thing to do with someone you care about or at a party (no matter ones age- hoho I'm so old here!!
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I do find it annoying when the volume goes too high- my kid brother used to play loudly causing him to scream and swear loudly when he lost or was killed. It just looks bad on a person when you get so upset at a game that you start fights with your family, having woke them at three in the morning. Other then that I love games. Especially ones with ninjas or vampires (not the super faggy sparkles things- cuz gross). And I don't have the money to buy Arkham Asylum but I want it hard. |
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kaadeshka
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Sat 02/06/10 09:20 PM
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My question to the OP is: Do you often find yourself on a leash? Dressed in stupid costumes? Fed kibles? Carried in purses? Baby talked to?
If so, then the women you're involving yourself with might be confusing you for a dog. The only reasonable conclusion I can draw from this is that these women are not very intelligent, and therefore not that compatible with you. Perhaps a different social circle? |
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tell me what you think
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The first part was very...depressing...
"...I never try to meet girls anymore. i given that up long ago. Besides it gets me no where and I failed from it all my life. I just take things as they come by floating through life and whatever happens happens. I just don't care no more as long as I am making money at my job that's all that matters. If I stay single the rest of my life so be it. Everything's for a reason. Yeah, I just take things as they come and don't sweat the ladies anymore. I am not a social person either, I hate going out, I hate public places; I just want to move to the country away from everything." First off: "girls" why not females or better yet women. Girls are females who are...children or sound like they aren't of legal age. Secondly: "i given that up long ago." Would you really be on a dating site if you had given up meeting women? Thirdly, you sound a little bitter: "Besides it gets me no where and I failed from it all my life." Though what you've failed I can hardly imagine since "it" could be anything at all. And "I just don't care no more as long as I am making money at my job that's all that matters. If I stay single the rest of my life so be it." Doesn't sound exactly encouraging to women who might be interested in you (if they weren't scared off already). Heh, Fourthly? Or would it be Quarterly? Whatever..: "I am not a social person either, I hate going out, I hate public places; I just want to move to the country away from everything." I don't know about most ladies, but I'd like to be able to go out, have friends, etc- there's nothing wrong with being a hermit. Though, usually, hermits are singular and live by themselves. As in 'NOT with anyone else'. But, hey, who am I to say you won't find someone made for you? Just don't give up hope dude! After that first paragraph you seem to lighten up and seem to be interesting and nice enough... |
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Women in combat
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Quite frankly I'm torn. I like to fight, been in lots of fights and usually came out the winner, but I don't like guns. I do however know more girls that are a better shot then most guys. My mother for one can do more damage with a gun then my dad could ever hope...
Do I believe my period woulb be a factor in battle? F**k no. There are tons of reasons why, but Tampons are the last option I would think of to bring with me. There are other ways to do deal with it. And as for crotch itch- some are more prone to it then others. Same as guys. That's hardly a reason to nill women from the field. Do I think the rape thing a concern? Very much so. But, I feel that it would easily be solved if the raper(s) had the same things done to them... buncha unattractive, lusty ladies, with dildos. It would stop the raping of your fellow combatants pretty quick I'd think... As for where a woman or a man belong. That's the most sad thing I've ever heard. I know more nancy boys who are afraid of spiders, snakes, and various other creepy crawly things then I am. Who is anyone to say that a person should not be allowed something based upon their gender or even their sexuality? If they are capable nothing else should matter. Not the parts between their legs or ill preconcieved notions of weaker or stronger. |
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religious extreemist members
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You cannot kill a breeze, a wind , a fragrance you cannot kill a dream or an ambition. God, manufactured by mortals in their own quintessential image, exists only to make daliy life bearable despite the path that everyone of us treads toward extinction. As long as men are obliged to die, some of them unable to endure teh prospect will concoct fond illusions. we cannot assassinate or kill an illusion. In fact, Illusion is more likely to kill us- For God puts to death everything that stands up to him, Begining with Reason, Intelligence and the Critical Mind. All the rest follows in a Chain reaction. My opinion, its very true in order to use faith you have to close the eye of reason God is not manufactured, he is as real as you and I. And not all men are abliged to die, the only ones that will die are those who deny God, and or do not keep the commandments the best they can. The rest of man will be rewarded with heaven and have eternal life. "HE" Your God is always described as MALE. If there is a perfect creator I find it hard to believe that IT would have a sex closer to man. Why is that? I have to agree with Frank- Man made the God and Bible to suit his needs. Not to spread the love and acceptance Jesus maybe talked of. Have beliefs and faiths. Don't use it to spread discontent among your fellow humans just because you refuse to accept them. God has no gender, i do not know of one verse where it calls God a he. There is no need for gender in heaven for different genders is for reproduction and their is no need for reproduction in heaven. And yet you continue to call God a he. And many of you do. You also probably expect the woman to stay home with the children, do all the house chores and have your dinner on the table by the time you get home from work. Regardless if there was a perfect creator. How could IT possibly be jealous? And that is in the Bible- that it's a jealous God. Jealousy is supposedly a human fault. How could something be perfect possibly function with such faulty programing? |
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It's official
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You can't tell a 12 yr old nuthin, they've already been there and done that. They know more about life than some silly "old person"! They watch MTV, they know whats happenin in the the world cause they've watched the "real world". 
