any and all comments will be appreciated

Kirk.
Very endearing profile.
You come through clearly.

I take it, New Hampshire "got" country?
Women LUV a good chef.
And shellfish.
And cats.

The only wanky thing I saw was when you said you were white.
Let your stats say that. Less pointed, ya know?

Chat in the forums and you are made :-)

The first part was very...depressing...

"...I never try to meet girls anymore. i given that up long ago. Besides it gets me no where and I failed from it all my life. I just take things as they come by floating through life and whatever happens happens. I just don't care no more as long as I am making money at my job that's all that matters. If I stay single the rest of my life so be it. Everything's for a reason. Yeah, I just take things as they come and don't sweat the ladies anymore. I am not a social person either, I hate going out, I hate public places; I just want to move to the country away from everything."

First off: "girls" why not females or better yet women. Girls are females who are...children or sound like they aren't of legal age.

Secondly: "i given that up long ago." Would you really be on a dating site if you had given up meeting women?

Thirdly, you sound a little bitter: "Besides it gets me no where and I failed from it all my life." Though what you've failed I can hardly imagine since "it" could be anything at all. And "I just don't care no more as long as I am making money at my job that's all that matters. If I stay single the rest of my life so be it." Doesn't sound exactly encouraging to women who might be interested in you (if they weren't scared off already).

Heh, Fourthly? Or would it be Quarterly? Whatever..: "I am not a social person either, I hate going out, I hate public places; I just want to move to the country away from everything." I don't know about most ladies, but I'd like to be able to go out, have friends, etc- there's nothing wrong with being a hermit. Though, usually, hermits are singular and live by themselves. As in 'NOT with anyone else'.

But, hey, who am I to say you won't find someone made for you? Just don't give up hope dude! After that first paragraph you seem to lighten up and seem to be interesting and nice enough...

thanks guys i changed a couple things

take the negativity out of 1st paragraph try being more positive Kirk

Ahhhh.
Another man who listens.
Nicely done on the changes :-)
Believe me.
The profile nazis are gooood :-)

ok ill be serious for a moment..... your first date... flowers nice dinner then take her home? to cuddle? boy that would definately make me wanna run honestly.. how about a pic of u at work.. since you love what you do..... of you cooking.. that would be cool!!

now not so serious... on your interests... eating out? lmao do you mean dinning out?

serious again..i think you are a handsome man kirk... i wonder if the problems u have had in the past with dating could be you move too fast? not sure... remember your statement... if you have to be single for the rest of your life u are ok with that.... so wh not take your time when u date?

I suggest your first date be flowers, dinner, then back to your place to polish off that bottle of Johnny Walker...

...THEN the cuddling.

Work the Ohio thing. Although a buckeye is a worthless nut. Never worked for me but good luck.....