I told her she better hurry up and move out while she still knows everything.
You'll get tired of that one real quick- My parents still say that to my kid brother. He's twenty ...for some reason ever since they started saying that he's bound and determined to stick around out of spite...
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religious extreemist members
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You cannot kill a breeze, a wind , a fragrance you cannot kill a dream or an ambition. God, manufactured by mortals in their own quintessential image, exists only to make daliy life bearable despite the path that everyone of us treads toward extinction. As long as men are obliged to die, some of them unable to endure teh prospect will concoct fond illusions. we cannot assassinate or kill an illusion. In fact, Illusion is more likely to kill us- For God puts to death everything that stands up to him, Begining with Reason, Intelligence and the Critical Mind. All the rest follows in a Chain reaction. My opinion, its very true in order to use faith you have to close the eye of reason God is not manufactured, he is as real as you and I. And not all men are abliged to die, the only ones that will die are those who deny God, and or do not keep the commandments the best they can. The rest of man will be rewarded with heaven and have eternal life. "HE" Your God is always described as MALE. If there is a perfect creator I find it hard to believe that IT would have a sex closer to man. Why is that? I have to agree with Frank- Man made the God and Bible to suit his needs. Not to spread the love and acceptance Jesus maybe talked of. Have beliefs and faiths. Don't use it to spread discontent among your fellow humans just because you refuse to accept them. |
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It's official
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Maybe if you sit her down and explain to her why you decided it was a bad idea for her to go? Maybe share some life experience?
My parents did shelter me pretty badly, but they always told me why- and while sometimes I end up upsetting them with my freakish ways I'm mostly glad they did. They've saved me from a lot of really stupid things. She'll eventually (maybe) regret acting like a brat once you've told her the reasons behind your decisions. |
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First Meeting
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Personally I found it strange that he new exactly what you were thinking and tried to accuse you of fear. A valid fear for anyone no matter gender.
Seems to me he was guilty of something aside from being a huge creep. |
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Dear John, I hope you can help me. The other day, I set off for work, leaving my husband in the house watching TV. My car stalled and then it broke down about a mile down the road, and I had to walk back to get my husband's help. When I got home, I couldn't believe my eyes. He was in our bedroom with the neighbor's daughter! I am 32, my husband is 34 and the neighbor's daughter is 19. We have been married for ten years. When I confronted him, he broke down and admitted that they had been having an affair for the past six months. He won't go to counseling, and I'm afraid I am a wreck and need advice urgently. Can you please help? Sincerely, Sheila ***************************** Dear Sheila, A car stalling after being driven a short distance can be caused by a variety of faults with the engine. Start by checking that there is no debris in the fuel line. If it is clear, check the vacuum pipes and hoses on the intake manifold, and also check all grounding wires. If none of these approaches solves the problem, it could be that the fuel pump itself is faulty, causing low delivery pressure to the injectors. I hope this helps, John As for the neighbours daughter, how hot is she?!! Ya know. Thinking about it, you're right. She needs a tow truck or maybe the neighbor girl has a truck and tow rope. Or they could talk about the man they're both involved with... Or even more unrealistically! They could get into a fight and tear the clothes from one another...Geez. |
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take a look
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It was a nice read. Though under your interests you put "danceing"
 Try to take some pictures with a three quarter shot of your face- you're not an unattractive man- but the quarter shot is always much nicer to look at JMIO.
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Number of partners
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I've been asked similar questions by a few male friends. It seems to be quite an issue for some people. I always have the same answer.
If you want to know be prepaired for the truth. If you don't want details don't ask. Be prepaired to be asked in return. I was asked once. If I remember correctly he was was stunned. Apparently you don't find many twenty-year old virgins. I wonder why it's such a big deal because I don't see it as an issue about the "town whore" thing so much as a health risk. ...I've also found that just because someone IS pretty much rumoured to be experienced doesn't make them any good at anything. Seriously, had more fun by myself
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